Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Ok ladies I am about to be 30 and my girlfriend is 20. Now I understand that most of you are probably saying Craddle Robber but it is not like that I fully intend upon marrying this woman. We have been together for over a year now and I fully intend on marrying her. I have always dated women around my age before and never seemed to work out. With her our life is awesome everything from our social life to our sex life is great she is mature to the point were I can talk to her about anything and at the same time never lets me forget that I am as young as I feel. I just wanted the ladies of the boards opinion on whether they prefer dating older, younger or men of thier same age just to see if our happiness is in the norm or just my incredible luck.
Ladies in your opinion which is better dating younger or older men?
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jennifer BFL chick
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I like to stay with in my own age group--- 21 to 26, but really it depends on the situation, and the person. If you are happy, then don't worry about the age thing, just go with it! I'm happy for you.
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The only time I would raise my brows is when the younger of the two is very young. (And that is only because YOU ASKED).
20 seems a bit on the youngish side to be w/a 30 year old, but then again who the hell am I to talk? I started dating my husband when I was BARELY 21 and he 27....though I am a bit older and MUCH WISER NOW.
Good luck to you.
For the record, I have always dated men who were older. I only dated guys that were my age once and it sucked. I just can not see myself going youger though...maybe somebody will just have to teach this old dog some new tricks - LOL!
20 seems a bit on the youngish side to be w/a 30 year old, but then again who the hell am I to talk? I started dating my husband when I was BARELY 21 and he 27....though I am a bit older and MUCH WISER NOW.
Good luck to you.
For the record, I have always dated men who were older. I only dated guys that were my age once and it sucked. I just can not see myself going youger though...maybe somebody will just have to teach this old dog some new tricks - LOL!
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bikinimom said:The only time I would raise my brows is when the younger of the two is very young. (And that is only because YOU ASKED).
20 seems a bit on the youngish side to be w/a 30 year old, but then again who the hell am I to talk? I started dating my husband when I was BARELY 21 and he 27....though I am a bit older and MUCH WISER NOW.
Good luck to you.
For the record, I have always dated men who were older. I only dated guys that were my age once and it sucked. I just can not see myself going youger though...maybe somebody will just have to teach this old dog some new tricks - LOL!
You have never met the Captain before, this may explain some things...
Rugbyrebel
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I like older men better, but I guess is does depend on the situation.
jennifer BFL chick
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I usually have older guys after me--- and black guys. Not that it really matters, but I would say about 80% of the guys that ask me out are black or older. Hey I like a little brown sugar, so I'm not complaining, just making an observation.
I live in Utah too! One of the most white states in America.
But each person is totally different. I could never say "oh, I would never date anyone older/younger then...." I'm very open minded to it all.
I live in Utah too! One of the most white states in America.
But each person is totally different. I could never say "oh, I would never date anyone older/younger then...." I'm very open minded to it all.
Kit Kat, where did you come from all of a sudden? Anyway, your picture is very attractive. Maybe the reason younger men ask you out is because you're a hottie - they can't help it.
I'm only 28, but I usually end up with women 29-36. I don't plan on it per-say, but younger women tend to be so naive and dingy. Most women I meet who are under 27 are usually very unsure of themselves, timid, afraid of real men, and will only go out with a man if their friends approve first.
I firmly believe that women (who work out) get more attractive in their thirties. I'd say a woman usually peaks out at around 34-37. Not to mention, older women are more confident, attracted to strong, real men, and carry themselves sexier. They tend to have less emotional attachment issues and can loosen up easier.
BFL, I am definitely surprised that young white men don't ask you out!!! You must live around a bunch of pussies. If you were in the Atlanta area, you'd go out at least 3-5 times a week! I can't really blame black men for constantly chasing white girls, look what they have to choose from.
I'm only 28, but I usually end up with women 29-36. I don't plan on it per-say, but younger women tend to be so naive and dingy. Most women I meet who are under 27 are usually very unsure of themselves, timid, afraid of real men, and will only go out with a man if their friends approve first.
I firmly believe that women (who work out) get more attractive in their thirties. I'd say a woman usually peaks out at around 34-37. Not to mention, older women are more confident, attracted to strong, real men, and carry themselves sexier. They tend to have less emotional attachment issues and can loosen up easier.
BFL, I am definitely surprised that young white men don't ask you out!!! You must live around a bunch of pussies. If you were in the Atlanta area, you'd go out at least 3-5 times a week! I can't really blame black men for constantly chasing white girls, look what they have to choose from.
