My teenage son

[AFeedz]

I was out of line too, since we're getting all sensitive and homoerotic

I bet you deer slaughter in all pink everything.

 

[zwhit]

I bet you deer slaughter in all pink everything.

I go straight when I'm hunting. kind of hard to shoot a gun with a limp wrist

 

[kitstreasure]

V, as a mom of both a teen son and a pre-teen daughter, I have one thing to say: YOU DID THE RIGHT THING. The girl's mom probably had some clue things were gettin' hot and heavy between her daughter and your son, hence them having him over to meet him, but even if she didn't she needs to know just HOW hot and heavy things were gettin'. I know if it were my daughter involved, I would want to be told if her boyfriend's mom knew something I possibly didn't. Does that mean that it would be a comfortable conversation for me? No. Does that mean I might go quiet as I try to figure out WTH to do with the information? Probably. Don't sweat about it. Just try to make sure all involved know that the lines of communication are open on your end and that you're willing to discuss this with any/everyone involved.

HTH

 

[dvoted]

What you did was fine, I would have done the same thing, however, all you can do is talk to him/them about it, to abstain from it (if thats what you wish) although, in relatively if they want to do it, they will. So either discuss abstinence for a certain period of time, or, all together, or speak about safe sex and the consequences if this approach isn't taken. be blunt and harsh, let them know reality, its not a fantasy i.e porn but the real deal.

 

[C0LUMB0]

lol

 

[dabuffguy]

Nobody fucking cares

Haha

Easy on the ladies bro.

 

[miplank]

who fuckin asked you

 

[burnthiscorpse]

Is fully mopped and considered going easy?

 

[bigbassturd]

Can I oil spill?

 

[goin on 4T]

But I have to remember that it's the hard things that are the right things sometimes. I'm not here to be his best friend or win a popularity contest, I'm here to be his mother.

That's why I don't care if I stepped on the girl's mom's toes. I have to protect my son.

Yes you are a mother first, your job is not to his friend. He will not like all the choices you make for him as a child now but when he is older he will appreciate the hard work and effort you put into making sure he didn't ruin his life at 14 or 15.
Parents who try to be their children's friend fail their children. Parents should have their own friends and kids their own friends. Now that doesn't mean to treat your kids like shit. Lastly, friends don't always have their friends best interest at heart but parents better damn well have it.
So if he doesn't speak to you for a few days. That just means you probably did the right thing. Suck it up and enjoy the peace and quite for a few days. This coming from a guy with 50/50 custody of 4 girls. It ain't easy.


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