How do 'you' do it? how do you get a girl to dance with you?
Do you just start dancing in her vicinity? Do you ask her if she wants to dance, do you just start grinding on her?
In the past month I've gone dancing a couple nights a week, and usually get a couple good dances from some girls each time. I approach quite a few and get turned down a LOT. Many times I've noticed that they'll completely blow me off if I look interested but dont make a bold attempt. I know some guys just go up and grind on them, and some like that, but I just cant bring myself to do it, because I know that some girls dont want that, and i dont wanna be disrespectful.
Well tonight and last night were disasterous. I got turned down an awful lot. I'm wondering if maybe I'm doing something wrong. Most nights i really only get maybe a couple good dances from some girls, sometimes its just one dance and she isnt even that into it. But with the 40 or so women or so dancing I would think I could do better than that.
Really, I'm in it for the good feeling, I just love grinding with women at the club. I know thats not the reason why most people go clubbing, but whatever, it makes me feel good so thats why i go.