Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Ok ladies I am about to be 30 and my girlfriend is 20. Now I understand that most of you are probably saying Craddle Robber but it is not like that I fully intend upon marrying this woman. We have been together for over a year now and I fully intend on marrying her. I have always dated women around my age before and never seemed to work out. With her our life is awesome everything from our social life to our sex life is great she is mature to the point were I can talk to her about anything and at the same time never lets me forget that I am as young as I feel. I just wanted the ladies of the boards opinion on whether they prefer dating older, younger or men of thier same age just to see if our happiness is in the norm or just my incredible luck.
Ladies in your opinion which is better dating younger or older men?
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jennifer BFL chick
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I like to stay with in my own age group--- 21 to 26, but really it depends on the situation, and the person. If you are happy, then don't worry about the age thing, just go with it! I'm happy for you.
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The only time I would raise my brows is when the younger of the two is very young. (And that is only because YOU ASKED).
20 seems a bit on the youngish side to be w/a 30 year old, but then again who the hell am I to talk? I started dating my husband when I was BARELY 21 and he 27....though I am a bit older and MUCH WISER NOW.
Good luck to you.
For the record, I have always dated men who were older. I only dated guys that were my age once and it sucked. I just can not see myself going youger though...maybe somebody will just have to teach this old dog some new tricks - LOL!
20 seems a bit on the youngish side to be w/a 30 year old, but then again who the hell am I to talk? I started dating my husband when I was BARELY 21 and he 27....though I am a bit older and MUCH WISER NOW.
Good luck to you.
For the record, I have always dated men who were older. I only dated guys that were my age once and it sucked. I just can not see myself going youger though...maybe somebody will just have to teach this old dog some new tricks - LOL!
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bikinimom said:The only time I would raise my brows is when the younger of the two is very young. (And that is only because YOU ASKED).
20 seems a bit on the youngish side to be w/a 30 year old, but then again who the hell am I to talk? I started dating my husband when I was BARELY 21 and he 27....though I am a bit older and MUCH WISER NOW.
Good luck to you.
For the record, I have always dated men who were older. I only dated guys that were my age once and it sucked. I just can not see myself going youger though...maybe somebody will just have to teach this old dog some new tricks - LOL!
You have never met the Captain before, this may explain some things...
Rugbyrebel
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I like older men better, but I guess is does depend on the situation.
jennifer BFL chick
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I usually have older guys after me--- and black guys. Not that it really matters, but I would say about 80% of the guys that ask me out are black or older. Hey I like a little brown sugar, so I'm not complaining, just making an observation.
I live in Utah too! One of the most white states in America.
But each person is totally different. I could never say "oh, I would never date anyone older/younger then...." I'm very open minded to it all.
I live in Utah too! One of the most white states in America.
But each person is totally different. I could never say "oh, I would never date anyone older/younger then...." I'm very open minded to it all.
Kit Kat, where did you come from all of a sudden? Anyway, your picture is very attractive. Maybe the reason younger men ask you out is because you're a hottie - they can't help it.
I'm only 28, but I usually end up with women 29-36. I don't plan on it per-say, but younger women tend to be so naive and dingy. Most women I meet who are under 27 are usually very unsure of themselves, timid, afraid of real men, and will only go out with a man if their friends approve first.
I firmly believe that women (who work out) get more attractive in their thirties. I'd say a woman usually peaks out at around 34-37. Not to mention, older women are more confident, attracted to strong, real men, and carry themselves sexier. They tend to have less emotional attachment issues and can loosen up easier.
BFL, I am definitely surprised that young white men don't ask you out!!! You must live around a bunch of pussies. If you were in the Atlanta area, you'd go out at least 3-5 times a week! I can't really blame black men for constantly chasing white girls, look what they have to choose from.
I'm only 28, but I usually end up with women 29-36. I don't plan on it per-say, but younger women tend to be so naive and dingy. Most women I meet who are under 27 are usually very unsure of themselves, timid, afraid of real men, and will only go out with a man if their friends approve first.
I firmly believe that women (who work out) get more attractive in their thirties. I'd say a woman usually peaks out at around 34-37. Not to mention, older women are more confident, attracted to strong, real men, and carry themselves sexier. They tend to have less emotional attachment issues and can loosen up easier.
BFL, I am definitely surprised that young white men don't ask you out!!! You must live around a bunch of pussies. If you were in the Atlanta area, you'd go out at least 3-5 times a week! I can't really blame black men for constantly chasing white girls, look what they have to choose from.
jennifer BFL chick
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What would the war be over? I never said I didn't like black guys or older guys, I just said they seem to be the ones who ask me out the most.
There shall be no war
I'm very comfortable talking about the black/white issue. One of my great friends is a black gentleman - a brilliant businessman. We discuss racial issues comfortably all the time, and acknoledge our extreme differences.
No, I don't find black women attractive (95% of the time). No, I don't date white women that date black men. I have my standards - and rightfully so. My black friend is very much like me in that regard, he prefers his own race in women (likes their large posteriors), and doesn't have jungle fever. He has his standards - and rightfully so. To each his (or her) own.
We have a blast laughing and kidding about the differences between white and black women (and men for that regard). Black and white are racial opposites - and that is what makes this world great. Variety. Variety of opinions as well as everything else.
I'm very comfortable talking about the black/white issue. One of my great friends is a black gentleman - a brilliant businessman. We discuss racial issues comfortably all the time, and acknoledge our extreme differences.
No, I don't find black women attractive (95% of the time). No, I don't date white women that date black men. I have my standards - and rightfully so. My black friend is very much like me in that regard, he prefers his own race in women (likes their large posteriors), and doesn't have jungle fever. He has his standards - and rightfully so. To each his (or her) own.
We have a blast laughing and kidding about the differences between white and black women (and men for that regard). Black and white are racial opposites - and that is what makes this world great. Variety. Variety of opinions as well as everything else.
jennifer BFL chick
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ohhhhhhhhhh, I see what you mean!
From my experience, black guys are not shy at all. They will just come right up to you and tell you what they think. Where I live-----Salt Lake City Utah, most of the white guys are mormon, and I'm not kidding. If you have lived here then you would no what I mean. I have nothing against mormons at all, except that I'm not one myself, and prefer not to date them because of our different life styles.
Some black guys prefer white chicks, some won't even date them, it all depends on the person.
From my experience, black guys are not shy at all. They will just come right up to you and tell you what they think. Where I live-----Salt Lake City Utah, most of the white guys are mormon, and I'm not kidding. If you have lived here then you would no what I mean. I have nothing against mormons at all, except that I'm not one myself, and prefer not to date them because of our different life styles.
Some black guys prefer white chicks, some won't even date them, it all depends on the person.
jennifer BFL chick
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winny fan said:
Hey, I just read erics last comment, and he never said that black chicks are nasty, he just said he didn't prefer them, there is nothing wrong with that. Like I always say, we all find different things attractive, that is what makes the world go round.
jennifer BFL chick
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winny fan said:How can you say that he is not saying that black chicks are nasty? Its right there in black and white. I dont think i am the only one that will find that comment very offensive towards black women.
Even if he straight out said black chicks are nasty, thats his business. If he dosn't like them, he dosn't like them, theres nothing you can say to change his mind. Some people just have specific preferences when it comes to attraction.
For me, attraction can't be defined. I find myself attracted to all sorts of guys for different reasons!
Listen geek. I never said black women were nasty. What the hell are you talking about? Anyway, the reason I mentioned Sam (a friend of mine) was to provide a glimpse into both sides of the coin. We are totally opposite in what we find attractive in a woman. I think white women are the most beautiful race of women on the planet (over latino, asian, ... whatever). But this is just my opinion. This doesn't mean that all black women are less attractive - only to me. Big Sam (who is also on this board somewhere) and I work out all the time and joke about different women in the gym. I must say that black women who work out are often extreme hotties though - just depends on the body type. But everything anybody thinks or says is only relative to their view point.
I get a bit irritated whenever a young white male is so scared to be himself, or express his mind about racial differences. I am not scared to say whatever is on my mind. (And, I don't exactly get sand kicked in my face at the beach considering I weigh 265 lbs., bench 415, squat 550, and curl 195.)
I get a bit irritated whenever a young white male is so scared to be himself, or express his mind about racial differences. I am not scared to say whatever is on my mind. (And, I don't exactly get sand kicked in my face at the beach considering I weigh 265 lbs., bench 415, squat 550, and curl 195.)
Listen one last time pencil dick. Just the fact that you call me racist demonstrates that you're a pussy. Every young white male pussy says that because they're scared conformists. I get a little chuckle when I read fear messages. Now, I have to say for the record: I love black people as a whole (as well as every other race other than mine). I will always speak my mind without fear of condemnation. Who cares anyway?
I tossed up my stats for several reasons: this is a workout forum, we talk about weights all the time... Yes I am a big guy, yes I lift heavy, and yes maybe that's one of the reasons why I am never scared to speak my mind - on whatever issue, wherever I am. I was always a matter-of-fact kind of person, even before I started lifting 13 years ago. I'm not really used to people smarting off to me, but I guess anybody can be a tough guy on a computer.
I tossed up my stats for several reasons: this is a workout forum, we talk about weights all the time... Yes I am a big guy, yes I lift heavy, and yes maybe that's one of the reasons why I am never scared to speak my mind - on whatever issue, wherever I am. I was always a matter-of-fact kind of person, even before I started lifting 13 years ago. I'm not really used to people smarting off to me, but I guess anybody can be a tough guy on a computer.
I have never dated anyone younger than me, and have gone quite a bit older (24 years older actually), but it wasn't for any particular reason.
And for the record, I see just as many 'nasty' looking people of all races (go check out a state fair somewhere less sophisticated than New York). Race has nothing to do with a person attractiveness.
calico
And for the record, I see just as many 'nasty' looking people of all races (go check out a state fair somewhere less sophisticated than New York). Race has nothing to do with a person attractiveness.
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cyberflash
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Kit Kat ...
I hope you are OK ... life has up and downs ... but .
I'm definitely with Eric123 ...
You have the classic face of a goddess !!!
If I were a scuplture, you'd be the perfect art !!!
I hope you are OK ... life has up and downs ... but .
I'm definitely with Eric123 ...
You have the classic face of a goddess !!!
If I were a scuplture, you'd be the perfect art !!!
Kit Kat, I am glad that I said something that made you feel happy. That's always pleasant to hear. Everything I said I mean completely. It astonishes me when I talk with my lady friends in their young thirties, and they think that the 26 year old hard bodies have it made in the shade. How ridiculously untrue!
There are actually some women well into their forties that I would do a back flip for. I have no idea how old YOU are, but your best years are NOW (from what I can see).
I mean to say nothing derogatory toward young woman, some are not as timid as others. But it has been my experience that they are too naive to know what they want in life. They are too easily swayed and will fall for anything. It is much more attractive (in my opinion) for a man to meet a woman who knows exactly where she is in life, what she likes, and where she is going. To me, this indicates security and stability - emotionally as well as mentally. This is an attractive attribute.
Sexy women in their thirties have experienced much of what life has to offer, so they tend to be more particular in what they want. They have experienced bad as well as good relationships, they know what works and what doesn't. They tend to have more class and dignity. Their bodies (when properly trained) are sexier.
Consider Bikini Mom - she has probably always been a hottie, but look at her now! Wow. So many women use kids as an excuse not to care for their physique. That is usually a cop out. Consider Calico - very well shaped body. Consider Paradise (has 3 kids I believe). I could go on and on...
Kit, I would love to hear more from you - your view points on various topics. Have a great day.
There are actually some women well into their forties that I would do a back flip for. I have no idea how old YOU are, but your best years are NOW (from what I can see).
I mean to say nothing derogatory toward young woman, some are not as timid as others. But it has been my experience that they are too naive to know what they want in life. They are too easily swayed and will fall for anything. It is much more attractive (in my opinion) for a man to meet a woman who knows exactly where she is in life, what she likes, and where she is going. To me, this indicates security and stability - emotionally as well as mentally. This is an attractive attribute.
Sexy women in their thirties have experienced much of what life has to offer, so they tend to be more particular in what they want. They have experienced bad as well as good relationships, they know what works and what doesn't. They tend to have more class and dignity. Their bodies (when properly trained) are sexier.
Consider Bikini Mom - she has probably always been a hottie, but look at her now! Wow. So many women use kids as an excuse not to care for their physique. That is usually a cop out. Consider Calico - very well shaped body. Consider Paradise (has 3 kids I believe). I could go on and on...
Kit, I would love to hear more from you - your view points on various topics. Have a great day.
paradice72
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I am 29.I usually date right around my age.never a much younger guy so far.i have only had 5 b/f to say that about though.Kit kat, you are beautiful!And u say i haven't hit my prime yet.things to look forward too.*smiles*
eric I don't think u were making a black and white issue.
I am 29.I usually date right around my age.never a much younger guy so far.i have only had 5 b/f to say that about though.Kit kat, you are beautiful!And u say i haven't hit my prime yet.things to look forward too.*smiles*
eric I don't think u were making a black and white issue.
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I am 33 and I prefer my man to be older then me, even though I have never been with a man younger than me. I respect that they are stable and have long term goals set. Most of the time they already have their lives going in that direction (routine) that is definately a good thing. They grew up and have a job, their own place, their own vehicle, they are wise and very knowledgable and lots of memories to share. 
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I have always preferred older men because they are more stable and experienced and tend not to play games. They usually are more emotionally and financially stable.
You know if an older man hooks up with a younger chick she will probably dump him and move on...I think there might come a day when he might not be able to keep up with her. If you're game for that then more power to you.
You know if an older man hooks up with a younger chick she will probably dump him and move on...I think there might come a day when he might not be able to keep up with her. If you're game for that then more power to you.
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