Can cheating once make your marriage better?

[Pamela]

pwned.

? pwned?

 

[Agathe]

what??

thats my girl, she knows whassup.

 

[Devastation]

what the person that started the thread is doing is covering up other issues he has and masking it with a new worse one. i would say it would definately not make YOUR marriage better, as you can't seem to make it work now without that added burden

as for everyone else, people's inability to consider and weigh the oppositions point of view brings out strong feelings, like violence and name calling, which usually points out those who are too close minded to carry on a normal conversational debate. relax a bit people and realize there are many different folks out there with lifestyles very dissimilar from your own. you do not have a right to judge them as a person based on their actions, i.e. swining, when they do not cause physical or mental harm to anyone. they have a right to their choices in life, just as you have your right not to cheat or swing. i do not condone what bbf and his wife do or have yet to do, but i would never condemn it either

 

[CrazyK]

what the person that started the thread is doing is covering up other issues he has and masking it with a new worse one. i would say it would definately not make YOUR marriage better, as you can't seem to make it work now without that added burden

as for everyone else, people's inability to consider and weigh the oppositions point of view brings out strong feelings, like violence and name calling, which usually points out those who are too close minded to carry on a normal conversational debate. relax a bit people and realize there are many different folks out there with lifestyles very dissimilar from your own. you do not have a right to judge them as a person based on their actions, i.e. swining, when they do not cause physical or mental harm to anyone. they have a right to their choices in life, just as you have your right not to cheat or swing. i do not condone what bbf and his wife do or have yet to do, but i would never condemn it either

No- I do have a right to judge whoever I please. This is America. If someone is a crack addict, they are judged by me as scum, and I have the right to do so.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

what the person that started the thread is doing is covering up other issues he has and masking it with a new worse one. i would say it would definately not make YOUR marriage better, as you can't seem to make it work now without that added burden

as for everyone else, people's inability to consider and weigh the oppositions point of view brings out strong feelings, like violence and name calling, which usually points out those who are too close minded to carry on a normal conversational debate. relax a bit people and realize there are many different folks out there with lifestyles very dissimilar from your own. you do not have a right to judge them as a person based on their actions, i.e. swining, when they do not cause physical or mental harm to anyone. they have a right to their choices in life, just as you have your right not to cheat or swing. i do not condone what bbf and his wife do or have yet to do, but i would never condemn it either

Exactally, I am not condoning cheating as was suggested in the thread, only playing devil's advocate. It is amazing what percentage of people out there will cheat in their marriage at some time, but everyone reacted so strongly to anyone even suggesting it. Just an observation.

About Annabelletx and I, correct we are not hurting anyone, nor do we recruit people into the lifestyle who are not already into it, since we meet all of our playmates on websites.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

That's how it is for me. Most of my female friends are the same way. I would never get close to such trash. I can smell it miles away and any woman that has some respect for herself will smell it too.

So let me get this strait: I am suppose to be intimidated by a post written by someone who’s proficiency at the English language is on a high school level, judging by your sentence structure, who neither her or her husband can afford a camera, living in another state.

Your well thought out argument has made me see the light and realize that I am not only trash, but causing great pain and suffering by my actions.

The pictures of you and your husband in your avatar were so sexy that we were planning on bringing you into the lifestyle and flying all the way to San Diego to meet you… after all anyone who does not have online pictures must be extremely beautiful or so rich that they wish to keep their identity hidden.

 

[Gymgurl]

Well BBF is not really cheating if his wife is present.....what ever works for them may not work for other and for some it might......

 

[doublebicep]

Don't cheat. It can cause pain and ruin families. The victims include the person being cheated on and any children that will be emotionally torn apart.

I know. I will not argue it. It ruined my childhood and ruined my marriage.

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Definition:
[n] a deception for profit to yourself
[n] the act of swindling by some fraudulent scheme
[n] someone who leads you to believe something that is not true
[v] defeat someone in an expectation through trickery or deceit
[v] engage in deceitful behavior; practice trickery or fraud; "Who's chiseling on the side?"
[v] be sexually unfaithful to one's partner in marriage.
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Synonyms: bearded darnel, beat, beguiler, betray, Bromus secalinus, cheat on, cheater, cheating, chess, chicane, chisel, chouse, cuckold, darnel, deceiver, jockey, Lolium temulentum, rig, rip off, screw, shaft, slicker, swindle, tare, trickster, wander
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Do any of these definitions or synonyms of cheat or cheating fit what you would want some one to do to you?

To be betrayed by some one you love and trust above all others is like having a stake driven through your heart. I truly never recovered and will probably never be able to fully trust or love another.

 

[Mandinka2]

So let me get this strait: I am suppose to be intimidated by a post written by someone who’s proficiency at the English language is on a high school level, judging by your sentence structure, who neither her or her husband can afford a camera, living in another state.

You mean "neither her NOR her husband" surely ? Kettle to pot - you're black.

 

[doublebicep]

just so sad...