I'm sick of being broke

[just...v]

They take your drivers licences and passport away when your a degenerate that doesn't pay for your child here.

My friend at least has parents to lean on and she had to move back in with them. Her son does love it close to the grandparents so that nice for him.

She's lucky. My mom drinks so I don't let her see my kids.

 

[noodles1010]

I'm in Colorado

Take him to court and demand that he surrender his w-2 from the time you were divorced, split ect.. Once the judge sees those they will asses back owed support, then they will asses how often he sees them. The less he sees them the more support is owed. If you can get pictures of him drinking or acting "un fit" then it's more ammo for your arsenal. If he smokes pot or had a medical card ect. Make him look like a scum bag. How often does he call the kids to check on them ect. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Then lay it all out there at once in court. The less he knows the better for you.


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[youpissmeoff]

If Mother Teresa showed up on EF to complain about her difficulties in helping the homeless on the streets of Calcutta, I'm pretty sure a wise juicer with much experience banging whores and earning a middle class living would have some ready criticism and sage advice for her. All hail the Internets.

Rightfully so

 

[jnevin]

I have a few things to say here:

1) Spy Wizard, STFU you're stupid. You're clearly still disturbed based on your abusive childhood. Nobody cares.
2) This douche of an ex is just purposely doing what he can to make your life (and those around him) hell. It must have been an enormous shot to his ego that you walked out on him. Now he's living with his Mommy. I bet he's a very angry and messed up person. Sounds like a complete waste of skin.
3) I hope you get things straightened out through the courts. If you are sole custodian (hope you win) then YES he is responsible for paying child support (fuck off to those here who don't agree).
4) I've been through a crappy divorce/custody thing but my ex didnt have a pot to piss in, didnt have any legal representation, no job, no decent family to support him, no car, no license, no bank account, no house. I too left him and I believe he still holds it against me 12 yrs later, but not nearly as bad as he did the first 5 yrs or so.

Sorry, but Spy Wizard is right.

 

[WoodyO]

I've been scared. If I hold back maybe I can keep my feeling for him in check, or that's what I thought. So if he decides my drama is too much and he leaves I'll be cool.

But we spent all last week together when the boys went to see my grandma. things were said that blew that out of the water.

Spill it!

 

[jackangel]

Rightfully so

watch your fucking mouf chinaman

 

[just...v]

Sorry, but Spy Wizard is right.

Right about what?

 

[just...v]

Spill it!

Do I have to?

 

[WoodyO]

Do I have to?

Shit yeah, you do. The only other thread that's getting any traffic is whiny bitches saying welfare won last night.

 

[just...v]

Take him to court and demand that he surrender his w-2 from the time you were divorced, split ect.. Once the judge sees those they will asses back owed support, then they will asses how often he sees them. The less he sees them the more support is owed. If you can get pictures of him drinking or acting "un fit" then it's more ammo for your arsenal. If he smokes pot or had a medical card ect. Make him look like a scum bag. How often does he call the kids to check on them ect. DOCUMENT EVERYTHING. Then lay it all out there at once in court. The less he knows the better for you.


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The only thing that makes him "unfit" is that he is aggressive. And since that one time he has not been aggressive with the boys. Or at least the boys haven't said anything about it.

He is just a completely arrogant asshole. He's racist, lazy, arrogant and thinks he's entitled to being taken care of. He is the "cool" dad. He let's them do what they want, encourages fighting. Doesn't push education and self reaponsiblity. To me those are traits if an unfit father but I'm not sure a judge will see those as reasons.