Cheating on wife

[WIDELAT]

HERE IS WHAT YOU DO SWITCH THE IDEA AROUND WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF SHE WERE DOING THE THINGS YOU WANTED TO DO HOW WOULD YOU FEEL ABOUT THAT. YOU KNOW YOU COULD'NT SO WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO PUT HER THROUGH IT YOU WILL GET CAUGHT NO MATTER WHAT IT WILL COME OUT WITH KARMA OR YOU'LL MESS UP. IF YOU GET INTO THREESOMES THEN THERE IS NO TRUST ANYWHERE CAUSE SHE'LL THINK YOUR DOING IT WHEN SHE'S NOT THERE AND VICE VERSA. YOUR MARRIED IT WAS YOUR DECSIOON DEAL WITH IT LIKE A MAN.

 

[VooDoo Lady]

Get a divorce? If you feel this way save your wife years of life and heartache.

dex

 

[gUiLe]

WOW! I am really quite surprised at some of the responses. I
thought I would get a bunch of "yeah, go out and fuck everybody"
kind of stuff. Or maybe that's what I wanted to hear to convince
myself that what I am doing is ok. Well, first off...I'm always
protected. So the chance of a disease coming into my house is
nill. (I know, that don't make it better.) The problem is, i have
two kids and I don't really like my wife. I feel like she got pregnant
to "trap" me. Sometimes I'm looking at her talking to my friends and I'm thinking inside "Got I hate her". I know it's fucked up. It
has gotten worse since I have cheating though, so my mind might
be effected by what I'm doing (as well as AS). I'm very confused.
I am seeing this hot asian chick but she's starting to fall for me
and I really don't need that shit. I am sure I need to get some
spiritualality in my life.
Almost like I'm lost and searching for something. I just don't feel
I am ready for it. My friend has set up a foursome for this Friday
evening and I really want to nail the girl he's seeing (Hot blonde)
but I think i will refrain. I need help. I really love my kids but
I HATE being married.

 

[supertech69]

Holly shit bro! Your situation sounds nearly identical to mine before I got divorced, all the way down to the asian chick! I have 2 kids & wanted to stay with my wife for them but, it got to the point where I couldn't stand it & I figured it is better to leave so my kids don't grow up in a totally fuct up household. The most important thing is that if you do decide to leave you make damn sure you are a good father to them! Your life should still revolve around them even after the fact. I've been divorced for over 2 yrs now & I talk to my kids every single night on the phone before they go to bed. I see them every Wed & every other weekend. No matter what they will know I love them & when they get older they will understand. I am fortunate enough that mine were very young & have adapted quite well. My life is primarily about bodybuilding but, I would drop everything & anything in an instant if my kids needs were involved. It's not their fault & they shouldn't have to suffer for it. Nothing is worse than an irresponsible deadbeat dad a.k.a. a sperm donor. I say if you're that miserable you should either work on fixing it or get out of the relationship totally.

 

[gUiLe]

Supertech69- Ironic isn't it. I never wanted children. I couldn't imagine how my life would be without them. We think alike I
am madly in love with my children (especially my girl and still
scratch my head when I hear about some of these scumbags
that abondon their kids. I couldn't live with myself and it would
really be hard to NOT be with my kids. I think I will just have to
really try to make it work. My wife loves me more then anything in
the world and would do anything for me (except a threesome
and I (not intentionally) treat her like shit. I just don't really
respect her. Her personality could be close to a stalker!!
I used to have fights with her (pre marriage) where I would
tell her "Please, get the fuck out of here! I don't want to be
with you, can't you fucking understand?..You bitch!! Don't you
have any self respect?? And she would take all I would throw
at her. I am really not that cruel, but you get to a point where
you'll say anything to get somebody to move. It didn't work.
g

 

[TEXgrl]

cheating is a horrible thing. grow some balls and leave yourself, quit telling her to leave because you are too chickenshit to do it yourself. you can leave and still take care of your kids. do you actually think its better to stay and run around on your wife, and let your kids grow up with a father who treats their mother like shit? it will teach a boy to not have respect for women and a little girl to expect every man to treat her the way her dad treats her mom.

you say she's borderline stalker. you sound like such an ass, you've probably made her a paranoid freak with the way that you act.

 

[gUiLe]

TEXgrl- I sound like such an ass?? Nice. For your info, I have only
"cheated" on my wife with this girl. Hey, I know it don't make it
any better that it's one girl, but it's not like I run around with
other women. And as far as her "stalker" like personality, let
me give you a lil backround, and you tell me, ok? Hmm.. let's
see. Oh, there was the time that her boyfriend broke up with her,
and she ran up a $10,000.00 phone bill because she was depressed and needed to call the psychic hotlines! Hmm, and
the time her other boyfriend (who again left her) was getting
married and her and all of her friends went to the chuch and stood in the back!! The guys wedding day!! Your telling me
that's don't sound like stalker?? I know, next question, then
why did you marry her. Because I knocked her up, and thought I
could make it work. And no, I DON'T treat her like shit on a daily
basis. The description was in the beginning of the relationship (ya
know, when she had time to run the hell away from me?). The only reason she is a "paronid freak" is because I told her WAY
too much about my past in the beginning of the relationship (big mistake I know). Now what??
g

 

[Arioch]

Sounds like you should get a divorce.

Better that you file for one now instead of her finding out you are cheating on her and taking you to the cleaners in court.

Which you would deserve.

How would your kids feel about you when they found out?

 

[gUiLe]

How would your kids feel about you when they found out?

You don't think this goes through my head?..over and over and
over again?? I'm not happy about what I'm doing, I just feel
powerless against it. Almost like a person who thinks they "need"
help but don't really want it.
g

 

[creep]

You should get a divorce. If you truley loved her, you never would have cheated in the first place. No matter how bad things get, when you truley love someone they're the only person you want to be with.