Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below Dude, hearing no is the risk you take - if she's laughing at you for asking, 100% chance she'd push you off if you just went up and started dancing too. But I swear to god I want to slap the shit out of any guy who gets in my space when I haven't OKed it. My body is not some random guy's hump pillow. You seriously need some major social etiquette training.
How to approach women in the clubs, to dance
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Dude, hearing no is the risk you take - if she's laughing at you for asking, 100% chance she'd push you off if you just went up and started dancing too. But I swear to god I want to slap the shit out of any guy who gets in my space when I haven't OKed it. My body is not some random guy's hump pillow. You seriously need some major social etiquette training.
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Well, if you are looking for a relationship, maybe it is best not to be looking for girls who like for you to grind them in night clubs. Club rats don't make good gf's.
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I second this. That pisses me off.nefertiti said:
Oh....and the girls who laugh at you when you ask them...even if they DIDN't push you off if you had hypothetically just gone up and started humping on them, they would definitely be making faces at their friends like, "OH NOEZ!! SAVE ME FROM TEH CREEPY BONERZ!!"
Just so you know.
Just so you know.
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You have to realize that a guy obviously alone on a dance floor like has been said previously has very low social value. This says to people either you are a loner or someone that nobody wants to hang out with. Either way you aren't exactly attractive. Plus if you are out there asking all these girls to dance the women on the floor have seen you get shot down by the first dozen and are already laughing at you being that guy asking every girl to dance. And if you are going to the same place every time by now you've already been labelled by any of the regulars.
If you had killer dance moves, my advice would be get out there to a good song, kick it up, get some attention and then walk to the bar where you can actually have a conversation with people. But you really need to work on speaking to girls and having real conversations with them first. There are lots of easy ways to start a conversation. Ask open ended questions they can't answer with a yes or no, make sure you are interested in them and not talking about yourself, talk about what interests them, etc. Start easy - quick hits like "hey, that's an interesting bracelet." or "wow this band is really good." You don't have to have a 20 minute dialogue. But you do have to do something.
Last night I was out on the dance floor with one male friend and three female ones. It was like child's play to strike up a conversation with one of the girls dancing around us. You get the eye contact, give them a smile and they smile back and you go.
If you had killer dance moves, my advice would be get out there to a good song, kick it up, get some attention and then walk to the bar where you can actually have a conversation with people. But you really need to work on speaking to girls and having real conversations with them first. There are lots of easy ways to start a conversation. Ask open ended questions they can't answer with a yes or no, make sure you are interested in them and not talking about yourself, talk about what interests them, etc. Start easy - quick hits like "hey, that's an interesting bracelet." or "wow this band is really good." You don't have to have a 20 minute dialogue. But you do have to do something.
Last night I was out on the dance floor with one male friend and three female ones. It was like child's play to strike up a conversation with one of the girls dancing around us. You get the eye contact, give them a smile and they smile back and you go.
healother said:
Do this one, don't even make eye contact, seriously, just go up to one and start humping her leg like a terrier with shitty manners.
One of these days you're gonna catch just the right bitch and she's gonna punch you in the crotch so hard your balls will explode and everyone's problems will be solved
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