It needs to work both ways, and she should care how many people I've slept with in general terms. If Dude A slept with 10 girls and had unprotected 10% of the time that's 1 person. If Dude B slept with 50 girls and had unprotected sex 10% of the time that's 5 girls. The absolute chances of catching bad things goes up. I've learned alot about being after countless, instant message chats, 2-3 hour phone calls, etc. If I didn't feel good about the situation I wouldn't be meeting her in the first place. That's why I would turn you down. LOL (joke)