Is it normal for the ex to date within 2 months of breaking up?

[markshark]

You guys broke up 2 months ago and she just found a guy two weeks ago. I dont see anything wrong with it! Not unless she found a guy two weeks after you broke up now that would sound fishy and wrong.



I just went back on reading your post. You mention that she had cheated on you when you guys are still together. First of all why do you want to marry a girl who had cheated on you at the first place? You shouldn't be suprise if she already found a cock after you guys have broken up. For the fact that she cheated on you when you guys are still together.


She's obviously not worth of your time. Just move on and forget about her!

all girls seem to have the same perspective that being a whore to a person who actually gave 2 shits about them is ok because 50 cent says its ok and twista. fuck that. if a female i was with for a long time fucked someone else within 2 weeks id be sick about it. im glad females cheat and act like sluts all the time too, this is exactly the reason people dont take females seriously and your sex will never really exceed where men are. because when u go out and fuck us on a random hook up we treat u nice then fuck u then talk mad shit behind yalls back and then everyone looks at you as the town whore. now guys can fuck around all we want because were not the ones thats gonna spit out a little kid and get an std to boot. so i guess we get the last laugh. we get more respect for fuckin around, females look worse. all in all the world is good if u look at it that way.

 

[velvett]

all girls seem to have the same perspective that being a whore to a person who actually gave 2 shits about them is ok because 50 cent says its ok and twista. fuck that. if a female i was with for a long time fucked someone else within 2 weeks id be sick about it.

Dude, seriously you sound angry and you probably have good reason, people can be shitty to each other regardless of sex. But the fact that she's

"she's already on some guys cock as of about two weeks ago"

really has zero relevance as the very reason they broke up is because she was already cheating on the poor guy. The two week thing is a mute issue - her character was already trashed.

Besides no one knows if this new guy is the flavor of the week, month or year and you know what it shouldn't matter even though it's hurtful - the relationship is already damaged and very much over.

 

[Megalomaniac]

If I break up I'm dating right away, it takes me that long to hook up again.

 

[sre30]

find out who's cawk she's servicing

give the business to his mom / sister / dad "if you swing that way"

It might damage your life karma, but it'll make you feel better about the situation.

 

[markshark]

If I break up I'm dating right away, it takes me that long to hook up again.

i mean id be the same way. actually if i had a wife i would cheat on her just because i know shed be doin it to me. thats the way the world works today. i dont get why people get into relationships. as long as rap and mtv is around everyone is gonna cheat on each other. i think girls dig ufc fighters and thats it. maybe i should become one of them.

 

[cash50]

No girl can replace my ex.

That's definitely not gonna help you get over it. You have to be much stronger mentally and make a commitment to not think about her. The first day after you break up it officially is not cheating and nobody has to wait either.

 

[AMGETR]

Thanks everyone.

I know the guy shes with. I don't actually know him, but I heard of him. 2 years older than me, few inches taller than me, and apparently he's good looking. Who knows.

 

[gabulldogs02]

Thanks everyone.

I know the guy shes with. I don't actually know him, but I heard of him. 2 years older than me, few inches taller than me, and apparently he's good looking. Who knows.

I've been shit on more times than i can count... I dont know her and i dont know you, but from what you said.. Cook at her restaurant this and that. Doesnt sound like he compares with his futureless life. You sound like you have a lot of things going for you. Wether you want her back or not she'll realize sooner or later how much of a loser he is. Not only that i'd kill myself working with my SO. To her its just something new for now. Down the road she'll start comparing things he does to what you did.

I know you say the relationship was great, but if she cheated she cheated for a reason. There was something that she wasnt getting from the relationship.. just some kind of communication breakdown. Think about an arguement that you got into and something that you do or dont do that was thrown in your face.. Something somewhere wasnt right and not to say you were doing anything wrong, but i would say there is something she wasnt getting

I'd find another hobby or concentrate on what your doing now. Set some kind of short term/long term goal and work towards something to keep your mind busy... Thats what its all about is keeping your mind busy and it'll all heal.

 

[bloodinbloodout]

Sounds similar. One thing is guaranteed, she WILL be back, probably when she is at her low. This will be the time to determine whether you are a strong man or a pussy whipped boy still hell bent on a fairy tale love. Me, I always took my ex back and the same shit would happen. If I were you I'd run away and never look back, that bitch is felonious.

 

[megamania500]

Judging by the fact that this thread was made in Feb. of this year, anything else said at this point in time is a moot point.