My GF has ZERO sex drive

[cyrex]

have her see a doc and then find a therapist IMMEDIATELY you say it is not causing problems, but I am 8 years into a relationship with a woman who also has no sex drive (and actually gets no pleasure out of it even when she is aroused) and while it wasn't so bad early on, it is horrible now.

 

[Frisky]

I didn't get to read all the responses, but I will tell you that I'm in my early 30's and my sex drive is insane... as in 2 @ day's... Training makes it even more insane for me. Body image and being comfortable with your mate is a plus.

Have you ever tried to just pamper her, not expecting sex... body massage, get the blood pumping...

I really don't have a solid answer to this question beings I've never had this problem... the one thing I do know is that the more sex I get the more I want.

The pill isn't helping things though... ask her to check into the IUD (copper T) no hormones at all...

 

[resqguy]

I didn't get to read all the responses, but I will tell you that I'm in my early 30's and my sex drive is insane... as in 2 @ day's... Training makes it even more insane for me. Body image and being comfortable with your mate is a plus.

Have you ever tried to just pamper her, not expecting sex... body massage, get the blood pumping...

I really don't have a solid answer to this question beings I've never had this problem... the one thing I do know is that the more sex I get the more I want.

The pill isn't helping things though... ask her to check into the IUD (copper T) no hormones at all...

Pampering happens all the time, and it ALWAYS leads to sex. I take pretty good care of her...foot rubs are a regular occurance.

In addition to her work/family stress, I think body image has a lot to do with it as well. She's BUILT. She has a great body, but she's very self-conscious and insecure. And regardless of how often I compliment her, she's still convinced that she needs to look better...it's unfortunate.

 

[cyrex]

after reading more of your responses to other's responses it sounds like you just want her to be riding you 24/7 ... relax take your hand out for a date once and a while.

 

[resqguy]

after reading more of your responses to other's responses it sounds like you just want her to be riding you 24/7 ... relax take your hand out for a date once and a while.

Really? Perhaps you should read my responses again.