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How many dates...

The last three people I slept with I met online. I hit it with all three on the first meeting but there was more than a year of chatting & phoning before each one of those.

For offline dating I say nothing below the waist on the first date or two, hand stimulation on the next, oral on the following then hittin it after that. So I guess that's 4-5 dates.
 
I think it depends on well with me, how attracted to them I am....Ive waited 2 weeks..and 4 months and the last one was the first time we went out...but I think 3-6 is a good time to get to know someone.
 
80% of the time I hit it on the first date if there is any chemistry at all. At the bare minimum we get half naked and "mess around".
 
If I feel there's a chance for a long term relationship, then a minimum of 6, 7 dates. Otherwise it doesn't matter.
 
i've waited as long as 3 dates, always try for sooner though
but to honest, i have never gone on a date with someone i didn't know from something else though
 
Please explain this concept to me. I don't understand this notion. Is it about "waiting" so the guy doesn't think you are easy? Or that it just takes this long for you to feel comfortable enough to have desire for them?
 
onebigab said:
If I take a girl out to dinner, I'm fucking her in the ass. So I guess the first date. ;)

If I take her out to dinner, she better be blowin me under the table before the entrees arrive
 
Werd said:
Please explain this concept to me. I don't understand this notion. Is it about "waiting" so the guy doesn't think you are easy? Or that it just takes this long for you to feel comfortable enough to have desire for them?


If she gives up the honey on the first or second date I have to wonder how many times she's done this before, since I don't consider myself anything to look at. Plus, from that point on I expect sex everytime I see her and if I don't get sex it's a wasted date. That attitude eventually rears it's ugly head. I appreciate it alot more if I have to work a lil for it.
 
Dial_tone said:
If she gives up the honey on the first or second date I have to wonder how many times she's done this before, since I don't consider myself anything to look at. Plus, from that point on I expect sex everytime I see her and if I don't get sex it's a wasted date. That attitude eventually rears it's ugly head. I appreciate it alot more if I have to work a lil for it.

But then, what if she thinks YOU are a slut for giving up the honey so quickly? Shouldn't it work both ways?

If a chick doesn't care how many girls you have boned before you met her, why should you care how many guys she has doinked?

And you also said that you doinked chicks you met on the net the first time. How does emailing and that make up for getting a sense of each other in person? She could be lying through her teeth on the web. How does that make her less of a ho?

QY - gotcha - 'tis cool.
 
It needs to work both ways, and she should care how many people I've slept with in general terms. If Dude A slept with 10 girls and had unprotected 10% of the time that's 1 person. If Dude B slept with 50 girls and had unprotected sex 10% of the time that's 5 girls. The absolute chances of catching bad things goes up. I've learned alot about being after countless, instant message chats, 2-3 hour phone calls, etc. If I didn't feel good about the situation I wouldn't be meeting her in the first place. That's why I would turn you down. LOL (joke)
 
Dial_tone said:
It needs to work both ways, and she should care how many people I've slept with in general terms. If Dude A slept with 10 girls and had unprotected 10% of the time that's 1 person. If Dude B slept with 50 girls and had unprotected sex 10% of the time that's 5 girls. The absolute chances of catching bad things goes up. I've learned alot about being after countless, instant message chats, 2-3 hour phone calls, etc. If I didn't feel good about the situation I wouldn't be meeting her in the first place. That's why I would turn you down. LOL (joke)


Yea... that THAT would ever happen! LOL

What if she slept with like 100 guys but used protection every single time? Would this be better than a girl who had only slept with 2 guys but only used protection with one?

Come on... think about what you are saying.

You telling me that you have only been with less women than you can count on one hand? I saw your pic DT and there ain't no way that is possible. :D
 
a woman is a ho if she puts out but what is a guy considered? She has to put out to SOMEONE...what exactly are guys considered that put out on the first date?
 
This new software loses posts; i'm not typing my response again.
 
I guess it would just depend on the situation.....and the person. There are to many variables to give a number
 
I wouldn't fuck a stranger on a first date, but I will fuck my girlfriends on first dates. :D As for meeting people from the net and fucking them the first time you see them in person...that's doable imo, especially if you've known the person online for a long time. I have one net-friend who I met a few times (we kissed and groped a bit at those meetings) before fucking her. My husband hadn't met her before that first night but he knew her from online as long as I did so he had no problems doing her right away. Her online persona was exactly as she was in person...absolutely perfect!
 
depends. im comfortable having sex on the first date as long as you have trust, comfort, and attraction, but if i think that the girl is prudish and will have issues about giving it up too early and all that bullshit then i hang back. its silly to undermine things right from the beginning due to silly stuff like that
 
superqt4u2nv said:
do you wait before hittin it?

For me between 3-6 dates depends on the person etc.
:qt:

You mean, gettin hit, right? So you pretty much sleep with everyone you date? A girl as pretty as you needn't be so easy.
 
Why are girls the ones that are considered the ones to put out? Why is it the man that says hes gonna "hit it" ....hmmmmm I think the guys should be the ones to put out sometimes and the woman to hit it....

Girl 1: Hey gf whats up? How was that hot ass date you had last night?

Girl 2: Oh it was great..that bitch put out easy for me.

Girl 1: Sweet, did you tell him you would call him afterwards?

Girl 2: Yeah he asked and I told him ok but you know me..I wont....

Girl 1: You go girl....now lets go get that french manicure...I need one bad

Girl 2: OK...and did i tell u about SoKlueles? Shes so cool....
 
ttlpkg said:
You mean, gettin hit, right? So you pretty much sleep with everyone you date? A girl as pretty as you needn't be so easy.
:p No I don't ALWAYS sleep with everyone I date. The 3-6 would be an average since the first time I had sex. I date a lot but very rarely do guys make it to the 3-6 date. I am very picky.
:qt:
 
Gymgurl: I guess it would just depend on the situation.....and the person. There are to many variables to give a number

Agree, however, for me it usually takes about 3-4 dates (before I make the move).

OK!! So I'm a slow mover, but, to me the prize is worth waiting for.
 
w/o really trying,you get to getting frisky and hands wander,if you get a finger beyond that panty band then its a green signal(if they even have a panty band)..if the finger can get just a bit farther you can feel the slit/clit..if its saturarted,whats a guy to do?
 
1 to 3 dates depending on circumstances. I don`t like beating around the bush and tell the women I`m with exactly that. I think I make myself clear of what I want in a woman when I go out with them. That`s why I choose quiet evenings talking/walking/drinks instead of the movies where you can`t get to know each other.

In the end, if you went on 5 or 8 dates, what did that do? It just made it "look" like you guys were innocent before having sex. We`re talking about adults here with logical consious thinking (hopefully) lol So I don`t waste time. If the woman does waste time, I don`t pursue it. I even tell them, "It could be my loss or yours, we`ll never know" and it ends that way. I usually get my way though.
 
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