Do I fall for a girl too easily?

[badazzwhitedude]

Well, the Test and Anavar is good. Always picks you up when you need it: steroids. I just don't want to see her dog you out man. I didn't say all women are bad, but of the relationships I have been in and the ones I have seen my friends in, I can honestly say about 4 out of 5 times the female is worthless. They have a horrible rep these days, and rightfully so, in most cases. They are just mentally inferior (most), don't have the common sense, and get too wound up emotionally, and these things combined make for an unstable condition. Very few are any good now days. Keep your heart on guard. Or, just do what I am doing: go out and date two of 'em, have a good time, and just lie about it. Chances are one of them is gonna be worthless like all the others, if not both of them.

As far as not wishing I had ever went out with a girl that did me wrong, I still wish I had seen them. If nothing else, it was a learning experience. I find that I learned a bit more about myself, about who I am, and what I want and don't want in a female.

 

[68GT350]

What you need to do is practice running into the wall. Don't put your hands in front to block the impact--take it full force. Do this over and over again.

Eventually, you may start actually enjoying the pain...this MAY soften the blow you will experience when she eventually dicks you over some way...somehow.

Dude, I'm not being malicious; I'm being a realist. I've seen the girl be just as enthusiastic as the over-enthusiastic boy for a while...then the shit hit the fan. Talking about marriage at that point is just plain suicide. As soon as the new boyfriend euphoria wears off, you're in for a world of hurt.

HOWEVER!!! There is only one rule to all rules (except this one)...there's always an exception to the rule. You MAY be the lucky bastard who lives happily ever after, but the odds are against you and I'd hate to see a good bro get seriously hurt. Just watch your back man and for god's sakes...don't spend too much money!

 

[Honeynut]

Brian, you're getting some really good advice from people, I really like what 68GT just said:

there's always an exception to the rule. You MAY be the lucky bastard who lives happily ever after, but the odds are against you and I'd hate to see a good bro get seriously hurt. Just watch your back man and for god's sakes...don't spend too much money!

About the whole marriage thing - I don't want to discourage you, but you shouldn't be thinking about that yet. Valentine's day is way too soon, unless you're thinking... Valentine's day, 2005. Brian, please encourage her to love you for you, and not everything that comes with you.

I am still growing and changing, and I'm 24. If I married the person I thought I loved when I was 19, I would be missing out on someone so much better, right now. I wouldn't have experienced a whole bunch of things I've had a chance to take part in, over the past three years, things that have made me come into my own. If I had managed somehow to live the life I've lived these past few years, with that person I used to love, we'd be getting divorced because he wasn't for me anymore.

I don't want that to happen to you.

 

[brianharper94]

It's official, she's my girlfriend now!!! She spent the night last night (we didn't do anything though), she fell asleep on the couch with me. Anyway, I woke her up at about 9:00 and fixed her some breakfast. She just left to go to work. I love her, I have never felt like this before, and I do want to marry her, but not now. Valentine's Day is 4 months away, and most engagements last about a year, so that's 16 months, I'll be 22, she'll be 24. I want to have a life with her, she's the best thing ever, and I don't think she'd hurt me on purpose. She's a sweet, wonderful girl, and I love her, and that's not a bad thing. Can't it be possible that I have met the one perfect person that is just right for me. My mom and dad got married when they were 18, and they never even fight or anything. They're still together after 22 years. It can work, and I hope it will. Even if it doesn't, like badazz said, I won't regret it and I'll look back and say "Gee, the most amazing girl in the world was mine for a while."

 

[Test boy]

Man alive...stories like this are enough to make me start believing again. It is very hard to find a quality female these days, I think maybe you got lucky. Time will tell
Promiscuous people are not very good people as a rule. I wouldn't let the stories on the board scare you too much. A lot of them stem from people who will sleep with anything that wriggles.
I hope things continue to go well!

 

[badazzwhitedude]

I am still growing and changing, and I'm 24. If I married the person I thought I loved when I was 19, I would be missing out on someone so much better, right now. I wouldn't have experienced a whole bunch of things I've had a chance to take part in, over the past three years, things that have made me come into my own. If I had managed somehow to live the life I've lived these past few years, with that person I used to love, we'd be getting divorced because he wasn't for me anymore.

I don't want that to happen to you.

This may not necessarily be true. People change a little bit over time (in a few cases, a lot). You have to keep in mind that he may have changed some too. Possibly for the better, and maybe to the point to where he might be the person you would love today. Your life may have been even better than what it is today, but then again, maybe not. You will never know, and either way is a possibility. You can only compare your current guy (if you have one) to what your ex used to be, not what he might be now.

 

[Honeynut]

Badazz, you raise a good point, however in my situation the move I made was necessary, the guy I was with was the wrong one, but I didn't realize it at the time. Not to say that he wasn't a good man, he was wonderful. Just not for me. He will make another girl extremely happy... we had differences that we couldn't live with. The one I'm with right now is my soulmate, and I would have had to let him pass me by because I was taken.

In any case, I shouldn't have strayed my focus from Brian, it wasn't the greatest analogy I suppose.

I would simply hate for such a sweetheart to get hurt because he rushed into things. Brian, I truly wish the best for you. I really hope this works out, because it would be such a shame to see you question your faith that people are inherently good.

I think I am going to be an overprotective mother.

 

[brianharper94]

I am one lucky guy. My life has been completely changed, and it is now better than ever. So to anyone that doesn't believe in love, believe.

badazz...Making generalizations about promiscuos people now huh? You're probably right, but I would have slept with about anything walking whenever I wasn't involved, so I guess I WAS promiscuous. She doesn't want to have sex before marriage, which is pretty respectable, and I'm the type that had sex twice a day with my ex-girlfriend. You would think that this would be a problem, but I love her, so I can wait. She said that is why she lost her ex-boyfriend because he kept pressureing her to sleep with him so she ended up dumping him. Well, I'm not going to make that mistake. I guess my forearms will get some good growth over the next year or so huh? On the topic of growth, after my anavar/sust cycle, I'm thinking of doing a couple weeks DNP. I want to shed some fat and get good looking for her, she deserves it. That's another great thing about her, she doesn't care that I juice. She said that it was cool with her, because she likes me being big and hard. All these guys on the anabolics board worrying about their girlfriends finding out should really try to find them a great girl like mine.

Honeynut...Past experiences help, I posted this originally to get some input, and that is proven input. Congratulations on finding the right guy. I guess life is just cool like that. Anyway, I hope my girl (that sounds so good saying that) never changes, but even if something happened and she wasn't the prettiest girl I know, I would still love her just the same. That's the way my parents are. My mom got a brain tumor and has had four brian surgeries. One of them left her paralyzed on the left side, but my dad still loves her, more than ever. Okay, that was all a little off topic, but anyway. By the way, don't worry, you'll probably make a great mom someday.

Thanks again guys. She told me to come over there tonight after she gets off work. I can't wait. We've been away from each other for 6 hours and it seems like forever.

 

[68GT350]

Oh man...now you're drowning in a euphoria of "love". Nothing I say is going to make a shred of difference.

The only thing that I can say that may permiate that soft little head of yours is to lift like a madman--don't stop. Make sure you don't get soft because, should something happen, you'll be at your peak physical prowess and get a new chick quickly.

Since you won't be suaded out of getting in too deep, please accept my congrats. and my blessings. God bless you both. We'll all be here for you, good or bad.

 

[brianharper94]

Thanks bro. I am lifting like a mad man. Yesterday was my best day in the gym since my last cycle, and I just started anavar and sust. It hasn't really had time to kick in yet, but I was motivated. I benched 455 for 7. I really had a good day. I just got home , and I'm about to go hit legs in just a little bit. I am a mad man when it comes to legs.