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Golfer18--old
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Are you asking to shove it in my face?
Is he going to the strip club?
- Thread starter Pinky Girl
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Wo, Wo, Wo!!!
Maybe how I put my comment wasn't so clear....
I was just trying to give you my perspective on your situation and I guess I didn't explain myself clearly...
After all you asked the question...
I'll explain myself anyway, I do not have a judgement on whether a man should be able to go look at pussy and a girl shouldn't go look at dick or vice versa. Having a unique personality and the confidence to do the things that these women do are commendable. Not everyone has the strength or passion to do what some of these ladies love to do...
If you get your kicks from going to see the dancers, then so be it...
If you want to SHOVE your pussy in someone's face for enjoyment, then so be it...
As far as my girlfriend, don't have one.....
I have unique relations with some very genuine people...
I work in the industry and love the whole aura of open-minded
thinking...
All I was stating from your comments, was that I understand how maybe your boyfriend would feel being put in that circumstance...
Instead of some other girl putting her lovehole in front of your man's face, try this...
Have him put his cock in some other women's face and you do your thing... Then I think that it would not be a double standard...
Maybe how I put my comment wasn't so clear....
I was just trying to give you my perspective on your situation and I guess I didn't explain myself clearly...
After all you asked the question...
I'll explain myself anyway, I do not have a judgement on whether a man should be able to go look at pussy and a girl shouldn't go look at dick or vice versa. Having a unique personality and the confidence to do the things that these women do are commendable. Not everyone has the strength or passion to do what some of these ladies love to do...
If you get your kicks from going to see the dancers, then so be it...
If you want to SHOVE your pussy in someone's face for enjoyment, then so be it...
As far as my girlfriend, don't have one.....
I have unique relations with some very genuine people...
I work in the industry and love the whole aura of open-minded
thinking...
All I was stating from your comments, was that I understand how maybe your boyfriend would feel being put in that circumstance...
Instead of some other girl putting her lovehole in front of your man's face, try this...
Have him put his cock in some other women's face and you do your thing... Then I think that it would not be a double standard...
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AziaReign
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All right, this is how it is on our side of things (Pauly and I):
He doesn't really care to go to strip clubs with his buds. He'll go if they want to go, but its nothing exciting for him. NO WAY IN HELL does he touch the girls, never spends money on them (only the beer), he declines lap dances, but he's not rude about it.
I never have been to a male strip club, don't care to. Why go and see a buncha horny guys swingin' their cocks around, wearin' stupid outfits, etc. etc. etc..........when I have it at home for free?? Pauly would dance for me if I asked him to! Seeing male strippers actually turns me off, I'm disgusted. Nothing against male strippers at all, but no other guys can turn me on, its just the way I feel. I could get into a WHOOOOOOOLE other story about me and guys, but thats for another thread!
Anyhoo, we go to female strip clubs together. Usually we end up making fun of half of them anyways, discreetly to ourselves. Whether it be us wondering when we're gonna see a damn stripper fall, or why 90% of the girls' bodies are out of shape! Its fun to walk up in the club with your siginificant other, we just hang out, have a few drinks, and watch whats going on around us.
2 years ago we stayed in downtown Toronto. We ended up going 2 nights in a row to Brass Rail, a pretty koo strip club. Some of the chicks there were actually hot, and I got my first lap dance. She was exotic looking, smelled nice, and she was quite normal; not puttin' on a front, talked a normal conversation. Then we decided it was time for the lap dance..............ended up spending a little too much, but she danced for us as a couple, and we ended up getting turned on! But that was about it. Knowing our confidence level is pretty high, there were other strippers checking us out. Let's just say that we basically could have gotten away with anything we wanted to if we just asked.............
But I'm not into the whole sha-bang on picking up people in bars or clubs, especially strip clubs..........thats just wrong.
He doesn't really care to go to strip clubs with his buds. He'll go if they want to go, but its nothing exciting for him. NO WAY IN HELL does he touch the girls, never spends money on them (only the beer), he declines lap dances, but he's not rude about it.
I never have been to a male strip club, don't care to. Why go and see a buncha horny guys swingin' their cocks around, wearin' stupid outfits, etc. etc. etc..........when I have it at home for free?? Pauly would dance for me if I asked him to! Seeing male strippers actually turns me off, I'm disgusted. Nothing against male strippers at all, but no other guys can turn me on, its just the way I feel. I could get into a WHOOOOOOOLE other story about me and guys, but thats for another thread!
Anyhoo, we go to female strip clubs together. Usually we end up making fun of half of them anyways, discreetly to ourselves. Whether it be us wondering when we're gonna see a damn stripper fall, or why 90% of the girls' bodies are out of shape! Its fun to walk up in the club with your siginificant other, we just hang out, have a few drinks, and watch whats going on around us.
2 years ago we stayed in downtown Toronto. We ended up going 2 nights in a row to Brass Rail, a pretty koo strip club. Some of the chicks there were actually hot, and I got my first lap dance. She was exotic looking, smelled nice, and she was quite normal; not puttin' on a front, talked a normal conversation. Then we decided it was time for the lap dance..............ended up spending a little too much, but she danced for us as a couple, and we ended up getting turned on! But that was about it. Knowing our confidence level is pretty high, there were other strippers checking us out. Let's just say that we basically could have gotten away with anything we wanted to if we just asked.............
But I'm not into the whole sha-bang on picking up people in bars or clubs, especially strip clubs..........thats just wrong.
Longhorn85
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I used to go to strip clubs a lot when I was younger. They are absolutely harmless. I don't like seeing women there other than dancers and waitresses though, to me this is strictly heterosexual man territory.
Why do women want to come in there and watch and ruin the atmosphere for the guys? A lot of them that would go would gawk at the guys and make fun of their behavior or criticize the girls for what they wear. (Like the men care!) Go to you own male-strip clubs or gay clubs.
As for women going to see male strippers, sure why not? Especially for bachelorette parties or whatever.
Just stay out of the gentlemen's clubs!
Why do women want to come in there and watch and ruin the atmosphere for the guys? A lot of them that would go would gawk at the guys and make fun of their behavior or criticize the girls for what they wear. (Like the men care!) Go to you own male-strip clubs or gay clubs.
As for women going to see male strippers, sure why not? Especially for bachelorette parties or whatever.
Just stay out of the gentlemen's clubs!
Pinky Girl said:
Apples and oranges sweetheart. I mean, really.
You are comparing going to a club, and looking at foreign pussy to, would it be okay for your girl to be a stripper?!?! Ridiculous comparison Pinky. I didn't say that while I'm at the strip club, it'd be okay to whip out my big ol' dick, nor that she could show her pin stripe at a male review.
All I said, is that sitting there and having dick or pussy flaunted in your face, while out with your friends on a rare occasion, is harmless fun. Why are you so insecure and paranoid about it!?!?
Do you think he might realize it's not supposed to smell like that???
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Longhorn85
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KBgrl said:i wanna be there to keep an eye on my guy....and the dancers...
That's why I don't like women there (besides dancers). Butt out.
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AziaReign
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KBgrl said:i really dont like the idea of my guy going there on his own (with his horny pigman friends) BUT i dont mind if we go together.
Hey sweet thaaaaaang!
Do u not trust your man?
Rule #1..................NEVER trust a dancer! <<There are some pretty sneaky, snakey chicks out there!
*Note: Not direct towards anyone in particular, no need to take offense.
alexiarenee
New member
Pinky Girl said:
Ok. I dance. So I know first hand that a guy going in there isn't going to get anything other than what he pays for--a dance or whatever. NO dancer is going to think he is cute, try to talk to him, or give him her # so they can go out or anything like that. Well, most. We really don't care about they guys.
With that said, I let my b/f go....but he never wants to go by himself!!! He is shy in that aspect.....so I will go with him and if he's lucky I'll even buy him a dance. We have a really good time, I'm happy, he's happy, the dancer's happy. End of story. It's about trust and maturity.
luvs2workout
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Re: Re: Is he going to the strip club?
ummm...sorry alex - but I have to disagree w/you...that may be the case w/you and some of your friends, but that is definately NOT the case for others
my husband has gone into a strip club - not spent a dime on the girl and taken her home that night and fucked her(before we met of course,,,,friend of mine met his current g/f in a strip bar....another girl I know stripped until she met her current "sugar daddy" in the strip bar...I could go on and on about similar situations...Im not saying that this type of behavior includes all strippers and Im not saying that they are less than b/c of this - Im only saying that IT DOES HAPPEN - OFTEN!
If your man is gonna cheat - it wont matter if he's in the strip bar or at church...so quit worrying yourself about it - if you dont trust him than find one you can trust
alexiarenee said:
ummm...sorry alex - but I have to disagree w/you...that may be the case w/you and some of your friends, but that is definately NOT the case for others
my husband has gone into a strip club - not spent a dime on the girl and taken her home that night and fucked her(before we met of course
,,,,friend of mine met his current g/f in a strip bar....another girl I know stripped until she met her current "sugar daddy" in the strip bar...I could go on and on about similar situations...Im not saying that this type of behavior includes all strippers and Im not saying that they are less than b/c of this - Im only saying that IT DOES HAPPEN - OFTEN!If your man is gonna cheat - it wont matter if he's in the strip bar or at church...so quit worrying yourself about it - if you dont trust him than find one you can trust
