FELLAZ- do you know how many guys your girl has banged??? and if so....

[FreakMonster]

I DO want to know... i dont know why i do... i guess to weed out the ones i think are sluts...

50??? you didnt bang her right?

No, I didn't bang her but she sucked a damn good dick!!

If your looking to get laid it shouldn't matter how many guys she's slept with but if your looking for a quality girl to settle down with I think you would want the girl that has the best morals.

 

[madbomber31]

oh, i already know.... too late for that...

i just want to know everyone else's point of view... their thoughts, opinions... and 'situations' (ie. their girls' rating on the whore scale)

 

[Hannibal]

oh, i already know.... too late for that...

i just want to know everyone else's point of view... their thoughts, opinions... and 'situations' (ie. their girls' rating on the whore scale)

Well man...I know I'll get flamed for this but here is my opinion. If I am with a girl, in a relationship, then it is because I like her as a person. And no matter what she has done in the past...all those actions and reactions are what has made her what she is. She is the sum total of all her life experiences. If I like her as a person then I have accept all of it. And if she's with me...she's with me...what happened in the past doesn't really bother me. There is nothing I could do to change it...and if I did change it then she wouldn't be the same person. But like I have said before...opinions vary...and that's just mine.

 

[thefantom1]

MB...all I can say is don't ask questions that you can't handle the answer to. And we as men can NEVER handle the answer to that question...we want to think that we are boldy going where no man has ever gone before. However in today's society finding such a thing is a Holy Grail of sorts...and if she did say that she had never been with another guy then you would think that she was lying. Nothing she will tell you will work. I know that you say you want to know....but you don't.

Hannibal is right on the mark with this one.. Someone said it here a while ago........ "As far as I'm concerned...she did not exist until she met me"

 

[Night Fly]

Well man...I know I'll get flamed for this but here is my opinion. If I am with a girl, in a relationship, then it is because I like her as a person. And no matter what she has done in the past...all those actions and reactions are what has made her what she is. She is the sum total of all her life experiences. If I like her as a person then I have accept all of it. And if she's with me...she's with me...what happened in the past doesn't really bother me. There is nothing I could do to change it...and if I did change it then she wouldn't be the same person. But like I have said before...opinions vary...and that's just mine.

I knew that you were a wonderful guy! You and I think alike on this...but, of course, we've already had that discussion, huh?

 

[Jax]

so madbomber what's the number?

 

[Night Fly]

I think it kind of sucks that guys (like MB) think a girls number makes her a slut. I mean really...a person's past makes up who they are today, and that is the person that you want to be with, you know? Why judge them on their mistakes...especially if they don't judge you for yours?

 

[Hannibal]

I knew that you were a wonderful guy! You and I think alike on this...but, of course, we've already had that discussion, huh?

Yeah lady...like I told you before I never judge or expect anything from anyone. It's the whole "Sliding Door" idea....every decision that a person makes is part of who they are...if you like the person then you have to accept ALL the things that it took to make them themselves.

 

[StoneColdGold]

I think it kind of sucks that guys (like MB) think a girls number makes her a slut. I mean really...a person's past makes up who they are today

and if a girl has slept with a bunch of guys, had one-night stands, can go from sleeping with one guy to the next (even if its only her 4th guy to her 5th guy) without a worry, or treats sex like its no big deal, then the person she is today is a S-L-U-T.

MadBomber and I think very much alike on this topic. Only, he seems to think it makes us immature and we need to change. But I'm working on converting him. If a girl has slept with more than three guys, I don't want to date her. ESPECIALLY if she is in her early to mid 20's like me.

 

[Hannibal]

If a girl has slept with more than three guys, I don't want to date her. ESPECIALLY if she is in her early to mid 20's like me.

No offense...but in doing so you are severely limiting your chances to find happiness. It is so hard to find the right person to begin with. Once you start eliminating more and more possabilities...the odds are no longer in your favor.

Funny thing is I used to refuse to date a woman that smoked. It was a set rule. Then I got to thinking about all the women that I might have missed a meaningful relationship with because of a hang up that I had. I know that smokin and having sex are completely different but the point is still valid...IMO I mean if someone is willing to accept me at face value then I should at least be willing to do the same.