I feel ya on the training. I hate cardio but I could spend all day every day in the gym. It's important to look at "training" as 24/7 thing where part of it is fueling your body at the right times w/ what it needs (and not more than it needs), training it for max "bang for the buck", but not overtraining, doing cardio as needed and also recovery. The big thing I learned a while ago is over training = under recovery. And if you don't factor in time for your body to recover, even if you just start feelign tired and it isn't on your training schedule to take an off day, your body will MAKE you take it, and then some.
Also training can involve many different activities. One of them is time in the gym. Another may be playing team volleyball or golfing or taking the dog for a walk (or chasing the cat up & down the stairs as it is in my house). Whatever to also just keep you active. I'm a huge proponent of yoga / pilates. I did a huge amount of lifting the last several years and basically ended up screwing up my lower back as a result of an imbalanced training program (and some other stuff). But the stretching and focus on core strength that you get from yoga / pilates is something that is definitely lacking from your standard bodybuilding regimen.
To get a balanced view of a fit lifestyle you need to look to your program as something that includes the gym, but isn't encompassed by the gym. It also helps you not freak out on those days that you aren't scheduled in the gym. I still go and do my cardio or hit a cardio / dance / yoga class. I sort of dont' know what to do with myself if I'm not in the gym, even if I don't need to be there.