A word or two about seduction from a woman's POV

[Paulo]

Mmmmm seduction.

I remember when leave suggestive notes and poems on cars wasn't known as stalking.

yeah really. wtf happened??

I used to do that to girls I liked in HS. nothing too lovey or anything, but highly sensual. Now, I am not so sure how women would react to that.

 

[Sub-Zero]

what if im really ugly, face and body...

can i get some tips anya, or am i trash that should stick to lotion and pictures of women section?

 

[juve]

what if im really ugly, face and body...

can i get some tips anya, or am i trash that should stick to lotion and pictures of women section?

cash, money --> hoes
alternative route => sedative/anxiolytic drugs...bar/party...getting pasted with uncoscious chick...jail

no wonder so many women claim looks are overrated

 

[Barak]

what if im really ugly, face and body...

can i get some tips anya, or am i trash that should stick to lotion and pictures of women section?

I try to hold out Faith that women aren't that shallow, unfortunately like men, they have their share that give everybody a bad name.I just keep running into those, instead of the deserving ones.

 

[Deleted member 33117]

anya, you also assume that the game of all guys is obvious. If I were trying to get into your panties, you probably wouldn't even realize that I wanted you.

 

[Taps]

Anya, how do you define "scamming."

When I was younger, pretty much the only time I'd even bother talking to a girl is if I was trying to boink her ASAP. As I've matured (somewhat), a lot of the time I just like to make conversation without having any expectations -- if I get a phone number or whatever, that's cool, but if not thats cool too. Is that still considered "scamming" or is it something else?

 

[AlbinoRhino]

Nice post anya, I have never heard it better said. I am usually out every single weekend playing the "game" and most women react exactly as you said. I can walk up and say the most dumb ass comment ever known to man and have girls love it. I know this isn't due to my charisma but more because the girl wants me to be funny so she can get in my pants Also for those of us who aren't Brad Pitt, there is always alcohol, you can count on that old friend to up your looks any day

 

[sconoscuito]

Nice post anya, I have never heard it better said. I am usually out every single weekend playing the "game" and most women react exactly as you said. I can walk up and say the most dumb ass comment ever known to man and have girls love it. I know this isn't due to my charisma but more because the girl wants me to be funny so she can get in my pants Also for those of us who aren't Brad Pitt, there is always alcohol, you can count on that old friend to up your looks any day

you see I find this type of shit as a problem

I have this girl in one of my classes in college who Ive been friends with since HS, she wanted to be more than friends at some point but shes kinda boring to me and too nice, plus I already hooked up with her sister way before I met her so I didnt think it would work out anyway

now in this class theres a guy who really really digs this girl, however she doesnt like him so she is kinda mean to him, never laughs at funny shit he says and than I say somethin thats not even funny and shes crackin up... stuff like that and I find that kinda gay especially since shes known to be a "nice" girl... I feel kinda sorry for the guy


these days if you're talking with the girl it means your hittin on her, and if you try to let her know that ur not tryin to get some from her she moves onto the next guy...

if I was to ask a girl to come have a drink with me somewhere be it just water she would most likely consider it as a date or as me hittin on her






the only real solution to this I see is to have a girlfriend but than some girls want you even more and its kinda hard to resist


either way I think its a messed up world we live in

 

[NYBodyguard]

everygirl has the same story

"yeah im straight up i tell the guys...." BULLSHIT

or "im not like those other girls.."

or "i dont want you to think im a slut..."

"i usally dont do this..."

blah blah

I visit elderly people once a month at a local nursing home, bring them food and talk to them, funny how the older ladies sometimes cry on how they where all stuck up and they could of had this guy and that guy and this and that... every girl should go talk to them and learn for once to get real sooner rather then later and guys are a big number game <---- keyword

 

[RottenWillow]

anya, you also assume that the game of all guys is obvious. If I were trying to get into your panties, you probably wouldn't even realize that I wanted you.

I would assume you were trying to get into my panties. You'd have to prove otherwise, which takes a lot of time.


Taps I think you bring up a good point. In general I think people are less ruled by their hormones as they get older. Maybe it's just maturation, or maybe hormonal changes, or maybe both. But I see men and women in their '40's and older doing a lot more causal socializing without the ever present sexual subcontext that between teens and people in their '20's.

And I'd say scamming is when you go in with the primary intent of trying to hook up that booty.