My GF has ZERO sex drive

[blueta2]

That's funny that you mentioned the "dirty thirties," because she even brought that up. As far as pain, she doesn't mention any...besides the occassional "too hard/too deep." She was hoping there was some type of over-the-counter supp she could try before going to her Dr.

If there was a supp, the makers would be RICH! The sup would be weed or wine
Seriously, she should get some blood work done, just to rule anything out. I mean once a week is not a bad thing. If she were not into sex at all, I would be worried.
The pill may be suppressing her libido. Hormones are a funny thing,
And AllAboutWhey's comment about getting men's advice, well I don't think ANY MAN knows a woman's body like a woman does.

 

[all the whey]

Yeah, I was ignoring the whole "forget about having a girlfriend" thing...

She's 32, I'm 33. Throughout the whole relationship, sex has been infrequent...even in the beginning. I'm pretty sure it has nothing to do with her losing interest, considering she's been initiating several "moving in together" talks lately...

I only said "forget about having a girlfriend" because it is better to get out of a relationship you are having trouble with before you get married and have kids. (if the problem can't be solved)

Now, if you are starting a thread about your girlfriends sex drive while she is initiating several "moving in together" talks Then, you have a more serious problem you need to work on.

I am sure I can get some backing from the guys that girls have more sex when they are "talking about moving in" "getting married" "getting a new home" "having kids". If her sex drive is too low during these periods, then it will be waaaaay to low after she gets the above items. Ask your married friends if the sex doesn't slow down if you don't believe me.

Good luck

 

[Stryker1992]

That is solid and honest advice. However, I did assume he was younger and mentioned about not having to have a girlfriend. Most younger people stay in their first relationships longer than they should.

Bro, rule number 1 is never ask women about relationship advice. Lets get some guys in here.

Fuck, you should have met my ex-wife, once a month, then once every two months...etc. On top of that the sex was terrible. But, in the end she sure did fuck me hard!

 

[blueta2]

Just know men, women also need a good chase. When men are "needy" for sex all the time, it makes the women less challenged.
It's called the Pepe La Peu syndrome!
Make us beg for it

 

[resqguy]

That is solid and honest advice. However, I did assume he was younger and mentioned about not having to have a girlfriend. Most younger people stay in their first relationships longer than they should.

Bro, rule number 1 is never ask women about relationship advice. Lets get some guys in here.

I'm not asking about relationship advice. Our relationship is great. My girlfriend is concernced about her lack of libido, so I thought I ask some of the women here on EF. So, really, thanks...but since you don't have a vagina (at least, I'm pretty sure you don't...), leave the womens' sexual health questions to the women.

 

[blueta2]

I'm pretty sure he has a vagina ;-)

 

[resqguy]

I only said "forget about having a girlfriend" because it is better to get out of a relationship you are having trouble with before you get married and have kids. (if the problem can't be solved)

Now, if you are starting a thread about your girlfriends sex drive while she is initiating several "moving in together" talks Then, you have a more serious problem you need to work on.

I am sure I can get some backing from the guys that girls have more sex when they are "talking about moving in" "getting married" "getting a new home" "having kids". If her sex drive is too low during these periods, then it will be waaaaay to low after she gets the above items. Ask your married friends if the sex doesn't slow down if you don't believe me.

Good luck

You're an idiot. At no time did I write that my GF and I were "having trouble." My girlfriend is simply concerned about her life-long lack of libido. Bro, how old are you anyway??? Please...go away...

 

[txbondsman]

That is solid and honest advice. However, I did assume he was younger and mentioned about not having to have a girlfriend. Most younger people stay in their first relationships longer than they should.

Bro, rule number 1 is never ask women about relationship advice. Lets get some guys in here.

Man, R U F'ng kidding!? your so far out from reality that you really don't need to give advise at all to this young man. You need to go back to the village that you came from, somebodys missing their idiot.

young man, you have some good advise on here already, GG is a good gurl and the others will help too. The girls are solid people and they won't give bull shit advise to somebody whose asking a serious question. If a question about sex isn't serious, ask the one who isn't getting satisfied.

You pay attention to what their posting and answer the questions to the best of your knowledge, you'll find answers here.
Tx

the only thing that I was going add, GG covered, antidepressants, but you answered that one. Ladies? check with a doc, possible hormone inballance?

 

[resqguy]

It's definitely not chemically induced, i.e. anti-depressants. My GF is under a pretty decent amount of stress...job, family drama, etc. She just started working out again last month after a year layoff...she's hoping the activity will stimulate something.

 

[blueta2]

It's definitely not chemically induced, i.e. anti-depressants. My GF is under a pretty decent amount of stress...job, family drama, etc. She just started working out again last month after a year layoff...she's hoping the activity will stimulate something.

I can tell you this, I've been working out for 8 yrs. I am 40 now. In my first 6 months of working out (I went hard, like 6 days a week for 3 hrs) I was HORNY day and night. Bed posts were turning me on. It went on for years.
Working out may help her.