What should I do? I am so fucking confused right now.

[feisty11975]

my godchild, who is 18 now, is really bad off on drugs. My sister, who never calls me, just called crying. Telling me she does not know what to do. I feel like someone needs to do something before he ends up dead. I am thinking about calling the police and narc him out. Just so he can get some help. There is no one who could bond him out so he'd have to do time. fuck...I feel like I have to do something. He's gonna end up dead.

 

[jnevin]

You need to let him get through it on his own. Until he really hits bottom and wants to help himself, nothing you or anyone else does will work. Sorry to hear that though.

 

[all the whey]

my godchild, who is 18 now, is really bad off on drugs. My sister, who never calls me, just called crying. Telling me she does not know what to do. I feel like someone needs to do something before he ends up dead. I am thinking about calling the police and narc him out. Just so he can get some help. There is no one who could bond him out so he'd have to do time. fuck...I feel like I have to do something. He's gonna end up dead.

Narcing him out could help in in the long run. But, if your family found out they may not see it that way.

Give me his email. I will send him some appropriate kitteh pics to help him out.

 

[Turd Ferguson]

hard situation. thing is people have to want the help. Unfortunately it takes a few times of rock bottom to get them to that usually. Sorry to hear that.

 

[feisty11975]

You need to let him get through it on his own. Until he really hits bottom and wants to help himself, nothing you or anyone else does will work. Sorry to hear that though.

this has been going on for years now. I remember him being 14 and being all fucked up. Hes never going to want to help himself. He does not even see a problem.

 

[stilleto]

that sucks feisty. I don't know what you should do, but definately discuss it with your sister before you do anything.

 

[feisty11975]

that sucks feisty. I don't know what you should do, but definately discuss it with your sister before you do anything.

I just did. She doesn't wanna be the one to turn him in. I told her that I would. I don't wanna see him dead which is where he will be, SOON at the rate hes going.

Did I mention that my sister and my oldest nephew are hooked too? Just not as bad as my godchild. This sucks. My godchild has a 3 year old son and my oldest nephew has a 5 month old. Poor fucking kids. Man, I wish I could go get all the lil ones and fuck the rest. Let them live with their drugs and drug dealing. Its gonna be one of the innocent ones that will end up hurt or dead.

 

[heatherrae]

Have your sister Bakers Act him, if that is available in LA. In many states, you can have them put in a hospital, against their will, for 48 hours. In that time, they may detox him some and an intervention may be possible before he leaves the grounds. It will require her hiring an attorney.

 

[cindylou]

wow feisty. I dont know.
Sorry you have to be dealing with that.

 

[feisty11975]

Have your sister Bakers Act him, if that is available in LA. In many states, you can have them put in a hospital, against their will, for 48 hours. In that time, they may detox him some and an intervention may be possible before he leaves the grounds. It will require her hiring an attorney.

My sister won't do it and even if she was willing, they are broke white trash. No phone, no cable, barely have enough for utilities.