I've been cheating on my gf for 2 years - I need SERIOUS advice

[hanselthecaretaker]

Dude she is going to find out. One of my gf's is going through this BS with her so called husband. Cheated on her once and got caught swore he would never do it again well it appears he is. Have some balls and tell her what you did you owe her that much. If she is willing to work on it seek councling if not move on with your life and figure out what the hell it is that is causing you to be such a lying cheating bastard.

She has a very good point. A secret can only be kept with one person. People like to talk too much. If you decide to tell her, your kids are going to be the ones to save your ass here, if at all possible.

 

[awittyusername]

Alot of good people have spent their posting some thoughtful and good advice.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

Alot of good people have spent their posting some thoughtful and good advice.

Yes they have, and I've been in contact with almost all of them in PMs just like I was with you.

 

[DJ_UFO]

Thanks God you are not married. That lethal signature really make things worse.

 

[jackangel]

ok.

 

[Gambino]

damn crak, I've been in your shoes though...i've done bad things in the past and felt terrible. my advice, don't fess up and try to patch things up, for the kids sake

 

[kills]

Yes they have, and I've been in contact with almost all of them in PMs just like I was with you.

Ummm you never pm,ed me is this a bullshit thread or do i just continue to not like you for the way you are treating your lady and kids. Hit me up yo

 

[Buddy_Christ]

Ummm you never pm,ed me is this a bullshit thread or do i just continue to not like you for the way you are treating your lady and kids. Hit me up yo

You havn't had any input into this thread that lets me know that you are already biased in whatever opinion you might give me. Plus I don't even know who you are.

 

[HiDnGoD]

We've been working on our relationship for a while. We know we've had some problems in the past, and things were starting to get better but now they're back into the same rut they used to be in. I keep trying to pull us out, but we keep slipping back in. It's like, you get into that "comfort zone" where you think the other person isn't going to go anywhere. I think that's where she's at, but I need more.
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Dude, when you are in a LTR, there are ruts. You can't always pull out, you sometimes have to just ride them out. IMO you made a conscious or subconscious choice to get into these chickas because you were too self important to care. You weren't getting what you want from the G.F. so you went looking for the magic elsewhere.
I think you need therapy for your philandering, for your relationship, & for your self esteem issues. These issues could be driving you to seek affirmation from all these other women.
Just imagine how fucked up your G.F. is gonna be if you guys split. Single mother with 2 kids. You could just put a gun to her head, it'd be quicker.
Imagine how fucked up the kids are gonna be. "Nobody wants us, we're worthless." You think you have self esteem issues? You wanna do that to these kids?
Stick by your woman. You owe it to her & the kid.
good luck. I hope you do the right thing.

 

[EnderJE]

Tell your gf, you owe her that much if you love her.