Do I fall for a girl too easily?

[Honeynut]

morning Brian... just thought I'd ask how things are with your Girlfriend today

Glad you're willing to wait for her, this might be what makes you The One. Good luck holding out.

As for the juice, good for you for being honest. I think a lot of guys don't give their girlfriends credit. Then again, I think a lot of girls take any excuse to fly off the handle in their quest for control. Education and communication are key.

Be careful with it though, I know a few guys who can't have kids anymore, and that can be just as detrimental to your eligibility with this girl as pressuring her to have sex.

 

[brianharper94]

Things are great. She just went to work, so I want be seeing her for about 9 hours , but then we'll be going out . I'm going to take her to eat and then to a movie. I think we're going to go see "From Hell" about Jack the Ripper. She likes scary movies, but honestly, they scare the shit out of me. At least she'll be there to hold my hand and keep me safe . It is hard not really doing anything with her. Especially since we've shared a bed or couch everynight this week. She's so amazing though. Holding her and kissing her is better than anything. She was sitting on my lap in the Lay-Z-Boy last night and i got a little bit to excited. She kept rearranging herself on my lap, and I guess she just kind of rubbed me the wrong...well, the right way. I think it shocked her at first, but she sure didn't get up, so I guess she didn't mind it too much. As far as the roids go, I'm taking all the necessary precautions (Clomid) to keep the baby factory working, but I'm not all that sure that she wants kids. We haven't really talked about that, I figured it was a little early for that. We have talked about what our wedding is going to be like (she brought it up). She said she wants to get married on the beach. Anything for my baby. Is that a hint that she wants me to ask her, because I do love her and I want to marry her, but not yet. I'm really excited about us though. Yesterday when she came home from work, she brought me one of those airbrushed car tags with a big heart that said ******&******. I'm going to get my name put on the driver's side window, and her's on the passenger side. She's so perfect, I love her.

 

[HighIntensity]

Your lucky man, nothing like new love...also responding to your post to me from a couple of days ago. No I don't regret any time I spent with her, at first the pain was so bad, that I did wish me never met. But the times we spent together were pure majic. I had the best three years of my life, and she was my best friend. She's gone now, but the girl I know will always dance free in my heart.

 

[Honeynut]

Brian -

Wait to propose, until a few months have passed, at least. If you're that sure and eager, shoot for Valentines day as you originally decided.

Glad she wasn't uncomfortable on your lap. If she brings it up (pun intended), explain to her that even if you're willing to wait, you're still a man that finds her incredibly attractive.

And I am of the opinion that any woman who waits until she's wed to have sex is a very conventional one, and those typically want to have a family.

As for the airbrushing - JMO - I think it's tacky. You're very creative, I am sure there are tons of other things you can do to surprise her.

 

[CRUSHER]

every man does....women posess a power over men that we cannot deal with and they can use to their own advantage!!!!
in short we are all screwed!!!

 

[badazzwhitedude]

every man does....women posess a power over men that we cannot deal with and they can use to their own advantage!!!!
in short we are all screwed!!!

The simple solution, in all seriousness, is to be seeing 2 girls. That way, when one decides to play games, you won't give a flying fuck as you are already seeing another one. That's the way to deal with women. Always be on top of things. If you are seeing just one girl, you are seeing one too few. If you end up getting married one day, then dump the other bitch. I will now live by this 'till the day I die. Bitches are way too worthless now days. You can have the advantage if you really want it.

 

[brianharper94]

Okay, "From Hell" was a very bad idea. Just a tip, never take a girl that you care very dearly for to see a movie where every women in it ends up with her throat slashed and her box removed. BAD IDEA. Atleast we got to spend all night together holding on to each other shivering in fear. That was some sick ass shit. She's taking a shower right now (which is normally an hour long deal), so I figured I'd sneak over to the computer and give an update.

Honeynut...She does want kids, we talked about it before the movie. I didn't mean get the windows airbrushed, it's like a little sticker that they put in the bottom corner of the window. The tag looks good, it was done very neatly, not like one of those things that you can't hardly read. I think it was really sweet. I'm going to hold out until Valentine's Day, if I can.

badazz & crusher....You guys crack me up. If you are seeing 2 girls then that's cheating, so then they have a reason to dump you bro. Believe me, being at a beautiful girl's mercy is not that bad. I enjoy being whipped.

Well, I just heard the water cut off (it's been about 45 minutes since she got in, guess she plays with herself in the shower too huh). I better get off, of the computer that is. Time to go eat some lunch, and then snuggle for 4-5 hours. MMMMMMMMMMM, it's the best.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

badazz & crusher....You guys crack me up. If you are seeing 2 girls then that's cheating, so then they have a reason to dump you bro. Believe me, being at a beautiful girl's mercy is not that bad. I enjoy being whipped.

I really don't care anymore. I have no sympathy for females. I have been done wrong enough here lately, and now it's my time. It's my fucking time. They had no reason to do what they did before, as I wasn't seeing two females before. I am just playing the same game they do: liars and cheats. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, right? I have always treated females very good. But that's not what 99% of 'em want dude. Females create monsters like myself. I will have no sympathy for the females I hurt. I have become emotionally numb to that. I am simply looking out for number one: myself. It's my time.

 

[brianharper94]

Hey badazz, I understand what you're saying, but what if you do find the right woman for you while you are "two-timing", then won't you feel bad about "two-timing" on her? It's your deal, so do as you please, but just remember that all girls aren't bad, and two wrongs don't make a right. I think you have to treat each woman as an individual and not as part of that terrible group that has turned you into a heart-breaking monster. Just my thoughts though, and for what it's worth, your contributions to this thread have been of help to me. When I was on here a little bit ago, i felt guilty because I felt like I was hiding something from her. Well, she's here with me right now as I'm typing this. She says that I worry to much about stuff, but that she's glad that I am letting out my thoughts to someone. She's like, who is brianharper94? She wants to say something. HEY EVERYONE, DON'T GIVE MY SWEETIE ANY BAD IDEAS. That was her, ain't she great. I love my baby so much.

 

[badazzwhitedude]

Well I always reply to these threads to try and help the bro's out and just give my .02 for whatever it's worth. Or even my past experiences.

If a girl seems quite worthy, I won't break her heart right away. I will keep her around for a while, but I will not give up seeing another one on the side. She MUST prove herself for a LONG period of time before I give her my all. Don't get me wrong. There is nothing I would want more than a nice stable female that is cool to hang out with and share experiences with. But most are fucking brainless and couldn't recognize a good thing if one fell on their head.

By the way, if she is still there, congrats on everything. I hope she does you right dude, 'cause most don't. Hopefully this one will be different for you man.