Who else prefers girls with serious boyfriends?

[Snarf]

The boyfriend my in fact 'deserve' a lot of things and maybe if the girl was in a bad/abusive relationship and you truly cared for her well-being, I could see you would temporarily end up in this type of situation. But that is not what is going on here.

I am sorry to hear that you do not have any relationships in your life important enough that if they were removed it would be hurtful to you. Maybe this is part of the problem? Without the presence of this type of relationship in your own life, I think it would be difficult to empathize with the cheated boyfriends. I won't pretend to have the insight to diagnose or evaluate that scenario, but I do know that it is not healthy to describe your life in a way where you have no relationships inthat you truly value beyond business relationships.

The only other thing I would ask you is how long do you think this will remain satisfying/fun? Not sure how old you are now, but do you think in ten years of this behavior that you will be happy looking back at a trail of deceit and hurt feelings with nothing to show for it? Who will the the real loser at that point? Likely the relationships you affected will be healed or long gone by that time and the participants will hopefully have found/developed loving and trusting relationships. What will you have?

 

[sweetnes11]

In an actually very serious relationship, I think it's much less likely to go down like that. About men and women handling that situation differently, I don't think gender is the paramount factor. Maybe women are slightly less likely to handle it that way. It's mostly individual I think. Women are better at hiding it, though, which is a good thing.

women are also more likely to tell on there self , to get rid of the guilt. you never know which woman it will be .
There is also women out there that try to get in a relationship just to see there husband get mad and go after there lover.

Just my thoughts on the subject !!