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I've been cheating on my gf for 2 years - I need SERIOUS advice
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BileStew said:
You always manage to make laugh
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Phaded
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superacups.. lol
Son of a ...... I am still a B cupBileStew said:
BileStew said:
have I told you lately how much I hat you. 
DJ_UFO
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Hey crack!
Fact: men can't have one sexual partner in life and can't stay with same sexual partner for life. That's proven.
Problem: If you continue cheating, you'll get used to it. You'll have everything a man needs outside home and you'll be satisfied with your gf because she gives you what a man needs from a friend. You MUST force yourself not to cheat, that will let you see what you really need as a man. That will start a confrontation with your gf and either she will change or you both will split apart quickly.
Solution: Do an introspection. Define what you feel for your gf, what you want in the future, what you like, how you see yourself in 5-10 years. Do not cheat anymore. I mean, while you are studying yourself. Even if you need to brake with your current fuck buddy, that's ok. There will be plenty of how spread eagles later but now, you need to think. Put everything in a balance and see wich side is heavier. Fix everything and stay with your gf, or stay single fucking everyday. Cheating for 5 years and then stoping doesn't count as an alternative. That's not fair for your partner. All you've done is already unfair for her but do not make things worse. And I understand you as a man. That's why I can tell you, THINK. You are not forced to be with anyone and your child will be yours always.
Fact: men can't have one sexual partner in life and can't stay with same sexual partner for life. That's proven.
Problem: If you continue cheating, you'll get used to it. You'll have everything a man needs outside home and you'll be satisfied with your gf because she gives you what a man needs from a friend. You MUST force yourself not to cheat, that will let you see what you really need as a man. That will start a confrontation with your gf and either she will change or you both will split apart quickly.
Solution: Do an introspection. Define what you feel for your gf, what you want in the future, what you like, how you see yourself in 5-10 years. Do not cheat anymore. I mean, while you are studying yourself. Even if you need to brake with your current fuck buddy, that's ok. There will be plenty of how spread eagles later but now, you need to think. Put everything in a balance and see wich side is heavier. Fix everything and stay with your gf, or stay single fucking everyday. Cheating for 5 years and then stoping doesn't count as an alternative. That's not fair for your partner. All you've done is already unfair for her but do not make things worse. And I understand you as a man. That's why I can tell you, THINK. You are not forced to be with anyone and your child will be yours always.
It sucks to say, but once you cheat, saying you're going to stop is like saying you're going to stop having sex after you lose your virginity. There has to be something very personal (read-your kids' emotional well being) to get you to change your ways. So you can if you have something more important to focus on. Believe me, your kids are likely to follow the same paths with the opposite sex as their parents, and if yours goes to shit, theirs probably will too if they have to grow up being children of divorce. I've had friends from school, both male and female whose parents have been divorced, and they all cheat in their relationships.
This chick may seem amazing now, but who's to say what'll happen a year or more down the road. You have two kids attached to a girlfriend of six years. This should be a no brainer. Hope things work out for ya too.
This chick may seem amazing now, but who's to say what'll happen a year or more down the road. You have two kids attached to a girlfriend of six years. This should be a no brainer. Hope things work out for ya too.
GrandMaster
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Crak600... i dont think i have anymore respect for u... plus u have kids too...not kool bro
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