And yet another update thread on the ex

[velvett]

Surely women aren't so evil that they take satisfaction in seeing their ex (that they dumped) uncomfortable?

You don't know most women then.

 

[velvett]

Where the hell is JerseyArt?

 

[Lestat]

I could bring a date, that is definitely feasible as I've been seeing someone semi regularly now... (who knows if I'll still be seeing her then, but I know I could bring a date if I wanted to spend the day with someone.)

That's really not in my nature though, to do something so intentional and deliberate to throw in her face...

I don't really wish my ex any ill will.. but at the same time when I think of her I think of an immature, cold, selfish bitch. Not because she dumped me really... that HAPPENS.. I realize that and always have.. I've had to break things off with women and I know I've been the source of some hurt and some pain.. its never fun, never easy...

my big thing, and I've said this before I think here, is that I think she treated me like complete shit with the way things ended... the suddeness.. the things she said.. lack of real explantion... etc etc... I imagine how I would have handled things had I been the one to break up with her and it would have been completely different.

I'm very easy going, very rational, a realist, I may have initially been upset at the idea of breaking up, but with a little respect and compassion we could have talked through things and had they still ended, we could have been left in a far more comfortable place for both of us. I know this is easier to say then do, but its really what I believe.

 

[velvett]

That's really not in my nature though, to do something so intentional and deliberate to throw in her face...

WHY THE HELL NOT!?

Why can't you publically show that you have moved on with your life? (Even if you still have feelings for the ex)

What are you afraid of, that she won't see you as still available and waiting for her to want you back again?

 

[jd_uk]

You don't know most women then.

I asked a question...so tell me what most women are like.

I realise some women/bitches might be like this but not most. Now go on...are women really this fucked up?

 

[Robert Jan]

people are

 

[velvett]

I asked a question...so tell me what most women are like.

I realise some women/bitches might be like this but not most. Now go on...are women really this fucked up?

It's not just women, it's also men so that makes it a people thing.

People can be cruel and heartless, once you know this and accept it nothing that could be thrown your way should rock your world for more than a temporary period of time.

 

[jd_uk]

It's not just women, it's also men so that makes it a people thing.

People can be cruel and heartless, once you know this and accept it nothing that could be thrown your way should rock your world for more than a temporary period of time.

Ummm we're not talking about 'people' here, we're talking about WOMEN.

You just implied that 'most' women would be happy to see their ex (that they dumped) uncomfortable/upset/unhappy etc. Is this true? Because that's seriously news to me.

 

[velvett]

Ummm we're not talking about 'people' here, we're talking about WOMEN.

You just implied that 'most' women would be happy to see their ex (that they dumped) uncomfortable/upset/unhappy etc. Is this true? Because that's seriously news to me.

Yaaaaaaah, we're talking about women (one woman actually) and YES they would love to know that their ex is miserable without them and MEN can behave in the very same manner.

 

[TheProject]

You go, you play the game, and you beat the fuck out of her team.

End of story.