How to approach women in the clubs, to dance

[biteme]

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i like biteme. i like biteme a lot.

but i would steal bitemes girl from under his nose so fast its not funny.

Huh? I like you too. Really do. But, you are full of yourself. My woman is head over heals in love with me and I don't think a man on the planet could steal her away from me. Unless of course that man is GD, superhero and conqueror of all pussy.

 

[GoldenDelicious]

i have few female friends, and even less of them that are attractive. ive discoverd that for the most part attractive females tend to only associate with attractive males.

important phrase: "for the most part"

so basically id be working full time to get benefits and then working at a bar one night a week as well? dang...

being paid to be at a bar while women throw themselves at you does not count as 'work'

i need to control the flow of information, youve given me so much advice over the years i need to organize it all. once of these months im going to have a GD month, and then the next month a David DeAngelo month, lol, where i try pretending to be you or him for a month.
hmm, im going to have to buy a plat membership to lookup all the advice youve given to me! lol.

the david deangelo stuff is good for eliminating self limiting beliefs etc

pretending to be someone else doesnt work

the plan is to develop yourself so that in a few months, others will model themselves on YOU

 

[ponyfitness]

not much, just trying to get some ass, as usual. but not trying hard enough.

Part of the trouble too my friend is you're putting way too much pressure on yourself to get some action. Have you ever considered just going and doing something with members of the opposite sex that's fun? There are lots of things like coed sports leagues, clubs, classes etc in any city that can be a way to learn new things while also meeting members of the opposite sex.

If I were in your situation I would first sign up for some kind of dance class, preferably hip hop or something current like salsa. Or take a class in something you're really interested in. Do group fitness classes at the gym to develop some rhythm while also getting in better shape. Join a beach volleyball rec team for the summer.

I know that when I go out specifically to pick up it rarely happens. When I go out to simply have a good time, I always manage to meet people because you're not giving off that "I'm desperate" vibe. And you always have fun.

 

[bigmann245]

"hello" works for me

 

[Mr. Black]

You could always do a cycle of roids and beef up. Chicks dig big muscles. You'll have girls coming up to you out of nowhere wanting to grab your guns...might grab something else too if your lucky lol

 

[Tweakle]

Originally Posted by Island Son
You should check out a west indian soca club sometime. Nobody asks, you just grab a random woman from behind, grind for a couple minutes, release, grab another woman, repeat. No talking, no names. Fricking awesome



havent heard of it before. link please!

it's really not for you Stevie.. I don't think you want to be going to any of those kind of places in the midwest as it's just a little teeny tiny bit more segragated down there. Have you even talked to a black person before?

If you want to have some no-holds barred grinding on the hottest women on the planet then book a trip to trinidad this summer for carnival. You might not even get shot, kidnapped or stabbed!

 

[superqt4u2nv]

it's really not for you Stevie.. I don't think you want to be going to any of those kind of places in the midwest as it's just a little teeny tiny bit more segragated down there. Have you even talked to a black person before?

If you want to have some no-holds barred grinding on the hottest women on the planet then book a trip to trinidad this summer for carnival. You might not even get shot, kidnapped or stabbed!

Why don't you invite him to for Caribana show him how it is done.

 

[Tweakle]

lol, He should come up for Pride week if he's looking for crotch rubbing action and making out with random strangers.

Might even get his cherry finally popped.

 

[Island Son]

Why don't you invite him to for Caribana show him how it is done.

lol @ caribana. there's nowhere in north america like the real thing. Sorry, I was just reminiscing, you're not ready for that yet

Don't think of just clubs... any event, concert, street fair, bookstore, mall, starbucks, etc is fair game. Heck, I've gotten contacts in a 5-minute walk home from the subway, standing outside a sandwich shop, etc.
Don't expect to be good in a month, you've gotta find out what works for you over time.... eventually when you see a specific girl you really want, you'll have the talent to show your best self. So get out there and train!