Girl was completely silent during sex

[Christopher X]

I got lucky on Saturday night with a girl I met at a party a couple of weeks ago. She’s sweet and pretty and was definitely a good fuck, and I left her place feeling very happy.

The only thing was that, during foreplay and sex, she made no noise at all. It was like being in a silent movie. Even when she came (and I am pretty sure she did, before I was inside her), no sound came from her except a bit of increased breathing. I’m not talking here about loud moans and screams of ecstasy or anything like that – I mean just nothing audible at all.

She seemed very comfortable with her body, she responded to things I did, she had some nice tricks of her own, and she was more than ready for another round later in the evening and again in the morning, so I don’t think it’s a matter of shyness or nervousness or lack of experience.

I’m going to try to hook up with her again because she’s rather sweet and the sex as such was good, but I’m a bit spooked by this lack of any noise at all. I’ve never had such a quiet woman before – usually there’s a whimper or a murmur or a sigh, or something!

Has anyone else had this ‘silent treatment’?

 

[Luca Reinheart]

Jesus christ...lol

 

[tonyp]

never heard of this, but the bottom line is you gotta sweet fuck and she seems up for more...keep focused on what's really goin' on and don't worry about the quiet--just poke harder, maybe she'll perk up verbally, but anyway you'll get whattya need.

 

[machaveli]

i've had one just like it.....no noise, no breathing , no nothing.
A dead fish. Broke it off two days later.

 

[Nico Cujo]

Put on some Sarah Mclachlin and have fun.

 

[Devastation]

Put on some Sarah Mclachlin and have fun.

HUH?? Do NOT do this

 

[newpump]

I was with a girl YEARS ago who had this problem. We were both around 17 or 18... and she and I were both relatively new to the whole sex thing. Anyway, it turns out that she was pretty silent during sex. Being the vocal/straight forward guy I am.. I asked her about it. Turns out that she had NO idea that it was a "turn on" for a man to hear a chick moaning/groaning/getting into it. She was like - "wow, I was trying not to make too much noise, so I wouldn't ruin the mood"!!! Well, after I laid it all out for her (pun intended) she was a MANIAC. Moral of the story - never underestimate the power of conversation!!!!

 

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I’m a bit spooked by this lack of any noise at all

This is normal dude. Some women are just not extroverted when it comes to making orangutan noises in bed. I run silent too. Just depends on who it is. I would rather have silent then the damn screamers that sound like you are pulling their fingernails out one by one.

 

[Christopher X]

Thanks for the replies, guys.

Saw her again last night - same thing. I asked her about it and she said that she's always been quiet during sex - she likes to wallow in the feelings, she says. So that's that, I guess. I certainly don't want her making noise just to put on a show, so I'm just going to go along with it. Like someone said, I'm getting some of what I need ...

Now, despite what she first said when we got together, I'm a bit worried that she might want something a bit more permanent (and exclusive) than I do at the moment, but that's a different problem again!

 

[Parabellum]

Has anyone else had this ‘silent treatment’?

This is a result of years of hearing how bad sex is.

How old is she, a youngin' I bet.