Married with Children? You're amongst the elite in America.

[Longhorn85]

Remember, when you sit here and degrade and talk down to single moms of this world... on the other side of that fence their is a male that also helped create this situation.

I'm not degrading single moms. There are many unavoidable circumstances which can lead to that, and a kids can and often does thrive in that situation.

I am saying that kids tend to be better off in a home with two married parents (mom and dad).

Systems in our society that discourage marriage and encourage shacking up, quicky divorce, etc. are harmful to the institution of marriage and family.

 

[Longhorn85]

I also am wholly confident that my child won't starve. I make enough to care for a baby. My income alone would be equivalent to two middle class parents.

Is that why you find yourself today as a 40 year old woman living with her parents?

 

[Frisky]

I'm not degrading single moms. There are many unavoidable circumstances which can lead to that, and a kids can and often does thrive in that situation.

I am saying that kids tend to be better off in a home with two married parents (mom and dad).

Systems in our society that discourage marriage and encourage shacking up, quicky divorce, etc. are harmful to the institution of marriage and family.

I am currently 'shaked up' and couldn't be happier. I was married for 11 years, and quite miserable twords the end, which ended in divorce and two kids that really were miserable with us being together. My kids are very loved and provided for.

Marriage is a law created by man, I will forever think of it that way and have since the day I was old enough to even know how to spell it. I know the whole dynamics of how law of the land pertains to what the bible says... etc... but I still don't feel like I need another mortal to bless a relationship for me. I am loyal, devoted and a great mother and SO, no paper in the world could possibly make me better...

 

[heatherrae]

Is that why you find yourself today as a 40 year old woman living with her parents?

I'm not 40, nor do I live with my parents. Once again, you show your extreme IGNORANCE

 

[heatherrae]

Once again, and for the 10 time, probably:

HAVE YOU EVER HAD SEX OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE?
HAVE YOU EVER COMMITED ADULTERY?

If so, how do you justify criticizing people for being single parents when you may have a baby out of wedlock that you dont even know about?


Is anyone else noticicing that he is avoiding this question? LOLOLOLOL

I've never met a bigger hypocrite.

 

[jackangel]

Is that why you find yourself today as a 40 year old woman living with her parents?

is that a sincere question, or a small attack disguised as a valid point? do you know enough to make the point? might not be so nice.

 

[heatherrae]

I'm not degrading single moms. There are many unavoidable circumstances which can lead to that, and a kids can and often does thrive in that situation.

I am saying that kids tend to be better off in a home with two married parents (mom and dad).

Systems in our society that discourage marriage and encourage shacking up, quicky divorce, etc. are harmful to the institution of marriage and family.

I think you clearly are degrading single moms, non-christians, and homosexuals because we don't have a life that mirrors your own. Everyone is morally inferior to you, in your eyes.

 

[Jimsbbc]

I think you clearly are degrading single moms, non-christians, and homosexuals because we don't have a life that mirrors your own. Everyone is morally inferior to you, in your eyes.

That is typical of wealthy, educated neo-cons from the affluent society I grew up in. It makes me want to puke. It is a prevalent, elitist mentality that they are better and entitled to this great life and the others below them, socioeconomically and ideologically speaking, are throw-away people.

 

[heatherrae]

That is typical of wealthy, educated neo-cons from the affluent society I grew up in. It makes me want to puke. It is a prevalent, elitist mentality that they are better and entitled to this great life and the others below them, socioeconomically and ideologically speaking, are throw-away people.

The thing that amazes me the most is that ANYONE who has had sex outside the bond of marriage would insult people for having children outside of marriage. Clearly, that is how children outside of marriage come about...lol. Does it not seem radically hypocritical to anyone else? lol.

Yes, I know what you mean, jimsbbc. I grew up poor but have been around mainly very wealthy and very well educated people since law school, just by virtue of my profession. I have found them to be far more unempathetic and nasty to anyone who did not chose to pursue higher education, get married, move to the suburbs, and have 3 kids, in that particular order.

 

[velvett]

This is one of those threads where you think to yourself, "I just didn't see it turning out this way."