Do I fall for a girl too easily?

[brianharper94]

Thanks Justin M.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

I gave you some good karma dude, from over at the anabolic board. I wish I were in your poistion man. It's great. I am working on it though. Hopefully it will happen with one of these girls I am talking to. It seems to be going pretty good with one of them so far.

 

[brianharper94]

I hope it works for you too bro. A little suggestion though, you might want to start to distance yourself from the other girl. That way the one that you think is "pretty good" won't find out about her. Even if it is early on, being with another girl can ruin a really good thing, believe me, I've seen it happen to one of my pals. He ended up marrying the "pretty good" girl, but she still gives him hell about the other girl. Good luck man, it's a wonderful thing to have someone who really loves you. I'll send you some karma too bro.

 

[kitKat]

Brian.....It sounds like you found yourself a good girl there!! Behold there are girls in the world that can think and have decent self esteem they don't need to be looking to greener pastures to make themselves feel better. Nor do they need some guy treating them like dirt to make them interested.

To you guys that have had girls that have given you cause to become the way you do I am sorry. I am sorry for the stupid ones of my gender. I will however tell you that if you continue in this manner you will never find the girl of your dreams. The girl that won't put up with that SHIT!! The girl that will look beautiful and has a brain and have the esteem to know she doesn't need nor will she stand to be treated that way. The woman that will stand beside you in your downtimes as well as good. The woman that will love the children you might have together and give her very soul to keep them safe. I know there are many more out there than you may care to believe several are my friends. Women that have their degrees, and can stop traffic with their looks. They are dedicated their families, their boyfriends and husbands. They wouldn't stand to be treated the way some of you suggest and they aren't.

I know your type the really good looking hot guys with the cocky attitude. I for one make a U-Turn when I see you coming. Now a hot looking guy with a good amount of self confidence but a humble attitude that is another thing. Trust me I am no wolfer either so don't get on that band wagon. I love men, I just don't like jerks. I think it is sad that you have decided to be that way cause of some bad experience.

Anyway,Brian sorry to vent on your thread.....I hope everything continues to go well!!

 

[brianharper94]

Good reply kitkat, I think a lot of us guys needed to hear that. My poor baby has a sore throat right now. I made her some chicken noodle soup. I hope it's not contagious, but if it is, I guess we'll just be sick together then (maybe if I caught it she'd let me kiss her, but she won't now because she doesn't want me to catch it, she's so thoughtful). She's finally getting some sleep right now. She was up all last night crying because it hurt so bad. I was crying too, it just breaks my heart to see her like that and know that there is nothing I can do for her. I never want to see her cry again, that's a terrible feeling. I wanted to take her to the Emergency Room, but she wanted to wait to go see her own doctor today. He gave her some meds, and now she is resting peacefully. She looks so sweet right now. I would crawl up in the bed with her and snuggle, but I'm afraid I'll wake her up. I could gaze at her for ever.

 

[brianharper94]

I 'm giving everyone that has given me some advice on here some good Karma. Thanks. My poor baby is still feeling bad. I told her that I believed that I'm getting it too because my throat was killing me. I'm not, I feel fine, but I really wanted to kiss her. I wish I could trade with her. I guess it's about time to wrap this thread up since I'm over getting dumped and talking about marriage now with another girl. Life's funny like that. If anything new comes up, I'll be sure to post it so you guys can walk me through it again. Don't know what I'd do without yall. Thanks again.

 

[kitKat]

Your a sweetheart Brian.....damn lucky girl! I'll take one just like you, please.

I hope your baby is doing better tonight.

KK

 

[68GT350]

Brian, You are truly one of the luckiest men on earth. I only hope that the next thread you post about this girl will be whether you want in indoor or outdoor wedding!

It works both ways too--treat her good, don't take her for granted, and of course remain faithful. I agree with kitKat. Despite my bitching and moaning, good girls are out there. So treat them the way you'd like to be treated and good things will eventually come.

Best of luck man.

 

[brianharper94]

Kitkat...You're in luck, I've got a brother. Oh, but he's only seven. Sorry. Thanks for the compliment, you know how to get that karma don't you. She's doing fine, thanks for asking. She's probably the reason why everybody thinks I'm so sweet. She makes me feel like I'm wanted and that makes me feel pretty good about myself, therefore I tend to have a positive outlook on things. You'll get you a nice guy one of these days, and who knows, yours might even look good.

68gt350....It's going to be an outdoor wedding bro. Next summer I hope. Springs a bad time because I have terrible allergies and I'd be sneezing all the way through it. At least I'd be able to play off crying for an allergy attack then. She wants a beach wedding. I am the luckiest guy alive, and I will always remember that. You don't have to tell me to be faithful, as far as i'm concerned, she's the only girl I ever want to even look at again. Anytime when I'm not with her is just a waste of time. Thanks for the encouragement bro.

 

[brianharper94]

Just thought I'd give this thread one last bump to say that we're engaged now, hehehehe. How cool is this? Thanks again everybody. I'm over on Triedia now if anyone cares. It's an awesome site, which a lot of you can verify because I see you over there too.