A word or two about seduction from a woman's POV

[Deleted member 33117]

anya, not if I just appeared to lose interest at the begining of our conversation and started glancing at other girls walking by. No, you would be like, "hey... why isn't this guy giving me any attention....wtf?"

 

[RottenWillow]

anya, not if I just appeared to lose interest at the begining of our conversation and started glancing at other girls walking by. No, you would be like, "hey... why isn't this guy giving me any attention....wtf?"

LOLOLOL. That's a well known angle. Technique #231, Dont pay the girl too much attention.


A woman is like one of those preschooler games where you have to fit the geometric shapes into the appropriate slots in the board. You have to figure out which technique works best with which woman, but unlike the game you often only get one shot with each attempt. If you try #231 and she's like "this guy's a dick" you may not get the opportunity to try a different approach.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

anya, true, and I do my best to figure out what approach to use ahead of time. If it fails, oh well, there are 200 other attractive girls in the club... Anywho, whos to say I'm not actually more interested in the girls walking by and am letting her know she needs to prove herself.

 

[RottenWillow]

anya, true, and I do my best to figure out what approach to use ahead of time. If it fails, oh well, there are 200 other attractive girls in the club...

Very true.

Anywho, whos to say I'm not actually more interested in the girls walking by and am letting her know she needs to prove herself.

And that could happen. All depends on her expectations of how hook ups are supposed to go.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

So anya, the point is, with me, you probably wouldn't know I'm trying. You may suspect, but I seem very sweet and inocent in person (I've heard this often from ladies), and would have second doubts.

 

[casualbb]

But I see men and women in their '40's and older doing a lot more causal socializing without the ever present sexual subcontext that between teens and people in their '20's.

That's why I enjoy hanging out with uglies. I do all sorts of inappropriate shit and I don't care because they're not hot. haha. They love me.

 

[juve]

but I seem very sweet and inocent in person.

typical child molester

 

[milo hobgoblin]

anya if more women were like you guys would be MUCH better off..

I see plain looking guys all the time trying to hook up with chicks they stand no chance with only to be lead on all night so the chick can get free drinks, some attention and soemone to dance with. Kinda sad.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

milo, see, that is a big mistake. Never buy a girl a drink at a club. You should go tell those guys.

 

[rpol]

QOUTE:
milo, see, that is a big mistake. Never buy a girl a drink at a club. You should go tell those guys.


That is solid advice,
She can find anybody to dance with, give her attention, so don't offer to buy her drinks and see if she's really interested.