Ladies in your opinion which is better dating younger or older men?

[jennifer BFL chick]

What would the war be over? I never said I didn't like black guys or older guys, I just said they seem to be the ones who ask me out the most.

 

[eric123]

There shall be no war

I'm very comfortable talking about the black/white issue. One of my great friends is a black gentleman - a brilliant businessman. We discuss racial issues comfortably all the time, and acknoledge our extreme differences.

No, I don't find black women attractive (95% of the time). No, I don't date white women that date black men. I have my standards - and rightfully so. My black friend is very much like me in that regard, he prefers his own race in women (likes their large posteriors), and doesn't have jungle fever. He has his standards - and rightfully so. To each his (or her) own.

We have a blast laughing and kidding about the differences between white and black women (and men for that regard). Black and white are racial opposites - and that is what makes this world great. Variety. Variety of opinions as well as everything else.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

ohhhhhhhhhh, I see what you mean!

From my experience, black guys are not shy at all. They will just come right up to you and tell you what they think. Where I live-----Salt Lake City Utah, most of the white guys are mormon, and I'm not kidding. If you have lived here then you would no what I mean. I have nothing against mormons at all, except that I'm not one myself, and prefer not to date them because of our different life styles.

Some black guys prefer white chicks, some won't even date them, it all depends on the person.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Well, your post says that you dont blame black guys for chasing white girls because black girls are nasty. I'm sure some people will object with that comment especially black women.


And why do all white guys say that one of their best friends is black whenever comments like that are said?

Hey, I just read erics last comment, and he never said that black chicks are nasty, he just said he didn't prefer them, there is nothing wrong with that. Like I always say, we all find different things attractive, that is what makes the world go round.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

How can you say that he is not saying that black chicks are nasty? Its right there in black and white. I dont think i am the only one that will find that comment very offensive towards black women.

Even if he straight out said black chicks are nasty, thats his business. If he dosn't like them, he dosn't like them, theres nothing you can say to change his mind. Some people just have specific preferences when it comes to attraction.

For me, attraction can't be defined. I find myself attracted to all sorts of guys for different reasons!

 

[eric123]

Listen geek. I never said black women were nasty. What the hell are you talking about? Anyway, the reason I mentioned Sam (a friend of mine) was to provide a glimpse into both sides of the coin. We are totally opposite in what we find attractive in a woman. I think white women are the most beautiful race of women on the planet (over latino, asian, ... whatever). But this is just my opinion. This doesn't mean that all black women are less attractive - only to me. Big Sam (who is also on this board somewhere) and I work out all the time and joke about different women in the gym. I must say that black women who work out are often extreme hotties though - just depends on the body type. But everything anybody thinks or says is only relative to their view point.

I get a bit irritated whenever a young white male is so scared to be himself, or express his mind about racial differences. I am not scared to say whatever is on my mind. (And, I don't exactly get sand kicked in my face at the beach considering I weigh 265 lbs., bench 415, squat 550, and curl 195.)

 

[eric123]

Listen one last time pencil dick. Just the fact that you call me racist demonstrates that you're a pussy. Every young white male pussy says that because they're scared conformists. I get a little chuckle when I read fear messages. Now, I have to say for the record: I love black people as a whole (as well as every other race other than mine). I will always speak my mind without fear of condemnation. Who cares anyway?

I tossed up my stats for several reasons: this is a workout forum, we talk about weights all the time... Yes I am a big guy, yes I lift heavy, and yes maybe that's one of the reasons why I am never scared to speak my mind - on whatever issue, wherever I am. I was always a matter-of-fact kind of person, even before I started lifting 13 years ago. I'm not really used to people smarting off to me, but I guess anybody can be a tough guy on a computer.

 

[calico]

I have never dated anyone younger than me, and have gone quite a bit older (24 years older actually), but it wasn't for any particular reason.
And for the record, I see just as many 'nasty' looking people of all races (go check out a state fair somewhere less sophisticated than New York). Race has nothing to do with a person attractiveness.
calico

 

[kitKat]

Kit Kat, where did you come from all of a sudden? Anyway, your picture is very attractive. Maybe the reason younger men ask you out is because you're a hottie - they can't help it.

I firmly believe that women (who work out) get more attractive in their thirties. I'd say a woman usually peaks out at around 34-37. Not to mention, older women are more confident, attracted to strong, real men, and carry themselves sexier. They tend to have less emotional attachment issues and can loosen up easier.

Eric, thanks you have made my day I was feeling kinda down today. I am going copy and paste your post to my hard drive so I can read it on days like today.

 

[cyberflash]

Kit Kat ...

I hope you are OK ... life has up and downs ... but .

I'm definitely with Eric123 ...

You have the classic face of a goddess !!!

If I were a scuplture, you'd be the perfect art !!!