Can cheating once make your marriage better?

[Austin316]

only if you wanna walk around feeling like the headmans axe is going to come crashing down at any moment. Dude cheating is wrong, its betrayal, and it HURTS people, it destroys lives, and if you have kids and they ever find out, who knows if they will ever forgive you for it, thank god my parents relationship has always been solid, but I;ll say this if my dad ever did it to my mom I'd attack him and try to put him on a stretcher. My mom, well can't assault her so I'd prob just tell her to burn in hell and I want nothing to do with her.

 

[ex0Tic_island_girl]

You Question : can cheating once make your marriage better


stupid question

is like asking if you shot a person at the heart would he die..

Duh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

what do you think..

not unless your wife doesn't give a shit about you then.. she wont mind you cheating...at her....

Cheating ruin relationship Period....

 

[Deleted member 33117]

Wow... all of you place entirely too much importance on sex. I am not condoning cheating, but people, it is just sex. Not many of you can say you have never had casual sex. Those who are married, can you really say you were never tempted to have sex with anyone besides your spouse? Ever had a fantasy about someone else you saw on tv or in a movie? How about imagined you were having sex with someone else when you were having sex with your spouse? How about you Austin316? Oh, but it was only in your mind right? So you just WANTED to do it but did not so it is ok?

The importance people in American culture place on sex is rather amusing.

 

[musclemuscle]

Well you can screw this girl but then SHE OWNS YOU. She has information that if leaked at any time would ruin your marriage.

Remember this:

any fool can cheat on his wife

but it takes a genuious to get away with it

She will find out...one way or another, it will happen....so be prepared for hell bro

sex is great but it isn't worth it to lose your marriage

if your marriage is bad and u don't want to mend it....divorce your wife first and then screw any girl you want.

but if u cheat on her then their will be hell to pay

a womens scorn is not to be underestimated

be carefull bro

 

[KillzwithPillz]

you think if she if she did it to you u would like her more? just take charge and change things up a bit and talk to her. that communication stuff werks!

 

[Austin316]

the differance between thinking about it is completly differant than doing it or even seriously considering doing it. If your unhappy with your s/o break it off and do what you want, casual sex is well whatever I've honestly only done it once and honestly I hated it, but its not a big deal so long as NO ONE GETS HURT

anyone who actually tries and defend cheating or condones it is only trying to ease their own guilt IMO. Because what your essentially doing is condoning hurting another person very badly emotionally and thats just shameful. People do fuck up yes but don't even try to justify it, you better just make damn sure to learn from it and grow

 

[Deleted member 33117]

the differance between thinking about it is completly differant than doing it or even seriously considering doing it. If your unhappy with your s/o break it off and do what you want, casual sex is well whatever I've honestly only done it once and honestly I hated it, but its not a big deal so long as NO ONE GETS HURT

anyone who actually tries and defend cheating or condones it is only trying to ease their own guilt IMO. Because what your essentially doing is condoning hurting another person very badly emotionally and thats just shameful. People do fuck up yes but don't even try to justify it, you better just make damn sure to learn from it and grow

My point is you would attack your father and injure him enough to put him in the hospitol or kill him or tell your mother to "go to hell then have nothing to do with her ever again" over sex? I can assure you I am not trying to ease my own guild. My wife has given me full permission to fuck other women without her around, and I have as of yet to do so, or even make an effort. The point is, we are talking about sex, and regardless of what anyone does or says, when that temptation presents itself one might be surprised what they do, especially if the one offering is sexy enough and one happens to be made at their spouse or feeling unfulfilled with them sexually and/ or emtionally at the time of the offer.

Get real. People need to grow the hell up and stop being so quick to "never forgive their spouse" or just divorce over something like sex. There are FAR worse things done to people than your spouse having sex with someone in a one time fling that a lot of people seem to be willing to put up with. Physical and mental abuse are high on the list. Again, you all seem to place so much importance on sex as being something more than entertainment.

 

[ex0Tic_island_girl]

cheating ruin relationship Period..enough said...

so stop your mumbo jumbo

you eitheir are a cheating bastard or your not..


but yet... you said your wife has gave you permission to fuck other woman


well you guys are both cheaters and obvs. sex is just sex to you guys


bec. if you really love someone... sex means more than sex alone.... and will not go running around having sex with another being.


Ppl like you make me sick

 

[Cutiebaby]

cheating ruin relationship Period..enough said...

so stop your mumbo jumbo

you eitheir are a cheating bastard or your not..


but yet... you said your wife has gave you permission to fuck other woman


well you guys are both cheaters and obvs. sex is just sex to you guys


bec. if you really love someone... sex means more than sex alone.... and will not go running around having sex with another being.


Ppl like you make me sick

so there lol......she has spoken her peace

 

[Austin316]

don't lower the rest of us to your standards, just because your morals, values, beliefs, whatever are differant then the rest of us don't try and force us to look at things based on your rational which I can assure you is not the popular choice, people know they are doing soemthing wrong when they cheat, and not everyone sees sex just as something thats purely physical with no emotional connection. Whatever works for you so be it, but most people aren't like you, for one the swinger crowd is extremly small and the average person is quite frankly disturbed by it

The reason I would attack my father or say something like that to my mother has nothing to do with sex, it has to do with respect and the fact that if one of them were to hurt the other like that I would be within my rights as their son to act how I see fit, I do not tolerate that kind of pain being inflicted upon someone if I am within my rights to do something about it (and I am if it directly effects me and you better believe seeing someone I love being hurt like that would) If you honestly believe the issue is just with sex then your extremly narrow minded, and thats fine for you but don't begin to think you can dictate that thought pattern to the rest of us, its far from the norm