Crazy sex question

[milo hobgoblin]

If you knew your boyfriend/girlfriend was sexually attracted to someone else but really loved you and woudlnt fuck around on you without your approval....have you ever though about giving that person to him/her as a gift. Maybe as a threesome or to watch? Obviously you would be safe (LOL unless you knew the person was a virgin heheh)

Im asking becaue a girl I date and love is attracted to a young bodybuilder at the gym. He is a very cool guy and is actually really good looking (young though only 23). I am turned on at the though of double teaming her with him and I know she would love it, or even just watching her break his back (she's made me sore a few times). She told me she has fantasized about having two men in her at once and she is really starting to open up sexually. (she was a housewife for 14 years before I met her)

her and I are both in our 30's and are very sexual people. We have talked about threesomes and foursome before but I know she is too shy and reserved to approach this on her own.

Before you flame me I want you to think about something. If you really love someone and want them to feel ultimate pleasure, how far would you go to meet their desires??? If you think something like this would ruin your relationship....isnt it doomed already? If there is a true love and bond between you...do you think doing something like this for purely physical enjoyment and fanasty would really damage that?

One more thing.....I dont want to hear from any bible thumpers. I dont care about your opinion or that fanatsy novel you use to tell you how to live your life. stay away from my thread or Ill cast a voodoo death hex on you.

One more thing (hehe just kidding...I watch that goofy Jackie Chan cartoon with my kids and his uncle always says that)

Okay..opinions, flames...

 

[needsize]

If you guys truely trust eachother and can separate love from sex, go for it!

 

[the nature boy]

not my cup of tea but go for it. you only live once and you're old enough to make your own decisions.

 

[curling]

Bible thumper checking in here. (I don't believe in Hoaxes so Cast Away Mr Tom Hanks)

. Anyway, Think long and hard before doing what you are considering. The God's word forbids it not because God is mean and gives ya useless rules. He forbids it because He is massively intellegent and He knows it will screw up your relationship. It will come back to haunt you. You will wonder if she will start screwing this kid behind your back, or wondering if she will leave you for him, or her saying in a fight with you that the bodybuilding kid is twice the lover you are and on and on and on. Don't do it don't kid yourself God is smarter than you even though you don't recognize Him as being your father.

 

[milo hobgoblin]

LOL

Too bad that massive intelligence didnt keep you all from slaughtering hundreds of thousands of Muslims during the Crusades.....

Or torturing and maiming tens of thousands of "heretics" during the inquisituions.....

Or kept your religious leaders from little boys and prostitutes.....

Or bombing clinics....

Or leeching the savings from thousands of impressionable retired Americans every Sunday morning to keep old Pat in a caddy...

hmmm......if thats what your god is all about then Ill take the other road any day.

or maybe...just maybe he was on vacation when all this happened.

exactly why I didnt want to hear from a fucking zealot.

 

[TheStromba]

you have to be really secure in your relationship

My wife and I recently had our first threesome after being married almost 18 years, We are also in our 30's and were married quite young. She is more comfortable than I, that is why we did it with another girl. We are very open about it and the rules are that if either one of us becomes uncomfortable then it stops immediatly.

We wrote a thread about it

http://209.11.101.244/forum/showthread.php?threadid=143995

 

[magdelana]

Milo i have been involved wtih threesomes with couples and somthimes it is fine and sometimes it does ruin there relationship. If you feel that you know each other quite well and feel secure and trusting (and certainly not at all jelous) then it can make your seks life very hot and exciting. If you have any doubts over this at all, DONT DO IT.

 

[Puddles]

So...when's her birthday? I think that would be a GREAT gift. Since you two have discussed this somewhat, surprising her might be fun...you'd have fun planning it and she wouldn't have time to think about it too much and be nervous.

If you think surprising her is too much, then do talk about it. We have ZERO regrets and I look forward to it happening again every day. Since the bond we have as a couple is so strong, and we laid down rules together, it's all worked out even better than we ever imagined.

Best of luck to you both...and make sure you let us know how things turn out.

 

[Taps]

If you're 100% ok with it, then go have fun. My one piece of advice would be not to surprise her. Discuss things with her before hand and give it a week or so before you decide for sure.

I for one think it's really cool that you're so openminded.

 

[needsize]

So what's the word, are you going to go for it?
My wife and I are considering a similar situation, no one local though.
You only live once, do it up!