A word or two about seduction from a woman's POV

[hanselthecaretaker]

disclaimer lol: This isnt directed towards anya, but she chose to be a used as an example...sorry babe

You know what i want? THe truth is, most women HAVE NO CLUE what we men want....and it goes waaaayyyyy beyond spreading your legs. This is why women's game just sucks...and some dont even realize that they control their destiny and that they ALSO have game.

And whats this callin it a "scam"..... were doing you a favor by approaching you because women *would rather die* than approach a man....try it, try approaching ONE guy this week u think is hot. Most women actually have ZERO seduction/attraction skills, or any other skills for that matter. Ive been approached by so many girls who just come off weird, or ask me for the time, or tellin me lame jokes. BUT at least they have my respect for trying. Then there are the girls who wouldn't know how to kiss well if they had personal coaching lessons from the worlds best kissers lol! these women will be lonely for a long long time

since women are usually not leaders, *most* usually have no aspirations beyond "getting married", and no fortitude to go for what they want, and its left to the men to come up to you, start BS'ing with shit that we dont find interesting just cuz we feel that you would be into it (because we dont have to hide our desire for sex), to get to know what type of woman you are, this unfortunately feeds your ego, makes you feel special or desired so that you can turn around and tell your friends that guys think your hot, or you have so and so chasing you......

BUT you choose to sabotage your own life by not considering most guys who approach you.....guys who could turn out to be the love of your life....guys who could be a great lay.....guys who could help you grow from a little girl to a mature woman.....because you let society dictate what you think of yourself and your sexuality..like you need a reason or go through a *dance* to be able to kiss/sex a man.

WHY do i say sabotage?? because women *especially in the US* dont really think about what they might be loosing by turning away a guy (mainly cuz most guys are pussy whipped cowards), women feel like they are made of gold and hold real power because they have a vagina. We wont get started on the serious ADD / entertain me mindframe that most have.

*TO ALL THE WOMEN READING THIS* I want you to **seriously** think about this and not just provide emotional outburts on this board about how wrong i am, that women now are empowered and independant, blah blah blah. If you woke up tommorow, and NO GUY EVERRRRRR approached you again, would your life be dark, bleak, drab and so unbelievably boring??? Would u still have this "i dont give a shit" attitude towards men? Our would u become scrambling to change your life and try to get men to talk to you, lost in how to make the approach, lost in how to even interact with your average man?

*To ALL THE GUYS* dont be so fukin needy, make a woman chase you, so she will feel validated and have a reason for sleeping with you, or even being attracted to you. Work on yourself (in all areas of your life) just so that you will be a better man, FOR YOURSELF. start approaching women...just for the sake of approaching women. Dont have the mentality to get a #. Just approach and see if you can get her attracted/have a good interaction. Keep practicing on women....especially the hotties. Fuck with their minds a little, let them think you want some P, get them smiling and giggling.....and then JUST WALK AWAY! if she doesnt chase you down, you will still have learned something new from that interaction w/her.

We're weird creatures! learn to love life and yourself....

I think there should be an award given for this post. Bravo, Johnny.

 

[RottenWillow]

But why is this dance unnecessary if the guy's in a band or is on the big screen? There are always exceptions to the rule. And the rule itself it often broken (ie, college).

The attraction process is so convoluted it's kinda pathetic when you think of it. But in a way I guess it weeds out the weak and clueless.

Wait, it doesn't even do that; I've seen plenty of fools get lucky.


Everything's up in the air, really.

Certainly, any rule can and will be broken. And there are penalties for breaking rules. If a woman breaks this one she's likely to be labeled slut, ho, skank.....pick your euphemism of choice. The "fool gets lucky" and the girl probably gets moved into the "skeezer" category by her male peers.

 

[Snypr]

But why is this dance unnecessary if the guy's in a band or is on the big screen?

Amen. I get so sick of my female friends that have these high standards for prospective male companionship, but if someone with any level of fame or someone with alot of money wants them, they open up faster than you can say "hypocritical,stank-ass, groupie hoe".

 

[Dieselgoku23]

AMEN Coldcut your right is actually our fault!!!. Us Guys sweat women wayyyyyyy too much!!. So they think they are the last drop of of water in Dessert. Women now at days not all but large majority like the status, they want to be center of attention, they like to think every guy wans them etc........also it comed down how pop culture has accept it this. Look for example TV look at MTV everything is about being superficial I know some chicks that actually think that real life is like that. By the way I live in Miami,Fl so I'm here in the cream of crop of superficial chicks!!!

 

[markshark]

Certainly, any rule can and will be broken. And there are penalties for breaking rules. If a woman breaks this one she's likely to be labeled slut, ho, skank.....pick your euphemism of choice. The "fool gets lucky" and the girl probably gets moved into the "skeezer" category by her male peers.

thats because women can get pregnant and that is precisely the reason they shouldnt go around fucking everything that moves like most of them do. and for the record, women try to fuck more than men, which, even if they didnt have the ability to make children would make them a slut. so, youre a slut. thank you. good night.