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yeah man that sounds like a plan...thanks for the info..peace
Guys, i need help with my g/f sex drive
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DrBones said:
Dude, that's part of your problem. You have to realize that the women on here are, for the most part, not a true representation of the real women out there (no offense ladies).
1) More than half of them are on some type of anabolic steroid, which GREATLY increases sex drive.
2) They post in an internet chat room ABOUT SEX, which usually means they are unusually freaky.
3) It is very easy to talk the talk in cyberspace, but some of them might not walk the walk in real life.
You're not being fair to your girl if you're comparing her to the freaky women on this board. It's like comparing your girl to a pornstar. Hardly any regular girl will ever measure up. Think about that before you feel so dissatisfied.
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I realize very few girls are freaky to the extreme the girls are in here. I don't expect my girl to be that hardcore (although I wouldn't complain), when your on the complete other side of the spectrum where you get a little action once a month and you basically have to beg for it, and when they finally give in its like its a chore for them... Then I think there is a problem. However I think this last week I've made some decent progress with her... We'll see how things go this weekend... 
Nutri-Wrestler
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Problem soloved
Hey guys, came to report my problem has been solved in a round-about way. Instead of us haing sex more often we broke up
. It didnt involve us talking about the sex problem. We just weren't gettin along too well. So i guess in a way the problem is solved with the whole lack of sex drive since i dont have to worry about it with her anymore.
However, there is another girl who likes me and i like her too. She is very experienced if you get what im talkin about, seeing where this is posted i hope u do. Anyways, i dont like her b/c of her incredible sex drive, i like her b/c of who she is. Even if she didnt have a sex drive i would still be interested.
However, i have a new problem... She has a lot of expierence and i have virtually none. Hell, havent even gone through a box of condoms yet. Dont start laughing just yeat. Me and my ex girl were together for almost 2 and a half years. She was the first person i ever had sex, but i guess at my age you cant really start any younger. Im 18 now and when me and my ex started i was about 16. We didnt do it often as i have mentioned before. So what im trying to say is, HELP! Any pointers, tips so i dont embarass myself in the sack? I know it wont matter to her how i am in bed, but it matters to me. i dont want to let her down.
Ross
OK, no you can start laughing since i know most of you will.
Hey guys, came to report my problem has been solved in a round-about way. Instead of us haing sex more often we broke up
. It didnt involve us talking about the sex problem. We just weren't gettin along too well. So i guess in a way the problem is solved with the whole lack of sex drive since i dont have to worry about it with her anymore.However, there is another girl who likes me and i like her too. She is very experienced if you get what im talkin about, seeing where this is posted i hope u do. Anyways, i dont like her b/c of her incredible sex drive, i like her b/c of who she is. Even if she didnt have a sex drive i would still be interested.
However, i have a new problem... She has a lot of expierence and i have virtually none. Hell, havent even gone through a box of condoms yet. Dont start laughing just yeat. Me and my ex girl were together for almost 2 and a half years. She was the first person i ever had sex, but i guess at my age you cant really start any younger. Im 18 now and when me and my ex started i was about 16. We didnt do it often as i have mentioned before. So what im trying to say is, HELP! Any pointers, tips so i dont embarass myself in the sack? I know it wont matter to her how i am in bed, but it matters to me. i dont want to let her down.
Ross
OK, no you can start laughing since i know most of you will.
Ha Ha Ha Ha!
Just fucking with you. Seriously though, I do have some advice because I've been in the exact same situation as you at an age very close.
I dated the girl I lost my virginity to for about 3 years, and eventually her sex drive went the way of the dodo. I expressed my feelings and she never made an attempt to make things better. I was always pissed at her because basically what she was saying was, "You're not worth the effort". So I broke it off. Soon after I started dating someone else, someone a lot more experienced (with different people). You know what? The sex was the best I've ever had, and she was impressed by what I could do. She said it was because I had dated the same person for so long, I had sort of an in-depth experience.
So don't worry about not being good enough. You may be better than you think. Just be safe, and don't jump in to it.
Now for lesson #2.
You've been on the sexless wagon for a while and this new relationship will be a little clouded by this. Take it slow, and don't assume that what you think is love is love. Remember how it was in the beginning with your ex?
With me, my ex must have thought I would never date anyone else, and when I did it changed her a lot. Suddenly she wanted to have sex a lot. And we did even though I was dating someone new. Eventually, my new relationship ended and my old one started again. A few months down the line and guess what? No sex again.
Eventually we broke up again, I dated and moved in with someone else, so my ex changed yet again and the sex with the ex started again! So my newer relationship ended and I got back with the ex. Eventually we got married, and a few months into it and guess what? No sex! (Yes I know I'm a moron)
The moral of the story is, your ex-girlfriend may sober up and act like you want her to get you back, but don't fall for it. Learn from my mistakes pal, and just keep on dating. Girls like that NEVER change, and there are plenty of girls who have normal sex drives, or care enough to get help if they don't. Enjoy your youth and never look back. Oh and don't forget girls with lots of ecperience can have lots of STDs! (Made that mistake too)
Just fucking with you. Seriously though, I do have some advice because I've been in the exact same situation as you at an age very close.
I dated the girl I lost my virginity to for about 3 years, and eventually her sex drive went the way of the dodo. I expressed my feelings and she never made an attempt to make things better. I was always pissed at her because basically what she was saying was, "You're not worth the effort". So I broke it off. Soon after I started dating someone else, someone a lot more experienced (with different people). You know what? The sex was the best I've ever had, and she was impressed by what I could do. She said it was because I had dated the same person for so long, I had sort of an in-depth experience.
So don't worry about not being good enough. You may be better than you think. Just be safe, and don't jump in to it.
Now for lesson #2.
You've been on the sexless wagon for a while and this new relationship will be a little clouded by this. Take it slow, and don't assume that what you think is love is love. Remember how it was in the beginning with your ex?
With me, my ex must have thought I would never date anyone else, and when I did it changed her a lot. Suddenly she wanted to have sex a lot. And we did even though I was dating someone new. Eventually, my new relationship ended and my old one started again. A few months down the line and guess what? No sex again.
Eventually we broke up again, I dated and moved in with someone else, so my ex changed yet again and the sex with the ex started again! So my newer relationship ended and I got back with the ex. Eventually we got married, and a few months into it and guess what? No sex! (Yes I know I'm a moron)
The moral of the story is, your ex-girlfriend may sober up and act like you want her to get you back, but don't fall for it. Learn from my mistakes pal, and just keep on dating. Girls like that NEVER change, and there are plenty of girls who have normal sex drives, or care enough to get help if they don't. Enjoy your youth and never look back. Oh and don't forget girls with lots of ecperience can have lots of STDs! (Made that mistake too)
shadylask3
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Plain and simple, there is a pill that is out to help her problem
its a lil expensive, prolly like $20 a pill. Dont get caught with it, its not too legal... go find her some MDMA. hahaha
its a lil expensive, prolly like $20 a pill. Dont get caught with it, its not too legal... go find her some MDMA. hahaha
Re: Problem soloved
This is just how I solved the problem. Been with the same girl for 5 years. All that DrBones said, was my story to the letter. The sigh, the acting like it was a chore, dryness, lack of responce. And worst of all just laying there like a stick. She had a great sex drive, then the shot. The pill was fine, but she was not careful and forgot it often... don't want to have a kid now do we. She would not take any intrest in fixing this problem. May be a terrible thing to call off a wedding for, but I did.
Only been a week now. Seems strange to suddenly be living alone, we have lived together for 4 years.
Nutri-Wrestler said:
This is just how I solved the problem. Been with the same girl for 5 years. All that DrBones said, was my story to the letter. The sigh, the acting like it was a chore, dryness, lack of responce. And worst of all just laying there like a stick. She had a great sex drive, then the shot. The pill was fine, but she was not careful and forgot it often... don't want to have a kid now do we. She would not take any intrest in fixing this problem. May be a terrible thing to call off a wedding for, but I did.
Only been a week now. Seems strange to suddenly be living alone, we have lived together for 4 years.
Nutri-Wrestler
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Fish, that has to be one of the most depressing posts i have heard.
Thanks for the advice Loomer, it is much appreciated. Anyone else out there have an insightful mind?
Ross
Thanks for the advice Loomer, it is much appreciated. Anyone else out there have an insightful mind?
Ross
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My girl has been on depo for over 3 years now and she has never had any sides. No loss in libido, actually rivals mine andm I'm "on" right now. She doesn't have a period at all. She will sometimes get a little secretion or spot around the time of her next shot but that's it. The good thing is that it took her sister over a year to get prego after stopping so I know there's a good chance the getting my girl prego is practically nil which I love.
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