Is he going to the strip club?

[alexiarenee]

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You might want to get him checked out by a doc

!! Very true.............

 

[alexiarenee]

Re: Re: Re: Is he going to the strip club?

Sorry, no offense, but I don't know what club in Houston you dance at, but as a fellow Houstonian - practically every guy I know has been able to get anything he wants at those clubs and every stripper I know, which is just about every other apartment in Houston - will do anything as long as a guy flashes a little bit of money at her. So saying the girls (not saying you...) won't try and talk to him or give him their number is a bunch of bullshit. One friend of ours goes to strip clubs all the time and gets phone number after phone number and takes girl after girl home. Hand jobs/bjs you name it, it happens in Houston at the majority of the clubs. You might be a "trustworthy" dancer,,, but most are not respectable.

Well, I am bothered (and yes I say BOTHERED because most men should know that we are not in there to find a date.) by men that dont know how the whole strip club thing works everyday!!
Friday, I danced for this guy, he got 4, didnt want anymore, and I was like "ok, thanks, nice meeting you, blaj blah blah.." And he said "I cant believe you want to leave me" I told him I am here to make as much money as I can in the time I am here, not to sit and talk all day...but in a nicer way...I got up, and right away sat w/another man who gave me 7...anyway...
The day before, at the end of our dance session, this guy pulls out his cell phone (LMAO) and says "so, how do I get in touch with you?" And I say "well, call up here and ask for (my dance name )...!!!" He was like "oh, ok, you all about business.." DUH!!
Very few of my freinds at work give out there phone # , if they do most of the time its because they want the guy to call them when he'll be coming in and giving them $$$...
And VERY VERY few girls ever go home with anyone.......If this is the case, then that girl is just easy to begin with.... And what doen that say about the man???

 

[alexiarenee]

BOTTOM LINE= If you cant trust your man to go out w/ his freinds and behave himself at a strip club, then you need to reevaluate your relationship. If he is going to go home with a stripper, he'll go home with a girl he meets at the mall, too...............

 

[Jimsbbc]

BOTTOM LINE= If you cant trust your man to go out w/ his freinds and behave himself at a strip club, then you need to reevaluate your relationship. If he is going to go home with a stripper, he'll go home with a girl he meets at the mall, too...............

Preach it girl!!!! You hear that Killer????

 

[manny78]

BOTTOM LINE= If you cant trust your man to go out w/ his freinds and behave himself at a strip club, then you need to reevaluate your relationship. If he is going to go home with a stripper, he'll go home with a girl he meets at the mall, too...............

damn are you doing a major in philosophy ? You're bringing some pretty good points.

 

[killerass]

My post was not about trust or whether or not to "let" your guy go to the clubs. It was merely pointing out the fact that not all of the girls are always all about business. (again, not all) There are many many who do hit on the guys when it was stated that they don't!

***And Jimsbbc, considering on another post you pointed out that strippers are "whores", I would like to know how you would like it if YOUR girl went to a male strip club and had a guy rub his dick and ass all over her face and chest and lap???? Watching is one thing,,, touching and rubbing is another (which is not forbidden at all clubs). If you have an S/O who is not completely comfortable with it for whatever reason, if you love them, then out of RESPECT for how it makes them feel - (guy or girl ) they should not go (whether there is trust or not.) RESPECT on how it makes the other feel should be the priority!

 

[Wizzyman]

Strip clubs are fine for both guys and gals to go to, as long as they come home to their partners! Nothing wrong with looking at a bit of beautiful pussy or chicks staring at schlongs! BRING ON THE NUDITY!!!!

 

[wlibbe]

I have no problem with my husband going to strip clubs with his boys. I trust him and his judgment. I go see the male strippers with my friends-it is fun and harmless. As long as he comes home to me after-I don't care. You can't stop each other from going out and having fun. I think that if you are secure in your relationship and secure with yourself than it should be fine.

 

[Island Son]

no strip clubs

I'm morally opposed to paying for blue balls, that's just self-torture.

 

[sheez_ripped]

I have no problem with hubby going....

with me or without me....as mentioned above....if u have to be with your significant other 24/7 because you don't trust them...then u have a problem with your relationship....

if he's gonna cheat....then he will....doesn't matter about it being a stripper or not....more likely someone he knows from work, gym...ect...cheating isn't always about sex...maybe when you're young...but older guys are looking for attention and someone who will listen or make them feel special again....

as for me and my man....we like to go together....i luv to get my own lap dances! plus i get ideas to use at home.....