Long distance relationship

[THeMaCHinE]

You can always find exceptions, but the odds are overwhelimingly against the relationship working out.

There's no way to say this without sounding harsh (and that's not my intention), but this is a very important question: if you love her so much, why are you moving away? A job? A job won't be there at your side when you're on your deathbed.

If you're going to move, I'd just cut it short, so that both of you can go on living your lives... lives that include a tangible presence of your respective partners...

 

[SpeedFreak5]

It is VERY hard. My girl and I were together for 10 months and she is currently overseas. We both are VERY busy and when she comes back it will have been 8 weeks apart. We had 10 months to get to know each other and spend every day together though...we got to KNOW each other.

Also, I trust her and she trusts me...and we BOTH but a HUGE effort into our relationship right now.

B True

Sounds like your chick is in the military and is doing a det. If so, it's only two months don't show to much stress on this or it could be bad. Second I know girls who go on det and are totally faithful and then there are some that take the time to party and get let loose. either way it's a gamble like everything else in a relationship you got to just let things fall into place. Know that if she had slept with anyone else it doesn't mean she aint coming back to you, and also that's her business not yours so don't try to find out. Another thing keep yourself clean that way you don't risk fuckin it up and you'll always know that you were an honarable man if things do go wrong.

 

[Gymgurl]

Hey just remeber to enjoy lots of phone sex!!

 

[lamamacita]

It can work if you have lots of trust and are willing to work at it. I speak from much experience!

 

[DBCooper]

2.5 hours ain't that far imo.

 

[HighIntensity]

did it for a long time...

we saw each other 4 days out of the month. No one worked harder then the two of us at keeping it together.

BUT

In the end it is so difficult. Why because the human body needs touch, smell, feeling to be in love. Sure you can work your ass off at keeping it together, but at some point one of you could waiver.

I mean it is so hard to compete with 4 days when other guys have daily interaction. Sure you are the one she loves but when that affection is right there it takes a really strong person to no eventually eat the apple.

In my case she was the one who waivered, after 3 years it damn near killed me.

 

[Buffy Beffy]

Hey Mister had some good words IMO.

 

[b fold the truth]

Sounds like your chick is in the military and is doing a det. If so, it's only two months don't show to much stress on this or it could be bad. Second I know girls who go on det and are totally faithful and then there are some that take the time to party and get let loose. either way it's a gamble like everything else in a relationship you got to just let things fall into place. Know that if she had slept with anyone else it doesn't mean she aint coming back to you, and also that's her business not yours so don't try to find out. Another thing keep yourself clean that way you don't risk fuckin it up and you'll always know that you were an honarable man if things do go wrong.

She is Greek and From Cyprus. She moved back home.

B True

 

[ZKaudio]

honestly bro.. unless she is your heart and soul... NOT WORTH IT... it's always cool for awhile but ends up being SUCH a headache =/

 

[b fold the truth]

honestly bro.. unless she is your heart and soul... NOT WORTH IT... it's always cool for awhile but ends up being SUCH a headache =/

I am crazy about this woman. Seriously. She IS my other half...I truly believe that. We look and talk totally differently...among so many other things...but I believe that we were put on this Earth to be together.

I'm not sure why God would create two people on the opposite sides of the Earth...and mean for them to be together. After knowing her for a week, she sat down to me and looked me in the eyes...with tears falling down her face. She looked up and said "Clint Darden, I have been in nearly every country in the World and I end up in Murray, Kentucky to meet the man of my dreams. How is that possible?"

I had no idea what to say. I was just thinking that I am a HUGE patriot for my country...and I was in love with a foreigner...

B True