What should I do? I am so fucking confused right now.

[DannoMight]

so, just let him get killed or get one of his younger brothers or sisters or his own son killed? man, thats hard to swallow!

Tell me about it. My closest cousin who was like my brother is on the same path. He was doing coke and taking vicodin and xanies then started dating his buddies girlfriend who was into oxycontin and now they are fucking with heroin. He got caught trying to buy a mass quantity of it and is now probably snitching on his friends to stay out of jail and keep him and his girl high. His girl got caught a few months before that with a bunch of his shit. She was all wacked out and thought he was cheating so she ran off with over 10k in cash, an oz of coke, a bottle of vics, x, and oxycontin. A total of 5 felonies. And my cuz's dumbass got her out of jail and is still with her. Then all of the sudden her ex who she left for my cuz got caught with a half bird and the newspaper said he was snitched out by an informant. And the next day my cuz got popped. Coincendince??

 

[ksharp01]

that is always tuff......the bad thing is that you can't force someone to change....it will have to come with growing up and time. Some people have to have something major happen and hit rock bottome before they decide to do anything.

Girl, I was so bad growing up my mom hadn't a clue what to do with me. I did drugs, ran away, got arrested twice, stole the family car....Yeah, me and you see how I've turned out. My dad even put me in a crazy people home because he was at his wits end with me and that didn't even do it.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

i'll pray the little dude gets better

 

[DannoMight]

so, I do nothing? Nothing at all? Child protective services for the lil ones? what? I am leaning on my EF family for help here.

Call child services. That is the best thing you can do right now to protect the kids. At least you can help the ones who aren't addicts.

 

[H_T_]

so, I do nothing? Nothing at all? Child protective services for the lil ones? what? I am leaning on my EF family for help here.

this is going to go on for 30 fucking pages with all of the arm chair dooshes chiming in. the fact is that it's not your business. help with what you can help with. but you're going to change nothing. none of those kids had a chance...

 

[jnevin]

this is going to go on for 30 fucking pages with all of the arm chair dooshes chiming in. the fact is that it's not your business. help with what you can help with. but you're going to change nothing. none of those kids had a chance...

It's really sad but true.

 

[H_T_]

so, I do nothing? Nothing at all? Child protective services for the lil ones? what? I am leaning on my EF family for help here.

they're not your kids. gonna blow every last penny putting off the inevitable? did you think they were going to be scientists or something? monkey see, monkey do....

 

[InquisitivePsyche]

You need to let him get through it on his own. Until he really hits bottom and wants to help himself, nothing you or anyone else does will work. Sorry to hear that though.

Couldn't agree with you more. 100% true. You can't force someone to get help. They have to want to get help themselves...

 

[H_T_]

It's really sad but true.

bro, it pains me to say it. it truly is terrible.

 

[H_T_]

sorry, T., but he's not your god kid anymore....