What should I do? I am so fucking confused right now.

[Frisky]

again, you are right, but I want to help the others. My oldest neice is coming with me on Sunday. shes gonna spend some time with us. The others are in school. I am just really really worried about the kids now, more than ever.

I know you want to help... as do I and you more than anyone else knows that i do help non stop. However... do NOT put either you or you family in harm by sticking your neck out because your damn sister doesn't want to also get help and needs someone else to take care of this situation. Trin, you have your own things to deal with... and alot on your plate.

Go back to when you did step in and had the threats... You didn't do a fucking thing wrong... only try to help.. right? So... sis calls you up... (events... ) he gets arrested... and beings hes at home with mom... its an all out drug bust. Cause ya know, he is not the only one dealing or using. It eventually goes right back to you...

I know you love them and want to help... But after all you have been thru with them, do you honestly think they want help? I just don't see this situation turning anything but sour and negative. And you know what I mean by negative.

Like I said give me a call.

 

[nefertiti]

i didn't care for the spin you put on me. but anyway, i just stated fact. even when you do have the resources, most of the time people never get clean. if so, we'd have a hell of a lot more rock stars around....

I wasn't trying to spin you, HT. Even my sister has suggested that there are huge similarities between what I went through and deal with to this day and what she is dealing with. I hope for both of our sakes you are wrong.

 

[feisty11975]

I know you want to help... as do I and you more than anyone else knows that i do help non stop. However... do NOT put either you or you family in harm by sticking your neck out because your damn sister doesn't want to also get help and needs someone else to take care of this situation. Trin, you have your own things to deal with... and alot on your plate.

Go back to when you did step in and had the threats... You didn't do a fucking thing wrong... only try to help.. right? So... sis calls you up... (events... ) he gets arrested... and beings hes at home with mom... its an all out drug bust. Cause ya know, he is not the only one dealing or using. It eventually goes right back to you...

I know you love them and want to help... But after all you have been thru with them, do you honestly think they want help? I just don't see this situation turning anything but sour and negative. And you know what I mean by negative.

Like I said give me a call.

thanks, I'll try to call you this afternoon.

 

[Frisky]

lol what drugs you guys are probably overreacting like fucking crazy, typical whiney women.

for real though, offer him your vag

so i fucking decide to read a few post and this is what you have to offer...?

Fucking living off of mom and dad stero typical prep bitch? Seriously... I really thought you were past trying to be a hard ass to gain acceptance around here... But I guess you are still stuck in that 14yr old mind frame eh...

that comment was totally uncalled for and quite disturbing. But then again I am actually responding to a little pussy ass bitch that thinks stupid shit like this actually impresses people.

wow...

fuck the fuck off.

 

[Sub-Zero]

Feisty isn't the villian here. All she is guilty of is caring.

You can phone in these kind of concerns anonymously you know. It could always be a concerned teacher or neighbor or whatever.

agreed but nobody who will be involved will think of it that way..


i picture it as the same sceneario as if you should tell your friend his GF is doggin him

 

[H_T_]

I wasn't trying to spin you, HT. Even my sister has suggested that there are huge similarities between what I went through and deal with to this day and what she is dealing with. I hope for both of our sakes you are wrong.

i lost my sister when i was 14.

 

[feisty11975]

so i fucking decide to read a few post and this is what you have to offer...?

Fucking living off of mom and dad stero typical prep bitch? Seriously... I really thought you were past trying to be a hard ass to gain acceptance around here... But I guess you are still stuck in that 14yr old mind frame eh...

that comment was totally uncalled for and quite disturbing. But then again I am actually responding to a little pussy ass bitch that thinks stupid shit like this actually impresses people.

wow...

fuck the fuck off.

DAYUM

 

[Megalomaniac]

It is going to take something significant to change him. I don't know the guy so I can't even begin to guess what makes him tic. For some it is something like a loss, for someone else it may be seeing others messed up. No matter what is is he won't change until he sees the "light" and realizes there is more. It took a lot for me to change, finally I just felt I was wasting opportunity. I still jones all the time but know I'm better off this way, he will have to find that thing that makes him change. I think others can only help point him in that direction.

 

[Frisky]

agreed but nobody who will be involved will think of it that way..


i picture it as the same sceneario as if you should tell your friend his GF is doggin him

grow the fuck up and get in the real life... and that doesn't include mom and dads basement you fucking twit.

 

[nefertiti]

i lost my sister when i was 14.

I am genuinely sorry to hear this. But I hope you understand why I'm not going to see my own sister as a lost cause, and why I'll always do whatever I can to get her through this.