wife and i have been avid swingers for years. been to all the ones in dallas, velvet curtain, jet set, sans suci, cherry pit. Look up swingers.com and should find all info you need. Ist of all they are just normal people , might even be your next door neighbor, average age is 30 to 55, mostly white color and all have 3 rules no means no, no drugs, no anal. a lot of them are on premise meaning you can swap there, and some are off premise meaning you can meet somebody there play a little but for full intercourse you need to go to hotel or your place.