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What should I do? I am so fucking confused right now.

if you call the cops on your fuggin nephew it doesnt matter how much you help him in the long run, your gunna be hated by ur family
 
Sad Sad Sad...

Try to get a doctor to commit his is the only thing you can do, but it most likely won't work unless they want to quit.

I know three girls that gave up their kids for drugs... seems crazy... especially for a women, but it just goes to show how powerful drugs can be over someone.

Hell I was right smack dab in the middle of that shit, but never understood just how powerfull it was to some peeps until I walked away myself.... crazy.
 
HumanTarget said:
so no first hand knowledge? thought so....

I may not have firsthand knowledge of a phiscal drug addiction, but I do have firsthand knowledge of what it takes to get past a gripping mental addiction.
 
Feisty isn't the villian here. All she is guilty of is caring.

You can phone in these kind of concerns anonymously you know. It could always be a concerned teacher or neighbor or whatever.
 
AAP said:
Feisty isn't the villian here. All she is guilty of is caring.

You can phone in these kind of concerns anonymously you know. It could always be a concerned teacher or neighbor or whatever.

This has been going on for years now and no ones ever been concerned enough. I've put this off for a long time and now I am more mad and scared for the kids. Something needs to be done. He can continue with his drugs and dealing...I really don't care. I love him but he does not love himself.
 
I didn't read the entire thead... however I know of your situation... from top to bottom...

I honestly can't say anything you will do would end up positive for him, he has to actually want to stop...

Now, your sister calling you crying... etc... I know you feel horrible, and sympathy for her... but who other than herself caused this situation? Yet she wants someone else to fix it?

If you step in right now Trin... and i'm seriously looking from an outsider whom knows not a damn thing going on. You make a statement.. then it trinkles on from that... a bust, he goes to jail... so forth ...

Who is the the bad guy... YOU!!! His mother clearly knows he has a problem yet won't do any damn thing about it because she also has a problem and to do so would mean that she would have to acually straighten her life up. RIGHT?

If i were in your shoes, i would prolly step in... not go the law... but step in, try to talk to him... etc... In a nut shell... this boy knows what he has been around his whole entire life. Show him different and maybe ... just maybe... he will let all that go.

Please call me before you decide to contact anyone... I just honestly don't think you should do anyting right now without actually considering the backlash you will have and ... considering is it actually worth it? Or more worth a focus on you and your kids... You have your own things to deal with. Not that he doesn't deserve or need help... but his mother should own the fuck up and take control... right?
 
Frisky said:
I didn't read the entire thead... however I know of your situation... from top to bottom...

I honestly can't say anything you will do would end up positive for him, he has to actually want to stop...

Now, your sister calling you crying... etc... I know you feel horrible, and sympathy for her... but who other than herself caused this situation? Yet she wants someone else to fix it?

If you step in right now Trin... and i'm seriously looking from an outsider whom knows not a damn thing going on. You make a statement.. then it trinkles on from that... a bust, he goes to jail... so forth ...

Who is the the bad guy... YOU!!! His mother clearly knows he has a problem yet won't do any damn thing about it because she also has a problem and to do so would mean that she would have to acually straighten her life up. RIGHT?

If i were in your shoes, i would prolly step in... not go the law... but step in, try to talk to him... etc... In a nut shell... this boy knows what he has been around his whole entire life. Show him different and maybe ... just maybe... he will let all that go.

Please call me before you decide to contact anyone... I just honestly don't think you should do anyting right now without actually considering the backlash you will have and ... considering is it actually worth it? Or more worth a focus on you and your kids... You have your own things to deal with. Not that he doesn't deserve or need help... but his mother should own the fuck up and take control... right?
again, you are right, but I want to help the others. My oldest neice is coming with me on Sunday. shes gonna spend some time with us. The others are in school. I am just really really worried about the kids now, more than ever.
 
dannomight said:
Unfortunaltey I have a cuosin who's bad into painkillers ie oxycontin. He keeps telling everyone he's sober but whenever you see him or his girlfriend neither of them are in their right state of mind. their jaws are clenched and they're grinding their teeth and they can barely stay concious. I didn't know he was all doped out until after I had loaned him money. The sad part is his mom believes him over me and even cashed out a good chunk of her 401k to bail out his junkie girlfriend after she robbed his ass and got caught with his drugs and money. Her bond was around 10k.



Tell me about it bro... my wif's father beleives her that she is clean despite me doing everything but showing him video tape of the little bitch blowing lines.

:rolleyes:

She has tried to make this out to be something wrong with me, and she is sober. I have a letter coming from our daughter's gaurdian with her findings and the results of our drugs tests - I am going to send that to her father and the rest of her family.

I am so sick of being made out to be the bad guy and having her father beleive her bullshit.

If he'd pull his head out of his ass maybe we wouldn't be faced with her not being allowed to be aroudn her daughter without supervision. How sad is that.. a father that enables his daughter to be point that she can't be around his granddaughter.. by law.
 
nefertiti said:
I may not have firsthand knowledge of a phiscal drug addiction, but I do have firsthand knowledge of what it takes to get past a gripping mental addiction.
i didn't care for the spin you put on me. but anyway, i just stated fact. even when you do have the resources, most of the time people never get clean. if so, we'd have a hell of a lot more rock stars around....
 
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