help with boyfriends "roid rage"

[nrg]

Sassy69...we've never actually discussed this, when he's in what I decifer as one of his 'roid moods'. I just know myself and I know he's aware of it - esp. when he's driving!! He'll make little comments like "test time" or "it's the cycle talking babe". It's like an unwritten rule now, when I sense he's going there I just back off. It's all good just a little confusing at first.

Thx for the comments chica!

 

[Serenity Head]

I have been on some pretty harsh cycles and I have never felt any type of rage.(We're talking 3 +grams/week) I think that it is macho guys that like to pretend that there gear is working a bit better than it is. Unless he is dieting I see no reason for that type of behavior.
You deserve to have the man you truely love, not some crazed maniac.

 

[Thaibox]

R Rage is an excuse to act like an immature prick.

In January I was on 1g/wk test, 75/day fina, 100/day winny, 100/day prov, 600/wk deca. I felt a little escalation of temper during the times when I would be pissed anyway, but not once was it directed at my girl, ever. I sure as fuck wouldn't call her "a fucking bitch", nor would she ever, even for a second, believe that I could ever even think about harming her physically.

Most importantly, if my girl laid out a legitamate reason such as yours showing her desire for me to stop gear, I would. You know why?? Because I love her. If you sincerely ask your guy to do something simple for you and they say no, you need to think a little more objectively about the relationship.


FRACKAL had the best answer....slap his dumb ass and tell him to stop being such a little bitch

 

[Imnotdutch]

I haven't read all of the responses so excuse me if I repeat something.

You know how when puberty hits, kids turn into assholes? Well, he is effectively hitting puberty again. The only difference is that puberty is a natural increase in test whereas he used a needle this time. Bottom line is test makes you more aggressive and confident.....that is at least part of what he is experiencing. He needs to recognise when he is being unusually aggressive and learn to back off.

The way I see it, mature people cope with the changes well. Alot fo people dont bother.......those people have no business being on cycle.

my boyfriend is on a cycle and he is changing, big time. he has NO patience AT ALL anymore. We are fighting more often and he is always on edge. I feel like I annoy him by just being alive sometimes. Dont get me wrong, he is a wonderful guy and we have a great relationship but its changing and getting harder to continue with his steriod use. The other day we got in a fight and I had NO CLUE who was standing in front of me saying and doing the things he was doing. I thought he was going to hit me. it was really horrible . He felt so bad and couldnt stop talking about it. He couldnt even believe how he was acting. Another time a group of men didnt see him with me and said something inappropriate to me and he literally lost his mind. He took my club from my car and approached these men screaming all sorts of obsurd things. I mean that could not be any more opposite from the man I fell in love with!He is usually extremely calm and mature but hes acting like an asshole, to put it bluntly.

We talked about it and he does see what is happening so thats a plus I guess. I told him that the steriods are ruining him. he agrees but is not stopping!?!? Is there anything he can take that will help with this? maybe calm his nerves a little bit? or do I just have to wait this one out.

I want my baby back

 

[supertech69]

I am naturally an agresive person, not an asshole but, agressive. I have a shorter fuse when I am on & have a lower tollerance for bullshit but, I don't run around starting fights with people & act like a dick. He's got to learn how to controll the added agression, put it to good use in the gym. If I ever get to the point of feeling like I could lose control or mf GF ever feels threatened by me, I'd probably never touch AS again. You should not have any reason to fear one of the people that you trust most. If he can not controll himself & will not choose you over AS because he can not controll it then he doesn't deserve you. Good luck KB I hope everything works out for you.

 

[40Ngrowin]

i just watched my husband morph into a totally different man.....and leave. i didnt understand what was happening or what to do.

Just to set the record straight........ I am the husband that is being referenced in the above quote. It was my first cycle, and I did leave my wife. It had nothing to do with the steroids, however, except maybe to give me the balls to do what i should have done before. I agree with brick girl on impulse versus behavior, it it easier to blame something intangible, rather than to take a look at ones self and to admit the problem lies there. Lilchit could take that advice as well.