Guys, i need help with my g/f sex drive

[Nutri-Wrestler]

Hey bones, i see we have a lot in common. The only way i could ever get my girl to take a supplement is to tell her it is for fat loss. she is too self concious(sp?) cause she isnt fat at all. Hey bones, let me guess, when you first start it hurts her, but after a while she cant feel anything at all, right? well, thats how my girl is.

Leggs. The whole school girl think gets me off too. I believe it will work for every guy. I told my g/f that when she gets back she has to dress up in a very short plaid skirt, tie up a white shirt so it looks like its just covering her tits and wear knee high socks with her hair in pig tails. Hopefully i can get some head...

If not maybe you can do the school girl thing for me. probably not, but it was worth a shot.

Ross

 

[bigguns7]

I'm no psychologist, but from what you've said, I'll bet she has some mental/emotional issues with sex rather than physiological.
You say that the only time she gets horny is when she's drunk. Well, that should tell you something right there. Alcohol tends to make us disinhibited, making things that we wouldn't normally do seem like it's not as big of a deal.

Maybe your girl's parents were really oppressive about sex, and when she drinks, she forgets all the guilt and bullshit and just goes at it. Or maybe she's really shy and afraid to express the way she feels for fear of embarrassment in bed. And, no offense here, but maybe she's not sexually attracted to you anymore, or finds something that you do during sex repulsive.

You should explore all of these possibilities to get you closer to the root of the problem, but I'd seriously doubt there is a problem with her physically.

 

[Nutri-Wrestler]

Hey, thanks for the advice guns. You do bring up a good point with the whole unatractive issue. Don't worry, i didnt get offended. However, i dont think that is the problem for many reasons. I know she is still attracted to the way i look.

Ross

 

[LSUMuscle]

My girlfriend is 22, we've been together for 3 years. When we first started dating and for about a year after, our sex life was unbelievable, like all the time, at least once a day all the time. Then she got on birth control. WHAM!!! There went the sex drive. Now, maybe once a month tops will she initiate any kind of sexual activity. We've talked about it, and she mentioned the shot instead of b.c. pills. Does anyone know about the sexual side effects of the shot in comparison to the pill?

 

[Nutri-Wrestler]

LSUMuscle- Do u go to Louisiana State University? If you do ill be heading up that way next year for college. Know any good frats?

Ross

 

[Legs1010]

My girlfriend is 22, we've been together for 3 years. When we first started dating and for about a year after, our sex life was unbelievable, like all the time, at least once a day all the time. Then she got on birth control. WHAM!!! There went the sex drive. Now, maybe once a month tops will she initiate any kind of sexual activity. We've talked about it, and she mentioned the shot instead of b.c. pills. Does anyone know about the sexual side effects of the shot in comparison to the pill?

I will never ever ever ever ever get the depo shot! I have heard horrid horrid things about it. It can totally screw up a woman's body! And the worse thing is, if you have a bad reaction to it, you have to wait three months for it to leave you system.

NO WAY! NEVER EVER!

 

[DrBones]

Well,
Since my whining post a few days ago, I had a good little talk with my gf. We now both think that Birth Control is killing the sex drive. It looks as though she is going to make an attempt to be rowdier.. lets just hope the pill doesn't wreck it..
What are some good healthy supplements that will make her hornier than an inmate on a virgin ass?
Ryan

 

[dmxdmx112v]

DrBones I am EXAAACTLLYY in the same boat as you. Everything u said matches my GF to a T. Its a fuckin chore for her to have sex...i have to practically beg her and finally she'll say....fine. FUCK THAT SHIT Peace

 

[powerhouse1]

I read somewhere that if you give a woman 1 pill of androstedione, about a 1/2 hour or so before the deed that it would increase her sex drive.

I am thinking that it adds to what little test they have in thier bodies and makes them aroused.

powerhouse1

 

[DrBones]

I read somewhere that if you give a woman 1 pill of androstedione, about a 1/2 hour or so before the deed that it would increase her sex drive.

And then in the morning, when you wake up, you can both shave your mustaches and beards off together!
Just kidding...

DMX: I'm really hoping that my situation gets better now that I've told her how depressed its making me. It really depresses me when I read about all the freaky women on here and how open they are(pardon the pun). I really hope that she can pull a 180 and become a freak, because I have WAY too much hormones flowing through my body to only get it once a month. Tell your girl that its depressing the shit out of you, but tell her nicely. Say something like, "I know relationships aren't all about sex, but it is a very important piece of the puzzle. Not only does it bring you closer, but it keeps things fresh and exciting" or you could pull the "I don't think you are really attracted to me anymore. You never show any kind of physical affection. Is there something that I do that bothers you? This is really depressing me, and I need to know why you aren't attracted to me physically anymore". I said stuff like this, and I wasn't bullshitting either. I think if you talk to them about it and be sensitive about their feelings, we might just be able to bring them around!
Ryan