What's the most f'ed up thing you're parents have ever said to you?

[tinytank]

My mother told me " I wish you were dead" and "Why don't you go kill your f*cking self"

, yeah had that one before .. also my dad has said to me, "who the hell do you think you are? i made you and i could end brake you !" i sware, i tryed not to laugh when he said that. also when i said i wanted to teach , like when i was 10 years old, he laughed in my face and told me id never make it, so dont even try.

 

[HumorMe]

My mother told me " I wish you were dead" and "Why don't you go kill your f*cking self"

That is just sad.

 

[*MissFit*]

i have been on my own for a long time.. and i don't really care about my mother.. for quite a few reason.. i dont have a connection..

when i was 4 she tucked me into bed and told me she hated me - i'm a twin, "she said your sister was planned and you were a mistake."

 

[Miss24k]

, yeah had that one before .. also my dad has said to me, "who the hell do you think you are? i made you and i could end brake you !" i sware, i tryed not to laugh when he said that. also when i said i wanted to teach , like when i was 10 years old, he laughed in my face and told me id never make it, so dont even try.

The worst part of those statements that were said to me, was when they were said. I had just got out of the hospital and had nearly died.

 

[eat big]

My dad once said to me: "I brought you into this world, and I can take you out of it."

He also said to my Mom one time: "Nothing has been the same since he was born." I was the second child.

I've posted threads on here about how to ask advice to deal with my dad. I've just given up.

 

[*MissFit*]

parents dont think kids remeber stuff but they do

 

[Hiatussin]

i have been on my own for a long time.. and i don't really care about my mother.. for quite a few reason.. i dont have a connection..

when i was 4 she tucked me into bed and told me she hated me - i'm a twin, "she said your sister was planned and you were a mistake."

I´m sorry you didn´t have a kind loving mother.

 

[Buddy_Christ]

Oh, this subject came about in a paper I had to do recently (abuse during childhood). Part of the paper was to give our opinion on things, and since I had quite a bit to say that was relevant to the overall topic, I included some of my experiences.

When I was done, I had to add a paragraph at the end telling the professor not to worry that the paper drug up repressed things from my childhood and upset me. I talked to her briefly about the paper after I turned it in. She said it is not the first time someone has included very personal things in a paper, but it was the first time a student approached her before she had a chance to read the paper. She thanked me for letting her know beforehand so she didn't worry that the paper had a negative effect on my well-being.

 

[*MissFit*]

Too be honest with u.. i dont know what i missed out on because i never had it..

My mother wasn't ever there for me.. u can't miss something u never had..

Plus i had something a lot of ppl don't have.. a twin sister.. not sure i would trade that

I´m sorry you didn´t have a kind loving mother.

 

[Hiatussin]

Do you guys think bad parented kids grow up to be bad parents or not?

is it like a thing that skips a generation? what is it?

my maternal granddad was abused and neglected as a child and became an extremely dedicated husband and father, almost sickly in selflessness.

My paternal granddad was raised mild and friendly but cold and distant. He raised my father the same way, who raised me the same way