Getting past mental issues

[spankenstine]

Just got out of a 5 yr relationship less than a week ago. Now all of a sudden I've got 3 girls lined up(all are pretty smokin). I was with one girl last night who told me she was waiting 5 years for this night. AS if that wasn't enuff pressure she was a good friend, AND the first girl I've been with(other than my Ex) in 5 yrs. W/ all that shit my cock was floppin like a dead tree branch. I know its not a physical problem, and she was very cool about it,and i'm good enuff w/ my hands and mouth to get the job done for her, but im worried that my big head is gonna keep f*ckin up my little head(lookin at a viscious cycle here).And I know that girls only have so much patience for this type of thing. Any suggestions to get past this? Hypnosis, viagra,??? I know someone has been in my position before.

 

[bunkka]

Just got out of a 5 yr relationship less than a week ago. Now all of a sudden I've got 3 girls lined up(all are pretty smokin). I was with one girl last night who told me she was waiting 5 years for this night. AS if that wasn't enuff pressure she was a good friend, AND the first girl I've been with(other than my Ex) in 5 yrs. W/ all that shit my cock was floppin like a dead tree branch. I know its not a physical problem, and she was very cool about it,and i'm good enuff w/ my hands and mouth to get the job done for her, but im worried that my big head is gonna keep f*ckin up my little head(lookin at a viscious cycle here).And I know that girls only have so much patience for this type of thing. Any suggestions to get past this? Hypnosis, viagra,??? I know someone has been in my position before.

I've been there myself. I was faithful to my Ex for 7 years (turned out, I was a sucker).

Even with everything that went down in my divorce, that first time being with a different woman didn't feel natural.

Probably just going to take time, but until then I'd maybe get on the supplments Tribulus and Yohimbe until then for the machinery to work right.

 

[danaf1]

Don't stress it bro. I have been there myself a couple of times actually. Th first time I was going to have sex I was 15 and I got so nervous and felt a lot of pressure to perform that I couldn't get it up. After that it kept lingering in my mind and the next girl I was with the same thing happend. By that time I was always thinking about it and when I would mess around with any of these girls it worked just fine but when the moment of truth came the same thing happened. I was so stressed about it. The next girls I was with the same thing started to happen and I just said fuck it and ignored it. I messed around with her and didn't care if it was going to happen or not. Immediately after that I had no problem getting it up and haven't ever since. Just don't stress it and everything will work naturally.

 

[PBR]

the "Pedestal Effect" can be common when confronted by deep emotional expression.

 

[spankenstine]

I know, I should give it time, but it's like YAYYYY freedom. I was always good @ flirting and talking to girls, but I never had to worry about sealing the deal. Now all these girls I used to flirt with know i'm single and theyre all like wasssuup. My ex gave me a good sex rep and i dont wanna f*ck it up. It's driving me crazy. I feel better tho , knowing im not the only one. The F*cked up part is, I know i'm good . I just need the confidence back. I've tried tribulus in the past, but i never noticed a difference(maybe cause I didnt need it). I just ordered Nutrex Vitrix from bb.com. I have no idea if it workx. If NE1 can recommend something I would be most appreciative.

p.s. I know i'm typin alot here, but i am a little freaked and this is kinda makin me feel better. Thanx

 

[spankenstine]

Oh....I just read rottenwillows little story about her first time with a girl and now i cant get it down.

 

[RU2]

Just got out of a 5 yr relationship less than a week ago. Now all of a sudden I've got 3 girls lined up(all are pretty smokin). I was with one girl last night who told me she was waiting 5 years for this night. AS if that wasn't enuff pressure she was a good friend, AND the first girl I've been with(other than my Ex) in 5 yrs. W/ all that shit my cock was floppin like a dead tree branch. I know its not a physical problem, and she was very cool about it,and i'm good enuff w/ my hands and mouth to get the job done for her, but im worried that my big head is gonna keep f*ckin up my little head(lookin at a viscious cycle here).

I had the same episode a few days ago as well - Out of a 1 year and two months relationship. But she didn't try much to make things work though.

that first time being with a different woman didn't feel natural.

Exactly.

 

[Cornobbled]

Hey bro. I have been there. Still do on occasion. Ms.Cornobbled is bisexual and we end up with an extra pair of panties on the floor occasionally. Sometimes I end up with a couple of tasks to complete. Occasionally the two heads have a hard time (or not so hard time) getting things going. It is just a mental thing that plagues me sometimes. I find that the less I worry about it the less that it happens. I am almost to the point that it is no longer happening at all. Just try not to worry. That is my best advice.
Good luck bro!

 

[camshaft]

happened to me several times....its seems random. but once i get comfortable with a chick it usualy isnt an issue. it only happens with new chicks which makes it worse.

 

[The Terminator]

Maybe try using some Cialis to cure your "physical" dilemna until your "mental" dilemna gets worked out