To a certain extent. Giving. Receiving doesn't do much for me.
Hitting, biting, a little blood drawing. It's animalistic. Choking a woman during sex is beyond erotic (note: with her permission, lol).
And surprisingly, at least in the last few years, I have yet to be with a woman that did not enjoy every last second of it. From sexual vets to somewhat sheltered younger chicks that had only slept with 2 guys before me.