Ladies, I need some advise please

[moto-racer-1]

O.k. to make a long story short, I have a new lady, we have finally moved our relations to the bed room. We have had 3 tremendous love making sessions. The shortest lasting for 45 min. And i CANNOT make her orgasm. If i give her oral, i can, but not with penetration. She says she has NEVER had an orgasm from standard sex, only oral! Not that i mind giving her oral, but i feel she is being cheated out of a good time! This is driving me crazy!!! I've got unusually good stamina and it isnt even phasing her. Has any other women had this problem, or men that have ran into this? How did you handle it? Does anyone have any advise??? I really feel bad for her. Thanks in advance for any help!!!!

 

[moto-racer-1]

some one has to have some advice. I really need some help here!

 

[HighGrade]

hi moto-racer,

congrats on new relationship! : )

does she stimulate herself (clit, nipples - many many nerve endings) while you make love? that may help her get the extra boost she needs in order to climax. also, you may try other positions - like her being on top and facing you.

don't put too much focus on her having an orgasm during intercourse, as it may lead to anxiety for the both of you. key is being open, honest, open-minded, and of course, enjoying each other!

HG

 

[Drew Carey]

one girl I dated had this problem. A way to stimulate her clit while having sex is for you to lay on top of her(her facing you) and have her legs closed. Your legs will be on the outsides of hers. Use a little lube because there will be extra friction. It was weird to do but after awhile I got better at it. I no longer date her but still use that trick on other women. Its a "neat card to pull out of your hat" from time to time.

 

[moto-racer-1]

HighGrade, She hasnt tried any stimulation herself, I believe she might be alittle embarresed, I was gonna ask her (Actually just move her hand to her clit) and she if she would stimulate herself.
I try to play with nips, she seems to enjoy it, but it doesnt quite do the trick. We've tried several positions, and nothing. I was considering asking her about toys ( vibrators and what not ) but i dont wanna embarass her. (or having her think im some sort of freak) Thanks for the input. IT is graetly appreciated.

Drew Carey- I have tried that in the past with a different partner, And you are right, it is a great trick to pull out occasionaly. I forgot about it until you reminded me. My only prob with that is it stimulates me a little to fast. LOL I guess thats why you wait several minutes for the 2nd shift to clock in! I'll give you one guess what i'll be trying this weekend!!! Thanks for the help.

If anyone else has any suggestions I'd love to hear them. All advice will be gladly accepted! Thanks again!

Moto

 

[Drew Carey]

Yeah, its a good way to show her your "O" face, "O O O O"

 

[moto-racer-1]

And thats the truth Bro!!!

 

[gethard1]

My wife tends

to have those type of love making sessions once in a while.
What I do is kneel between her legs and slowly slide it in her and out of her using only 3 or so inches, going very very slowly as the head penetrate, all the time rubbing her clit, but not rubbing it enough to cause her to orgasm that way, just enough to make grab my ass and pull me in tight (like the death grip from hell) as she tells me to fuck her hard and deep...the rest is utter bliss and it is vaginal.

 

[moto-racer-1]

gethard1 - That sounds like it might be a good idea, lightly stimulate her while only giving her just enough to tease her, then when she gets close to orgasm she'll want it hard! Very, very hard!!! Great advice bro!!!

Any one one else out there with a little knowledge on this subject???

 

[gwl9dta4]

Let me tell you from experience, she may be taking anti-depressants. I doubt if she will admit it to you, but that is a very good reason for your problem. It's all in the emotions.