I've been cheating on my gf for 2 years - I need SERIOUS advice

[HS Lifter]

Holy Shit...I wish I would have seen this sooner...

Man, ummmmn not man...boy, you are a child. You are not a man! You have 2 freaking kids! What the hell is your damage?!?!

Grow the FUCK Up!!!!

If you are going to be a piece of shit leave your girlfriend so you can screw whoever you want and let her find a real man!!!

My ex did the same thing to me. When I found out I left his ass! He lost everything...his wife, his friends, his house....

I saw him about a month ago and he is half the man he use to be. He is destroyed and I am happy about it!

You better hope you didn't give her some disease. You are sleeping with sluts and then bringing it all home to your loyal girlfriend!

You need some serious therapy.

What kind of shitty friends did that guy have?

 

[flexygrl]

I gotta call bullshit. I've been with my wife for 25 yrs. We've had some ups & downs, but we have never 'cheated' on each other. In fact the past 10 yrs, when I've had the most opportunity, I've been least inclined. Unless you have an open relationship, there should be no one else except your hands. If you are inclined to cheat, then you shouldn't be together. By being in a monogamous relationship you both agree to a particular paradigm. You break that, you are a liar & NOT a man, IMO.
I'm a little hot on this subject because I see so many couples separating because of selfish attitudes. Crak, you are essentially married without the paper. Treat it as such.

I can't agree with number one. He cheats period. If he cared about her enough & it was afault of hers, they should have communicated. Number 2 is more likely. He'll have to decide

In response to RottenWillow,

When my ex was cheating I was in the best shape of my life. I got married at 23 and left him when I was 26...

We had sex ALL the time. I am nooooooo prude! He had everything he needed at home, me, my body, my love, my care...he like this poster was an immature ASSHOLE!!!!!!!!!

RW, as a woman...how could you say such a thing!?!?!?

 

[flexygrl]

What kind of shitty friends did that guy have?

They loved me to death. I only knew them for 7 years where as he knew them his whole life. They felt a loyalty to me instead of him. My ex was an asshole period...to everyone, including his friends. He was a know it all SOB! I learned this too late in life.

I still talk to a few of his friends wives.

 

[flexygrl]

and you know what else....

Because I am sooooo upset over this thread...I have more to say...

Can I tell you what it felt like to find out?!? I will try to explain the pain...

"He" was my whole life. I loved him. I grew up with him. I met him at 18. When I found out I was crushed. I wanted to die. My life to me was over. I felt betrayed, ugly, I worried that there must be something wrong with me. I spent 3 days not eating, sleeping just crying for THREE days. Finally when I started to come back to reality I had to deal with these horrible thoughts running through my head. I thought of killing myself. I wanted my pain to end!

The sad part of it all was I knew...and I have spoken to other women who've been cheated on and they knew too. Deep inside, we know what your doing...we may even accuse you of it as you stare us right in the eyes and DENY!!!!

I'm sorry to unload all of my shit on you but you have made me completely pissed off. I'm lucky I didn't have any children. I could walk away. It's not that easy for her.

You should be ASHAMED! You betrayed the mother of your children and DO NOT FORGET THIS...you betrayed your KIDS TOO!

 

[awittyusername]

and you know what else....

Because I am sooooo upset over this thread...I have more to say...

Can I tell you what it felt like to find out?!? I will try to explain the pain...

"He" was my whole life. I loved him. I grew up with him. I met him at 18. When I found out I was crushed. I wanted to die. My life to me was over. I felt betrayed, ugly, I worried that there must be something wrong with me. I spent 3 days not eating, sleeping just crying for THREE days. Finally when I started to come back to reality I had to deal with these horrible thoughts running through my head. I thought of killing myself. I wanted my pain to end!

The sad part of it all was I knew...and I have spoken to other women who've been cheated on and they knew too. Deep inside, we know what your doing...we may even accuse you of it as you stare us right in the eyes and DENY!!!!

I'm sorry to unload all of my shit on you but you have made me completely pissed off. I'm lucky I didn't have any children. I could walk away. It's not that easy for her.

You should be ASHAMED! You betrayed the mother of your children and DO NOT FORGET THIS...you betrayed your KIDS TOO!

Are you done yet Crak????????

 

[Miss24k]

Are you done yet Crak????????

No but I fucking am!!!!!! Somebody needs to come fucking clean!!!!

 

[flexygrl]

You know what?!? FUCK YOU CRACK! I hope you are happy. Nice joke!

I'm so fucking done with EF. Adios!

 

[superqt4u2nv]

Are you done yet Crak????????

Crak request this to be locked please.

 

[awittyusername]

Crak request this to be locked please.

Why so he can start a thread saying he has cancer or some bullshit??? Fuck him




He had the balls to start this thread...but not to lock it.

 

[Y_lifter]

Getting some Strange is good in the beginning, both physical and non.
That's why it called that..

Eventually the newness wears off though and something else must be there
to keep you happy in a relationship.

3 months vs 6 years...

Which relationship is stronger ?
Which woman do you know more about ?
Which one do you trust and have the most invested in ?
Which one can you count on to have your back ?
How will this decision effect the children that have no say ?