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[ck2006]

my kid has been getting picked on at school, every recess the other boys make these soccer teams up 7 players to 4 and tell him he sucks and just plain bullying. Well today, he got so frustrated he kicked one of them. I was alright with that but then he goes on to tell me that the boy shoved him and he started to cry UG

I am phoning the school on monday cause this has been going on for two weeks.

 

[needtogetaas]

my kid has been getting picked on at school, every recess the other boys make these soccer teams up 7 players to 4 and tell him he sucks and just plain bullying. Well today, he got so frustrated he kicked one of them. I was alright with that but then he goes on to tell me that the boy shoved him and he started to cry UG

I am phoning the school on monday cause this has been going on for two weeks.

not cool.iam sorry but you have to get youre boy to man up.you call the school and it will just make it worce fore him.this happend to my boy a wile back to.tell him he has to stick up fore himself.I sat down and had a long time with my oldist about this.I told him if you dont do something about this now they will be doing this the rt of his life no matter how many times momy calls.its a doggy dog world girl.youre boy ether has to lern to stick up fore himself or he is going to get picked on the rest of his life no matter how many times you call the school.youre only going to make it worce fore him if you do..... i got my son into a full contact sport and it has helped.I tell him every day never ever let some one make fun of you.

some kid was picking on him every day fore like 2 weeks strate.realy big kid that had stade back so he was older.I told my son go into school tomorro and walk right up and just punch the kid right in the face.its a hard thing to tell youre kid to do but it has to be don.unless youre ok with youre kid getting picked on every day fore the rest of his life.fuck every parint in the world that says otherwise.if you thing you can just call the school and everyhting will be ok youre so sadly mistaken.youre just makeing it worce.many parints will say ya I called the school anf now everything is ok.not true it got worce and youre kid wont tell you any more becuase he dont want you calling the school any more so he wont tell you.

now is croshal time fore youre boy.he will set the tone fore the rest of his school life ether ass the pussy others can take advanteg off or the kid that people know not to fuck with.and sadly its all in youre hands.

 

[ck2006]

not cool.iam sorry but you have to get youre boy to man up.you call the school and it will just make it worce fore him.this happend to my boy a wile back to.tell him he has to stick up fore himself.I sat down and had a long time with my oldist about this.I told him if you dont do something about this now they will be doing this the rt of his life no matter how many times momy calls.its a doggy dog world girl.youre boy ether has to lern to stick up fore himself or he is going to get picked on the rest of his life no matter how many times you call the school.youre only going to make it worce fore him if you do..... i got my son into a full contact sport and it has helped.I tell him every day never ever let some one make fun of you.

some kid was picking on him every day fore like 2 weeks strate.realy big kid that had stade back so he was older.I told my son go into school tomorro and walk right up and just punch the kid right in the face.its a hard thing to tell youre kid to do but it has to be don.unless youre ok with youre kid getting picked on every day fore the rest of his life.fuck every parint in the world that says otherwise.if you thing you can just call the school and everyhting will be ok youre so sadly mistaken.youre just makeing it worce.many parints will say ya I called the school anf now everything is ok.not true it got worce and youre kid wont tell you any more becuase he dont want you calling the school any more so he wont tell you.

now is croshal time fore youre boy.he will set the tone fore the rest of his school life ether ass the pussy others can take advanteg off or the kid that people know not to fuck with.and sadly its all in youre hands.

I know what your saying, we have told him exactly what you are saying, I was going to phone the school anomoynously (spelling). I worked for a junior high as a educational assistant for 8 years with special needs children so I know all to well (fortunatly, and unfortunatly they either knew or didn't know they were getting bullied) my boy does, it is breaking my heart.

I will talk to him again and ask him if he wants me to phone anomoymously, cause he didn't seem to keen in the first place and hubby and I were saying he might not tell us anymore. But there needs to be more supervision on the playground.

We told him never to start a fight but finish it, the crying thing was totally unexpected. We are dreading monday for him, but just keep on telling him to suck it up and to act like nothing happened, if the boy starts bugging him again we gave him some good one liners to come back with.

The contact sport is a good idea, I like your thinking

Thank you

 

[sbt2082]

 

[needtogetaas]

I know what your saying, we have told him exactly what you are saying, I was going to phone the school anomoynously (spelling). I worked for a junior high as a educational assistant for 8 years with special needs children so I know all to well (fortunatly, and unfortunatly they either knew or didn't know they were getting bullied) my boy does, it is breaking my heart.

I will talk to him again and ask him if he wants me to phone anomoymously, cause he didn't seem to keen in the first place and hubby and I were saying he might not tell us anymore. But there needs to be more supervision on the playground.

We told him never to start a fight but finish it, the crying thing was totally unexpected. We are dreading monday for him, but just keep on telling him to suck it up and to act like nothing happened, if the boy starts bugging him again we gave him some good one liners to come back with.

The contact sport is a good idea, I like your thinking

Thank you

at the age youre son is at there is no risk of sirice injery.there yong and not to stronfg.they may puch and kick and what ever but no one is going to get a bone broken.get him into a full contackt sport now and let him grow with it.thats what my dad did.I was in full contact kick boxing when I was 6 and stayed with full contacks sports till I was 18 then left fore the army when I was 20.
my first realy big fight witha much older kid I was 8 and my father took my there and told me you go fight this kid and give it youre all or iam kicking youre ass.it was hard fore me but I got through it.it was essy fore me at that age cuz my father used to kick my fucken ass but I know you and youre man dont and nether do I.but I explaned to my boy its ether you go fight now even if you losse or you deal with this shit fore the rest of youe life.pian gose away but people will make fun of you fore a long time.

 

[ck2006]

at the age youre son is at there is no risk of sirice injery.there yong and not to stronfg.they may puch and kick and what ever but no one is going to get a bone broken.get him into a full contackt sport now and let him grow with it.thats what my dad did.I was in full contact kick boxing when I was 6 and stayed with full contacks sports till I was 18 then left fore the army when I was 20.
my first realy big fight witha much older kid I was 8 and my father took my there and told me you go fight this kid and give it youre all or iam kicking youre ass.it was hard fore me but I got through it.it was essy fore me at that age cuz my father used to kick my fucken ass but I know you and youre man dont and nether do I.but I explaned to my boy its ether you go fight now even if you losse or you deal with this shit fore the rest of youe life.pian gose away but people will make fun of you fore a long time.

I am not worried about the whole getting hurt issue, I hear what your saying. It is funny cause when I worked for the school board they found out what I told my son, and man were they mad cause no fighting is tolerated, but I said tooo bad, we can't be there all the time to save them so what are they supposed to do. That is what we told him, never start a fight, but finish it, even if you lose it will be better than running away. My husband and I just talked about it and he is one, going to start going to the gym with him and two we are going to let him decide which sport.
My boy wants to join the army, or be a scientist, or...lol

 

[HiDnGoD]

I was picked on a lot in the junior years. We moved a lot & I never fit in, always the new guy. My parents told me never to fight, so I got my asss kicked a lot. 2 things I've learned. If someone is calling you names, walk away. It doesn't hurt you & he looks foolish because he's ineffective. If someone is talking shit about you, or starts a fight you can't avoid, deal with it right there, or it will make you sick. If you keep running, that rep ends up defining you & it turns into a self fulfilling prophecy.
IMO, calling the school may help, but the chances are less than 50/50. Calling the persons parents is usually a better tactic, especially if you tell them that you're gonna encourage your boy to beat theirs. No one wants to know their kids are actively disliked for anti-social reasons.
Hope it works out well for your boy. I really feel for him. I was there for about 7 yrs, & it was not good.

 

[florencia]

 

[sbt2082]

Morning hun hope you have yourself a great little weekend!!!

 

[*Bunny*]