Erectile Dysfunction

[Bretmj1]

So my gf and I just started having sex, first 2 times were a dud for me, she can keep me up with a handjob when im constantly concentrating, but when i go for the condom i lose it and its like stabbing something with wet noodles You guys know any remedies? I'm 20 years old, shouldnt be having this problem, Please help!

Bret

 

[Stryker1992]

So my gf and I just started having sex, first 2 times were a dud for me, she can keep me up with a handjob when im constantly concentrating, but when i go for the condom i lose it and its like stabbing something with wet noodles You guys know any remedies? I'm 20 years old, shouldnt be having this problem, Please help!

Bret

You should not be having these issues. They are either mental or physical. go to the doc.

 

[dbell51]

So my gf and I just started having sex, first 2 times were a dud for me, she can keep me up with a handjob when im constantly concentrating, but when i go for the condom i lose it and its like stabbing something with wet noodles You guys know any remedies? I'm 20 years old, shouldnt be having this problem, Please help!

Bret

maybe shes to loose for ur little johnson

 

[advanced-stealth]

cialis/viagra combo you can knock holes through concrete after that combination.

But it is most likely mental.

 

[chestmaster1]

have you done any cycles?

 

[SpyWizard]

are you laying down on your back??

get up in the kneeling position, that will help allot..

good luck..

 

[thelion2005]

So my gf and I just started having sex, first 2 times were a dud for me, she can keep me up with a handjob when im constantly concentrating, but when i go for the condom i lose it and its like stabbing something with wet noodles You guys know any remedies? I'm 20 years old, shouldnt be having this problem, Please help!

Bret

Same here. One of those things comes within 10 ft of me and I go limp.

Cure? It has to be part of the sex play.
Cure as you get older? Vasc.

 

[KD1]

If you jerk off a lot then that might be a cause. I mean like 2-3x daily.

Otherwise its likely mental. Ive had issues before when I got really shitfaced drunk with this girl the first time we were together, couldent get it up, then starting to think too much and couldent do it sober.

Next girl that came around I had no problems.

If I were you I would not jerk off for a week, take some Cialis and then there is no way you wont be rock hard for 2-3 session in a day. Then you wont worry as much and next time you wont need the Cialis, then you wont need to wait as long, ect.

Next thing you know you will be fucking her brains out every night!

 

[Bretmj1]

Yea I know it's gotta be mental, I don't really even feel anything. I'm above average sized, and she was a virgin, i'm not gonna lie, i wanted her first time to be perfect, hurt, and all that - I didn't really get any of that but she still said she wouldnt have had it any other way (this girls a sweetheart). Still, I feel pressure on me now, and i'm always thinking about losing it, hopefully i can get over this. I dont really have any access to cialis, too expensive. I've had awesome experiences with other girls too. Must just happen when I care about someone Im surprised, her being a virgin, i'm slipnslidin in her, what would cause that? Wetness? What can I do about that?

 

[FRC21]

Im surprised, her being a virgin, i'm slipnslidin in her, what would cause that? Wetness? What can I do about that?

So are you saying she is too wet and slick? Come on man.....Nothing turns me on more than a sloppy wet pussy making all kinds of sounds while I'm hittin it. Are you just coming off a cycle? Maybe she is just "large" and you can't feel it as much? I have had a girl like that and you have to try different postions. If she is "large" try going deep and grinding instead of stroking in and out.

 

[Bretmj1]

This girl is small, not large, i think its hot as hell that she's wet, i'm just saying that maybe the reason I slip right in is because of that. She's a virgin and it didnt hurt her her first time, kinda surprised me. I'm average girth and slightly above average length. I havent just come off a cycle. Bodies are wierd, i just hope it gets better, its kinda stressin me out

 

[blut wump]

Have you had your prolactin levels checked? Has this happened before such that this could just have been nervousness on your part?

You can get Cialis and Levitra from AG-Guys (www.ag-guys.com). There are several other places but AG-Guys is a sponsor here so you'd have to ask on other boards about competitors. I can't recommend their Viagra.

 

[SanFrancisco]

Also- if you were drunk- than that would play a role. I can't get it up when i m hammered.

 

[mobro]

I have had the same problem Bro, a lot of guys have, regardless of what you hear. It is in your head. It was mine too. The first time you were with her and your trying to hard. You are getting in too big of a hurry. Spend some time on it. Get a room and make a night of it. Stop worrying about if it wil get up because it will. She will really think you are the man if you spend some time on her and stop tryuing to poke her so much. Before you know it you' ve forgotten about not being hard and you are. You can not let yourself think about not being able too. The more times you are with her the better it will get. Got a smokin' hot chick now and I was the same way. I wanted to impress her to much. So just chill out it will all come back to you.

 

[markmark]

That is the reason I go with out.. I always strugle a little trying to roll that sucker on, by then "limp" big time.. after a few minutes of fore play WHAM! back to normal.

 

[H_T_]

lay off the jerking off. you will literally get too accustomed to the feel of your own hand. go 2-3-4 days w/o any contact.

 

[bigdho]

ive had the same problem......Im with the hottest chick Ive ever been with and I have a really hard time getting into it. its totally mental....Im comming out of a 6 year relationship with another girl and I got with this girl literally the next day so mine has to do with that but it is frusterating since she is such a horn dog. The really fd up part is she thinks I dont like sex as much as she does.....im on 2gs of gear I fn like sex....its a mind fuck from hell!

 

[KD1]

Deca dick maybe?

 

[all the whey]

This is very common for young guys. Don't panic!!!!!!!

Get a lubricant to add to the condom. (not all lubricants can be used with a condom)

Have a couple drinks to relax. (not to much!)

Start in Missionary posistion.

Have her get you as hard as possible.

Put on condom, add lubricant, and put it in IMEDIATELY.

 

[seaking420]

I know about this, it happened to me. It's anxiety being with that person for the first time. Get some cialis, pm me if you want to know how to get it. Someone on here gave me the link to it and its great and not expensive. I would use that the first time, get the nerves out of the way and then your good to go. No need to use cialis after the first time