Can Men & Women Be Friends Without Sex?

[jerkbox]

"I'm a wimp and I can't make a damn decision"

I don't know, I got into a big huge debate about this once so I'd love to know the answer..

(My arguement was "yes they can be friends without one of the two wanting sex")

oh god....musta been homo

 

[Seashell]

Wait, I'm being confusing..

An ex was having this "debate" with me and he said "no woman or man can be friends without one of them wanting sex"... I disagreed....debate ensued..

 

[powerslave]

Sooner or later we're going to try something. Whether it be flirting or as you said DT hoping the kiss would last longer.

 

[flex123]

It's a very debatable topic. I've had girls as friends and I would probbly sleep with them if it the situation called for it.

I actually have a friend who is a woman and the only reason I haven't sleep with her is because we dont persue it. I've actually stayed nights in the same bed as her just to sleep but not to have sex.

If I was single and a female friend wanted to sleep with me I don't think I would turn it down, unless I felt that she might be to immature and it could ruin any friendship or future relationship between us.

 

[Paulo]

No.

 

[BO-DEN]

i really dont think so every woman/girl iv ever spent energy getting to know was either a girl i liked and wanted to get with or a girl that i got with

 

[F117A Active Stealth]

(My arguement was "yes they can be friends without one of the two wanting sex")

It's too hard for a guy to be friends with a good looking girl and not want to sleep with her.

For you women it's different because you're not turned on right away, you have to get "in the mood" or whatever it is you call it.

We guys can't help it, our hormones make us want to nail any cute chick. BTW I am as decent a guy as one can get and I never push myself on anyt girl that isn't interested in me physically. But then I leave it at that.

I do admit some guys do become friends with a hot girl but probably because they would rather at least be friends than not be able to talk to her at all.

It's all bullshit really, which is why I'm going on Depo Provera soon...

 

[tiger88]

what if a gay boy? whet then?

 

[magman1]

i didnt think so, til i went away to college...i know, it sounds in reverse...but i live with girls and never thought id be able to without pokin them, but its really possible!

 

[velvett]

I used to think so.

But I have long since changed my mind.

And it's more than just the whole "wanna f**k" theory. Even if a guy has a wife or girlfriend you can never really have a close friendship.

So now the guys I am friendly with are the husbands of my girlfriends, the crush I will never admit and my gay male friends.


Kinda sad really.